Change - Explain Your Thoughts
1) This site does NOT need to make any changes to appease those that feel a different direction would be more to their liking.
Why? You joined a free site that had ESTABLISHED rules that you agreed to before you joined. Maybe it is time for some to move on because they have gained the knowledge that they sought, and other avenues are in order due to their elevated expertise. They must have simply outgrown the rest of us, and are too advanced to tolerate the elementary questions that are continually posted.
2) This site does not need a "****, or adult forum."
Why? You have to be a complete moron, and inept at finding other sites if one is in need of getting their jollies. Adult content is everywhere on the web for those who seek it.
There are three types of forum members...
a. Those who want a clean site, and will leave if it changes.
b. Those who want this site to have an "Adult" forum, and will not leave even if it does not happen.
c. Those who will leave because they cannot have their desires satisfied.
The A's and B's are the majority. The C's will be missed. Somewhat...
3) Cursing, should remain filtered. If you dislike it, then refer to Section 2 line C.
Why? Those that can only convey their emotions with four letter words are weak minded to begin with. Inventing new and creative ways to express that others should explore animal husbandry in a way that is not explicit is much more desirable
I have more, but I need to be attentive to my 2 year old daughter. See ya shortly...
Why? You joined a free site that had ESTABLISHED rules that you agreed to before you joined. Maybe it is time for some to move on because they have gained the knowledge that they sought, and other avenues are in order due to their elevated expertise. They must have simply outgrown the rest of us, and are too advanced to tolerate the elementary questions that are continually posted.
2) This site does not need a "****, or adult forum."
Why? You have to be a complete moron, and inept at finding other sites if one is in need of getting their jollies. Adult content is everywhere on the web for those who seek it.
There are three types of forum members...
a. Those who want a clean site, and will leave if it changes.
b. Those who want this site to have an "Adult" forum, and will not leave even if it does not happen.
c. Those who will leave because they cannot have their desires satisfied.
The A's and B's are the majority. The C's will be missed. Somewhat...
3) Cursing, should remain filtered. If you dislike it, then refer to Section 2 line C.
Why? Those that can only convey their emotions with four letter words are weak minded to begin with. Inventing new and creative ways to express that others should explore animal husbandry in a way that is not explicit is much more desirable

I have more, but I need to be attentive to my 2 year old daughter. See ya shortly...
Ok then IMO the strait up ****/**** should get canned ASAP It has no place here.. but maybe the threads that skirt the line should get a second mod to approve the lock/delete. IDK Just a thought maybe it won't work
I guess I haven't noticed any real changes in policy here. If anyone has been around to other "automotive" boards, this place is actually quite refreshing with the exception of the General Discussion forum.
The GD section has gone downhill NOT because of management, but because of all the whining. Everyone likes to push the envelope once in awhile, but it used to be done in fun. Jamz, UC, D, Bill (can't remember his handle),Kobi, Hersh, Raoul, even Quintin and the like could all put a slapdown on someone to where they had to laugh too, but then a bunch of whiney newby's came in and got twisted over little comments.
Then came the porno pushers who make it so I have to screen any thread before I feel comfortable letting my kids in eyeshot of the computer.
What exactly is "Adult" about swearing like a sailor and posting stupid pictures of people who have no respect for themselves?
You have a tough job RP. You'll never please all of us. Just do what you think is right and don't worry about us. Those who like it enough will stay, and those who don't will continue to whine about any other board they go to anyway.
For F150 info, this place is the bomb!
The GD section has gone downhill NOT because of management, but because of all the whining. Everyone likes to push the envelope once in awhile, but it used to be done in fun. Jamz, UC, D, Bill (can't remember his handle),Kobi, Hersh, Raoul, even Quintin and the like could all put a slapdown on someone to where they had to laugh too, but then a bunch of whiney newby's came in and got twisted over little comments.
Then came the porno pushers who make it so I have to screen any thread before I feel comfortable letting my kids in eyeshot of the computer.
What exactly is "Adult" about swearing like a sailor and posting stupid pictures of people who have no respect for themselves?
You have a tough job RP. You'll never please all of us. Just do what you think is right and don't worry about us. Those who like it enough will stay, and those who don't will continue to whine about any other board they go to anyway.
For F150 info, this place is the bomb!
