A big problem... literally. G/F is getting fat and she wants me to marry her!! HELP!
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Originally Posted by WantsAHemi
I don't have anything against a slightly chubby girl, I think its okay. Actually I would perfer a slightly chubby girl to a skinny girl with bones showing.
Another thing I forgot to mention I got her pregnant in 2004, about 2 years into our relationship. Thats when things made a turn for the worse. Well she had an abortion 2 months into the pregnancy, and her body still went to the crapper after that. She packed on about 20-30 lbs that year, after going from the pills to the "shot". I was like...ummm... okay hinting to her that maybe we shouldn't go out and eat too much anymore and eat more healthy.
When she hit the 160-170ish mark, I was very concern, I even hinted to her that maybe we should join the gym together. Well thats when we signed up and she never goes. It actually felt like she turned into "the beast" over night, since I don't see her everyday, maybe twice a week since she lives about 2 hours from me.
Another thing I forgot to mention I got her pregnant in 2004, about 2 years into our relationship. Thats when things made a turn for the worse. Well she had an abortion 2 months into the pregnancy, and her body still went to the crapper after that. She packed on about 20-30 lbs that year, after going from the pills to the "shot". I was like...ummm... okay hinting to her that maybe we shouldn't go out and eat too much anymore and eat more healthy.
When she hit the 160-170ish mark, I was very concern, I even hinted to her that maybe we should join the gym together. Well thats when we signed up and she never goes. It actually felt like she turned into "the beast" over night, since I don't see her everyday, maybe twice a week since she lives about 2 hours from me.
1. I know there is a medical condition that happens when you impregnate a girl. My mom for example, she used to be like wicked thin before she had me. After that, she had a lot of problems with excess water and fat issues. She tried excercising, but it never helped. She eats about 1/2 of what I eat a day. She is still overweight.
2. Gyms. Ha ha ha... I would never go to a gym. Unless you want to get jacked or you need rehab of sort. Other than that, true excercise is running/jogging with partial aerobics twice a week. That will not only burn pounds quick... but it is what the body actually needs. I only like elliptical workout in a gym... but I often keep them to a minimum. The best is to run outside or find an indoor track facility at a college. They have no problem with people running in them, as long as you follow the rules... but you shouldn't have to really worry about it.
But her some nice workout clothes... and such.
Heck... when I run or bike.. I go all out with the spandex and everything... girls love it.
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Here it is in a nutshell: If you truly love someone, it doesn't matter what they look like. Your putting conditions on your love, that's not fair to her or you. When I met my wife I knew she was the one, I lost interest in all other women. About a year ago some of my buddies (2 of which are married) dragged me to the strip club with them. The whole time we were there all I kept hearing from them was "oh I'd like to sleep with her", "aww man, I'd do her".
After about 2 1/2 hours of this I had enough, I put on my coat and started to leave. My friends asked me where I was going the best was still coming, I said "I'm tired of listening to you guys drool over all these women that wouldn't give you the time of day if you weren't stuffing 20's in their g-strings". "I'm going home because there's a women there that wants to sleep with me".
This is what it's all about, if you can't commit yourself to that women completely and accept her for who she is, then let her go because she deserves better then you.
After about 2 1/2 hours of this I had enough, I put on my coat and started to leave. My friends asked me where I was going the best was still coming, I said "I'm tired of listening to you guys drool over all these women that wouldn't give you the time of day if you weren't stuffing 20's in their g-strings". "I'm going home because there's a women there that wants to sleep with me".
This is what it's all about, if you can't commit yourself to that women completely and accept her for who she is, then let her go because she deserves better then you.
This thread is evidence you don't know what love is.
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Originally Posted by WantsAHemi
Okay guys, the following might sound real shallow but I have no idea what to do. I gotta vent a little.
Rewind back 6 years, I met this beautiful girl at a friends birthday party, she was 19 at the time..beautiful face, gorgeous body, gorgeous legs. I figured she was way out of my league, both looks and financially wise. Her parents were super rich, dad was a general practice doctor, her mom owned this wedding dress boutique. She was 19 driving a brand new BMW 540i for godsakes, a present from her parents. Although she was spoiled, she was real down to earth and not conceited.
Well found out that she recently broke up with her b/f, so I moved in to be that "rebound" guy. It worked, and she became my woman. Well months pass and she finally introduced me to her parents, when I met her mom I was like wowsers, who let the rhino out of its cage. She was short and fat, we're talking 5ft flat and close to 200lbs. My friends were telling me that the apple doesn't fall too far from the tree, I was like no way my g.f would ever be fat. She just doesn't doesn't have the figure.
