A big problem... literally. G/F is getting fat and she wants me to marry her!! HELP!
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From: Windsor, Ont.
Not saying advice here isn't valid, but if you need to ask members of a pickup truck forum marital advice, somethings wrong. This has too many red flags before marriage is even considered. She can loose the weight, but if you are this shallow now and it bugs you this much, why not discuss it with her. That and you are looking at financial gain for yourself as a reason to stay? The better question is why is SHE wanting to stick around? I'm not trying to be a *****, just it seems like you're wanting her because she has a cool car or something. Even cool cars rust and get old so there should be more to this. Remember too, fat chicks try harder
Originally Posted by ManualF150
Well... somehow like... I dunno... do some kind destructor in the member class function... and then get her to eat a microSD chip with the program on it...
Do something along the lines of this:
#include <new>
#include <iostream>
using namespace std;
class whatieat {
public:
whatieat() { cout << "constructwhatieat::whatieat()" << endl; }
~whatieat() { cout << "destructwhatieat::~whatieat()" << endl; }
};
int main () {
char* p = new char[sizeof(whatieat)];
whatieat* ap = new (p) whatieat;
ap->whatieat::~whatieat();
delete [] p;
return 0;
}
Make sure you compile it with a g++ compiler and you'll be set.
Do something along the lines of this:
#include <new>
#include <iostream>
using namespace std;
class whatieat {
public:
whatieat() { cout << "constructwhatieat::whatieat()" << endl; }
~whatieat() { cout << "destructwhatieat::~whatieat()" << endl; }
};
int main () {
char* p = new char[sizeof(whatieat)];
whatieat* ap = new (p) whatieat;
ap->whatieat::~whatieat();
delete [] p;
return 0;
}
Make sure you compile it with a g++ compiler and you'll be set.
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I heard that smoking crack can make you thinner. Maybe you could suggest she start smoking crack? 
I've actually been in this situation. We had been going together for about four years and decided to move in together. A year after moving in together she put on eighty pounds. That was about eight years ago. She's lost the weight and is a health nut now. She's got me eating better too. We've decided to get married this year.
If your going to hang in there it's got to be for something more than great looks and money. If that's what your looking for, move on now.
I've actually been in this situation. We had been going together for about four years and decided to move in together. A year after moving in together she put on eighty pounds. That was about eight years ago. She's lost the weight and is a health nut now. She's got me eating better too. We've decided to get married this year.
If your going to hang in there it's got to be for something more than great looks and money. If that's what your looking for, move on now.
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If your going to hang in there it's got to be for something more than great looks and money. If that's what your looking for, move on now.[/QUOTE]
This, my friend, says it all!
Also, don't fall in love for money, but let your love fall where the money lies. There is a difference.
This, my friend, says it all!
Also, don't fall in love for money, but let your love fall where the money lies. There is a difference.
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From: Vernon, NY
Originally Posted by Shinesintx
You have several choices...
1) Tell her you must be true to her, and yourself...Tell her you are gay, and you are sorry.
2) Tell her your darkest and most twisted fantasies...you can make some of it up...such as midgets, and farm animals. Do not tell her you are a pedophile, that is just sick, and you could go to jail.
3) Admit your disgust towards her. Let her know, that it is not shallow, to want to make yourself happy.
4) Disappear...Seriously, pack it up, and start a new life somewhere else.
5) Join the peace corps?
6) Hit on her mom, and ask for a threesome...with the dad.
7) Buy a Miata...She will never fit.
You can make it happen...You just have to man up! BTW, all of these suggestions will work. You just need to figure out what is best for you. Since you are posing this question, whatever you do, you need to leave her. Because eventually, later down the road, you will do something that hurts her worse. Remember, money cannot buy happiness, but it can buy a hot hooker from New York!
1) Tell her you must be true to her, and yourself...Tell her you are gay, and you are sorry.
2) Tell her your darkest and most twisted fantasies...you can make some of it up...such as midgets, and farm animals. Do not tell her you are a pedophile, that is just sick, and you could go to jail.
3) Admit your disgust towards her. Let her know, that it is not shallow, to want to make yourself happy.
4) Disappear...Seriously, pack it up, and start a new life somewhere else.
5) Join the peace corps?
6) Hit on her mom, and ask for a threesome...with the dad.