We've got a moderator who shut down a thread because it simply "could of" been a problem or he didn't like the thread. The guy posted early in the thread that he was going to let is stay around for a little bit just to see the responses but had every intention of locking it or removing it before it even played out. Not very fair. It never became a problem and everyone was keeping it clean because they wanted it to stay around to get their voice heard. Locking it down was just a show of power.
Should the thread have been locked? Probably; the thread admittedly would have turned into a train wreck around page 7 or 8 I imagine. I do not agree with the situation or condition upon which it was locked though. It's damn near impossible minus a few grievous exceptions to determine how a thread is gonna pan out, given all the personalities and posters we have here, without letting it run its course, for better or worse. That is the point of a forum, is it not? To discuss topics amongst several individuals, with differing opinions?
I would have rather had the moderator just keep quiet and let the damn thing run its course for a while, then lock it down. Telling us that it's gonna be locked accomplishes nothing. Absolutely nothing.
Quintin -- lots of the time, we don't have time to sit here and watch it leave the tracks. I respectfully disagree that it's internet '**** swinging' with power... it does serve a purpose and has a very good reason to happen some of the time.
I mean this question with absolute and all due respect, Quintin but, if you concur that it was going to leave the tracks in a miserable wreck - and potentially (I'm adding this on my own) cause someone to get a dismissal and more of a pain in the butt for us on this side of the road, why would we not kill it early?
Before you say it though... it would, indeed, be like a cop pulling over a Lambo and giving him a ticket for speeding even though he was going 53 in a 55 zone....
It's a fair arguement, sir. I just disagree that it's not needed sometimes.
I mean this question with absolute and all due respect, Quintin but, if you concur that it was going to leave the tracks in a miserable wreck - and potentially (I'm adding this on my own) cause someone to get a dismissal and more of a pain in the butt for us on this side of the road, why would we not kill it early?
Before you say it though... it would, indeed, be like a cop pulling over a Lambo and giving him a ticket for speeding even though he was going 53 in a 55 zone....
It's a fair arguement, sir. I just disagree that it's not needed sometimes.
The only complaint I have is why do all the TROLL'S get to roam freely around this site? I'm fairly new to this site and I have noticed a bunch of post's made by WANTSAHEMI and he is still running around here stirring the pot! I'm not trying to promote pornography or bending of any rules but if your gonna discipline member's for posting dirty word's then you should stick to your word and ban the TROLL's that don't have anything positive to say around here!
The only complaint I have is why do all the TROLL'S get to roam freely around this site? I'm fairly new to this site and I have noticed a bunch of post's made by WANTSAHEMI and he is still running around here stirring the pot! I'm not trying to promote pornography or bending of any rules but if your gonna discipline member's for posting dirty word's then you should stick to your word and ban the TROLL's that don't have anything positive to say around here!
By self-policing, use the
button aside each post on the site. If you see something that warrants a look from us, click it and report the post. Sometimes you'll note that we remove the post... other times you may never see the person again. *shrugs*... sometimes you'll see nothing done.
Rest assured that, if you report it, it'll get a look. All that we ask is that no one abuse the feature. That has rarely been the case but, it has happend.
Thanks, Sling.
-RP-
The membership has changed. There are a group that expect instant help and are argumentative if they do not like the FREE help they are given. There is also a trend towards young guns that foster the disrespectful nature we have been seeing lately. Respect is something that should be given automatically to all people. It is only taken away when someone does something to warrant disrespect. Some of the kids today think that they do not have to treat people they never met with respect because that person hasn't earned it yet. That is backwards. Imagine how bad the world would be if we truly disrespected everyone until we got to know them. I commend the young members that are respectful of others. I know a lot of us long time members appreciate it. We were young once too.

None that I can think of. I enjoyed the Hot chick thread but at the end of its life **** was being posted and I can go to other sites for that.
I did not think Thump deserved it but that was cleared up. The others deserved it.
I did not see them all as some were removed before i logged back in so I cannot cite any.
I think you have done a good job in spite of the crap that gets piled on you.
As long as the rules are fairly applied to all by all mods there should be no problems. You cannot have rules in all forums except one. Creating a special forum where the rules are loosely enforced just weakens the rules and makes them harder for a mod to fairly enforce.
Norm... man, that is SPOT on. Thank you for that post.
Just a note or two... Thumper's ban was removed within a couple of minutes. Again, it was caused because of a cursory view of the problematic thread. Once I took the time to go through it, if Thump was dismissed, I would've had to have removed about 20 people... hahaha... Thump's ban was incorrect - as would've been the other 19.
