Okay guys, the following might sound real shallow but I have no idea what to do. I gotta vent a little.

Rewind back 6 years, I met this beautiful girl at a friends birthday party, she was 19 at the time..beautiful face, gorgeous body, gorgeous legs. I figured she was way out of my league, both looks and financially wise. Her parents were super rich, dad was a general practice doctor, her mom owned this wedding dress boutique. She was 19 driving a brand new BMW 540i for godsakes, a present from her parents. Although she was spoiled, she was real down to earth and not conceited.

Well found out that she recently broke up with her b/f, so I moved in to be that "rebound" guy. It worked, and she became my woman. Well months pass and she finally introduced me to her parents, when I met her mom I was like wowsers, who let the rhino out of its cage. She was short and fat, we're talking 5ft flat and close to 200lbs. My friends were telling me that the apple doesn't fall too far from the tree, I was like no way my g.f would ever be fat. She just doesn't doesn't have the figure.

Now fast forward to present day, my g/f is a complete lardass! =( She is like 5'2" and weighs in about 230-240lbs. Her **** went from perfect 34Cs to gigantic 38DD's.. and to top it off they sag now since they are so big. Her belly hangs out and I can literally lift it up and down, her legs are so fat now that she wobbles when she walks. Its completely disgusting.

She blames it on the birth control pills, but no way will birth control pills add 110-120lbs to you. She signed up for gyms yet never goes, and even if she were to lose weight now, she will have all this extra skin flapping around. The problem now is sex with her is revolting, I have to close my eyes and try to imagine my ex gf just to stay hard. When she is on top her stomach is jiggling like a tub of Jello Lard. Gross. She constantly asks me when am I going to propose to her and we could get married, I constantly try and make some excuse. My excuses are running out. I love her so much, but sex with her makes me want to vomit. I know sex is a very important part of a marriage, so it will never work out. I don't want to cheat on her...but its like I'm craving sex and I don't want it with her. After I finished boning her, I don't feel satisfied, I feel disgusted.

I feel like I'm trapped, I've invested 6 years of my life with her and I really don't want to start over. I'm already in my late 20s. Also when we go out in public, I make sure to walk about 4-5 feet ahead of her, to make sure nobody knows she's with me.

 

I think I'll watch this one.

I'm just going to go by that saying, 'If you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything.'

 

Wait until the 09's come out.

 

I think the answer is obvious..... cut your losses. You were foolish to not listen to your friends when they told you she'd end up fat. You were foolish to not realize it yourself, and you are foolish for continuing on with the relationship. You can try telling her how you feel, but no matter how you say it, I can't imagine it turning out good. Its not so bad being in your late 20's and single. I think its actually kind of fun.

 

lol Is this a joke? hahaha this is awesome. I wanna see who is the first person to attack you for this thread.

 

this is probably fake.

 

While I'm tempted to let the shallowness spew from my keyboard and start in with the "Fat Chick" jokes, I will refrain.

Chances are she's not going to lose it. If she's got a gym pass and she's not using now, it is doubtful that she will in the future. If her bad qualities "out weigh" her good qualities, you owe it to her and yourself to move on. If her weight is that much of an issue for you and you are this unhappy now, I can promise you that you aren't going to be any happier further down the road.

You're imagining tapping someone else because sex with her repulses you that much, then I think the only proper thing to do is bail... It's a lot less expensive than a divorce will be, which sounds like the end result based on your post. Good luck. Got any pics?

 

Was it his username that gave it away?

 

Hmmmm, Lets see here, Shall we? You hung out with her through her Growing Years...........Yes? Now you have to pay the Piper!.........Man up, & do the right thing! Marry her, & multiply the human species with her! You've already been with her for quite some time, so whats the rest of your life now?...........You can do it! I know you can!.............

 

chits and giggles

 

Not to mention his usual provoking posts only to get attention and to stir the pot.

 

Just so he could make more total hotties but when they grow up they turn into total fat bombs? Please no

 

Nope, its not. I figured I come here to vent since not a lot of people here like me, they will give me their honest opinion on what to do and not try and sugar coat it.

 

To prove it, well have to see pics of before and after, and if we dont believe them, then youll have to provide pics of you in them in different before and after pics.

 

We need a lot of before pics, just to prove your legit.