Now fast forward to present day, my g/f is a complete lardass! =( She is like 5'2" and weighs in about 230-240lbs. Her **** went from perfect 34Cs to gigantic 38DD's.. and to top it off they sag now since they are so big. Her belly hangs out and I can literally lift it up and down, her legs are so fat now that she wobbles when she walks. Its completely disgusting.
She blames it on the birth control pills, but no way will birth control pills add 110-120lbs to you. She signed up for gyms yet never goes, and even if she were to lose weight now, she will have all this extra skin flapping around. The problem now is sex with her is revolting, I have to close my eyes and try to imagine my ex gf just to stay hard. When she is on top her stomach is jiggling like a tub of Jello Lard. Gross. She constantly asks me when am I going to propose to her and we could get married, I constantly try and make some excuse. My excuses are running out. I love her so much, but sex with her makes me want to vomit. I know sex is a very important part of a marriage, so it will never work out. I don't want to cheat on her...but its like I'm craving sex and I don't want it with her. After I finished boning her, I don't feel satisfied, I feel disgusted.
I feel like I'm trapped, I've invested 6 years of my life with her and I really don't want to start over. I'm already in my late 20s. Also when we go out in public, I make sure to walk about 4-5 feet ahead of her, to make sure nobody knows she's with me.
Rewind back 6 years, I met this beautiful girl at a friends birthday party, she was 19 at the time..beautiful face, gorgeous body, gorgeous legs. I figured she was way out of my league, both looks and financially wise. Her parents were super rich, dad was a general practice doctor, her mom owned this wedding dress boutique. She was 19 driving a brand new BMW 540i for godsakes, a present from her parents. Although she was spoiled, she was real down to earth and not conceited.
Well found out that she recently broke up with her b/f, so I moved in to be that "rebound" guy. It worked, and she became my woman. Well months pass and she finally introduced me to her parents, when I met her mom I was like wowsers, who let the rhino out of its cage. She was short and fat, we're talking 5ft flat and close to 200lbs. My friends were telling me that the apple doesn't fall too far from the tree, I was like no way my g.f would ever be fat. She just doesn't doesn't have the figure.
Now fast forward to present day, my g/f is a complete lardass! =( She is like 5'2" and weighs in about 230-240lbs. Her **** went from perfect 34Cs to gigantic 38DD's.. and to top it off they sag now since they are so big. Her belly hangs out and I can literally lift it up and down, her legs are so fat now that she wobbles when she walks. Its completely disgusting.
She blames it on the birth control pills, but no way will birth control pills add 110-120lbs to you. She signed up for gyms yet never goes, and even if she were to lose weight now, she will have all this extra skin flapping around. The problem now is sex with her is revolting, I have to close my eyes and try to imagine my ex gf just to stay hard. When she is on top her stomach is jiggling like a tub of Jello Lard. Gross. She constantly asks me when am I going to propose to her and we could get married, I constantly try and make some excuse. My excuses are running out. I love her so much, but sex with her makes me want to vomit. I know sex is a very important part of a marriage, so it will never work out. I don't want to cheat on her...but its like I'm craving sex and I don't want it with her. After I finished boning her, I don't feel satisfied, I feel disgusted.
I feel like I'm trapped, I've invested 6 years of my life with her and I really don't want to start over. I'm already in my late 20s. Also when we go out in public, I make sure to walk about 4-5 feet ahead of her, to make sure nobody knows she's with me.
Tell you you fell in love with the old her. Shes fat and revolting....
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Originally Posted by mSaLL150
Aren't you like 5'2?
Originally Posted by JBMX928
manual save the pics, i dont want em.
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Originally Posted by Speedy8
haha he actually uses the running boards to reach the door handle.
I need a ladder to get to the running boards, then I lassú a rope to the door handle and do a vertical climb to the handle. I then sit on the handle, and get my key and insert it into the lock and turn it using my feet. I then pull it out, stand up and get the key and use it as a wedge to pry open the door handle to open the door. The whole door unlocks and is open a little bit. I then climb down my rope, back to the running board. I then get back on my ladder and climb down to the ground. I then get my rope, and start pulling it to open the door wide enough so I can get in. I then get on my ladder and climb up to the running board, and then I climb into the cab. I then climb on to the seat, and with my other rope, I lassú the interior door handle and pull on it until the door shuts. I then open the window, and I use the rope that I used to close the door to use as a safety anchor to climb outside and untie the rope for the exterior door handle. After which I use the rope that is attached to the interior door handle to drag myself back in the cab. I then untie that rope. Then I dive into the drivers seat, crank the window closed...
Don't ask how many steps there are to driving this truck... no wonder why I am so thin... doing all that F150 body climbing.