The TEN comparison is INCREDIBLY good.
It's tough to have every moderator singing from the same sheet of music but, for the most part, a small staff (as we currently have and have had over the -- well, for as long as I've been a moderator -- I was the last moderator added to the site until Stealth joined a few days ago) and have been very successful.
Just a note or two... Thumper's ban was removed within a couple of minutes. Again, it was caused because of a cursory view of the problematic thread. Once I took the time to go through it, if Thump was dismissed, I would've had to have removed about 20 people... hahaha... Thump's ban was incorrect - as would've been the other 19.
The TEN comparison is INCREDIBLY good.
It's tough to have every moderator singing from the same sheet of music but, for the most part, a small staff (as we currently have and have had over the -- well, for as long as I've been a moderator -- I was the last moderator added to the site until Stealth joined a few days ago) and have been very successful.
The same rules for everyone, across the board. I've seen mods skirt the lanuguage filter.
If someone posts a complaint about the new upgrades, mods shouldn't be replying "super-tee-duper". If a response can't be given any better than that, let someone else handle it.
I'm jumping on the "adult section" bandwagon although I do recall Hersh making some threads with some pretty ladies in it and nothing happening to those threads. I don't see any problem with posting a pretty face now and then. Now this isn't the place for pics with nether regions covered by iPods, but there's nothing wrong with a bathing suit. Kids see that and more on TV and at the beach/pool/etc.
I really don't think anyone here is out to take this site down.
If someone posts a complaint about the new upgrades, mods shouldn't be replying "super-tee-duper". If a response can't be given any better than that, let someone else handle it.
I'm jumping on the "adult section" bandwagon although I do recall Hersh making some threads with some pretty ladies in it and nothing happening to those threads. I don't see any problem with posting a pretty face now and then. Now this isn't the place for pics with nether regions covered by iPods, but there's nothing wrong with a bathing suit. Kids see that and more on TV and at the beach/pool/etc.
I really don't think anyone here is out to take this site down.
I used to work as a bartender/bouncer in this little country bar in my hometown. I showed up to work at 4pm everyday and started prepping. The bar opened at 5pm and the regulars (all of them) showed up within 30 minutes.
They were all a real good bunch of people. Granted, they were total alcoholics, but still good people.
The vast majority of the time, everybody got along just fine.
Well, for about a month or so, a couple of the more exciting regulars didn't make it to the bar. Things got kinda dull. Well, one night everybody was particularly soused and the "local bar *****" decided she should lay down on the pool table in a less-than-subtle position. Another patron decided he should take the pool chalk and draw an outline of her on the felt.
Of course, I jumped in and recommended that they stop. They didn't. I then insisted that they stop. They didn't. I then threatened to bounce them both out and bar them for 2 weeks. They stopped.
Then, they returned to their seats, continued drinking and started complaining about how much of an *** I was. Things were tense for a couple of weeks. It wasn't pleasant. But it passed.
Nowhere in the bar was it posted that it was against the rules to draw chalk outlines on the pool table. Was I wrong to shut it down? I don't think so. Were they wrong to push the envelope? Maybe, but they were bored.
Things get out of whack from time to time. It takes awhile to balance back out. From up here in the cheap seats, I think the GD forum got dull. Then it got REAL exciting. The mods decided to try to balance it back out. Now, we're dealing with the fallout.
It's the natural way of all things, not just an internet forum.
They were all a real good bunch of people. Granted, they were total alcoholics, but still good people.
The vast majority of the time, everybody got along just fine.
Well, for about a month or so, a couple of the more exciting regulars didn't make it to the bar. Things got kinda dull. Well, one night everybody was particularly soused and the "local bar *****" decided she should lay down on the pool table in a less-than-subtle position. Another patron decided he should take the pool chalk and draw an outline of her on the felt.
Of course, I jumped in and recommended that they stop. They didn't. I then insisted that they stop. They didn't. I then threatened to bounce them both out and bar them for 2 weeks. They stopped.
Then, they returned to their seats, continued drinking and started complaining about how much of an *** I was. Things were tense for a couple of weeks. It wasn't pleasant. But it passed.
Nowhere in the bar was it posted that it was against the rules to draw chalk outlines on the pool table. Was I wrong to shut it down? I don't think so. Were they wrong to push the envelope? Maybe, but they were bored.
Things get out of whack from time to time. It takes awhile to balance back out. From up here in the cheap seats, I think the GD forum got dull. Then it got REAL exciting. The mods decided to try to balance it back out. Now, we're dealing with the fallout.