7) Buy a Miata...She will never fit.
You can make it happen...You just have to man up! BTW, all of these suggestions will work. You just need to figure out what is best for you. Since you are posing this question, whatever you do, you need to leave her. Because eventually, later down the road, you will do something that hurts her worse. Remember, money cannot buy happiness, but it can buy a hot hooker from New York!
I think that in itself would be enough too much.
Originally Posted by NCSU_05_FX4
HAHAHA.... dork.
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From: Rhode Island
Originally Posted by Enoch
Tell her shes a fat **** and get the hell out. Any chick over 200 lbs is a huge! Hell any chick over 160 that isnt tall is huge! Fat chicks are like mopeds. They are fun to ride but don't let anyone see you do it!
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You guys are seriously shallow. I think everyone who's posted negative things here should post up pics not only of yourself... but also your better half! Willin to bet some of ya'll from the Southern states are with "not so skinny" but rather corn fed/bred kin folk.
Gimme a break.
Gimme a break.
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From: Houston, TX
Originally Posted by Turbo77
You guys are seriously shallow. I think everyone who's posted negative things here should post up pics not only of yourself... but also your better half! Willin to bet some of ya'll from the Southern states are with "not so skinny" but rather corn fed/bred kin folk.
Gimme a break.
Gimme a break.
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From: Hammer Lane
Originally Posted by Turbo77
You guys are seriously shallow. I think everyone who's posted negative things here should post up pics not only of yourself... but also your better half! Willin to bet some of ya'll from the Southern states are with "not so skinny" but rather corn fed/bred kin folk.
Gimme a break.
Gimme a break.
How is not wanting to be with someone who doesn't care enough about themselves to stay healthy and maintain a good physical appearance qualify as shallow? Too many people pretend not to care about obesity in this country. That's one of the reasons we are so friggin' big here. It's a serious health issue, that costs us a lot of money every year in health insurance prices and taxes.
I often wonder if the guys who date fat women, do it because they are attracted to fat girls, or because fat girls are all they can get. Of course, if your family is full of porkers, and you've been around it all your life, maybe it's not that big of a deal to you. To me, it's a very big deal.
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When you've been with someone for 6yrs and all of a sudden realize they've magically changed physically, and you feel the need to walk ahead of them in public. That's shallow. Basically it's saying that she was only arm candy, and there was nothing on a deeper level to constitute a real relationship in the first place.
I think she should dump OP first... cause it seems more like he's a gold digger.
Maybe my morals are a lil different. But looks and money aren't all that counts.
Or maybe it's cause they have a great personality? Sense of humor? I digress though... you care only about looks. Sorry, didn't mean to confuse the issue at hand here. 
I think she should dump OP first... cause it seems more like he's a gold digger.
Maybe my morals are a lil different. But looks and money aren't all that counts.
Originally Posted by Odin's Wrath
I often wonder if the guys who date fat women, do it because they are attracted to fat girls, or because fat girls are all they can get. Of course, if your family is full of porkers, and you've been around it all your life, maybe it's not that big of a deal to you. To me, it's a very big deal.
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From: Hammer Lane
Originally Posted by Turbo77
When you've been with someone for 6yrs and all of a sudden realize they've magically changed physically, and you feel the need to walk ahead of them in public. That's shallow. Basically it's saying that she was only arm candy, and there was nothing on a deeper level to constitute a real relationship in the first place.
I think she should dump OP first... cause it seems more like he's a gold digger.
Maybe my morals are a lil different. But looks and money aren't all that counts.
I think she should dump OP first... cause it seems more like he's a gold digger.
Maybe my morals are a lil different. But looks and money aren't all that counts.
In the OP's case, I think that's what almost everyone in this thread thinks about him. We've been having a little fun with the thread. I agree that we haven't been particularly sensitive to the feelings of large women in the process.
Originally Posted by Turbo77
Or maybe it's cause they have a great personality? Sense of humor? I digress though... you care only about looks. Sorry, didn't mean to confuse the issue at hand here.
You don't know me. Looks are important; but, if the personality isn't there to go with it, then looks don't mean crap. If I meet someone who is taking good care of themself, just to catch a man, and then lets themself go after they have me, then they are not the girl for me. That's a lie, and it shows a lack of respect for me and herself. Now if she gets sick, and it's no fault of her own, that's a whole other story.