It's the natural way of all things, not just an internet forum.
Yep. I do recall that particular thread. It was going in the graphic direction and off-path quickly.
While I know you've been here a few months, I still don't think you get that the whole sex arguement really isn't going to hold water with me. I think I've been clear about that in the past and am trying to be now as well.
The references to **** were the reason that it was removed. I stand by that one. Won't back down from it...
Ask yourself this, your nephew - that you love dearly - comes in, reads the site and sees direct talk about **** penetration. Explain that one in a PG13 fashion... that's why it was removed. Okay?
Concurred and 110% fair to point out. Unfortunately, for the sake of this conversation, I'm not going to open each thread that has been deleted (four or five) or any individual posts that were removed (not exactly sure on that number - although, it's been several).
-RP-
While I know you've been here a few months, I still don't think you get that the whole sex arguement really isn't going to hold water with me. I think I've been clear about that in the past and am trying to be now as well.
The references to **** were the reason that it was removed. I stand by that one. Won't back down from it...
Ask yourself this, your nephew - that you love dearly - comes in, reads the site and sees direct talk about **** penetration. Explain that one in a PG13 fashion... that's why it was removed. Okay?
Concurred and 110% fair to point out. Unfortunately, for the sake of this conversation, I'm not going to open each thread that has been deleted (four or five) or any individual posts that were removed (not exactly sure on that number - although, it's been several).
-RP-
If someone posts a complaint about the new upgrades, mods shouldn't be replying "super-tee-duper". If a response can't be given any better than that, let someone else handle it.
I'm jumping on the "adult section" bandwagon although I do recall Hersh making some threads with some pretty ladies in it and nothing happening to those threads. I don't see any problem with posting a pretty face now and then. Now this isn't the place for pics with nether regions covered by iPods, but there's nothing wrong with a bathing suit. Kids see that and more on TV and at the beach/pool/etc.
Sometimes they slip through the cracks or are inadvertently overlooked... we'll try to do that a little more efficiently but, it'd be nice if we didn't have to police them at all -- that being because it's policy - and has been since 2005.
Thanks for your comments, Ian. You've always stood out as a person here that seemed to have a pretty good grip on things here and you've pointed out some good thoughts...
-RP-
I'm glad you're stepping up and cleaning things up Rockpick. I wouldn't say we were in a downward Spiral, but definitely not heading in the right direction.
When did people think it was suddenly OK to use the F word, regardless of how "cleverly" disguised it was? I come here to get AWAY from that stuff..
There's plenty of "Adult" forums out there. I don't think you need one here at all.
When did people think it was suddenly OK to use the F word, regardless of how "cleverly" disguised it was? I come here to get AWAY from that stuff..
There's plenty of "Adult" forums out there. I don't think you need one here at all.
I sometimes spend about 3 nights away from home due to work. This site keeps me out of trouble. My wife has never asked, or even looked for that matter.... But I have given her an open invitation to see where, and what I am doing. The pasts three nights, I have racked up the post count. I was being a good boy, and tormenting a few in this forum
... This site, is proof of what I have been up to.
I do not like everyone who is a member of this forum, nor does everyone believe me to be the "Man of the Year". What I do enjoy, is the discourse with those who oppose my thoughts and beliefs. Some of the guys that I originally disliked, I now call friends.
Raoul is crazy, anyone who supports Obama has to be...
Yet I believe that he put it best months ago. He said "If this site becomes X rated, I am gone." Lots of us will follow his suit. I am not in the minority when I say that many would miss him.
Remember, we are all in someone else's house when we enter this forum. When you are in your own home, you are welcome to do as you please.
Guys, please quit whining about deleted post. Let Stealth and Rockpick do their bidding.
... This site, is proof of what I have been up to.I do not like everyone who is a member of this forum, nor does everyone believe me to be the "Man of the Year". What I do enjoy, is the discourse with those who oppose my thoughts and beliefs. Some of the guys that I originally disliked, I now call friends.
Raoul is crazy, anyone who supports Obama has to be...
Yet I believe that he put it best months ago. He said "If this site becomes X rated, I am gone." Lots of us will follow his suit. I am not in the minority when I say that many would miss him.Remember, we are all in someone else's house when we enter this forum. When you are in your own home, you are welcome to do as you please.
Guys, please quit whining about deleted post. Let Stealth and Rockpick do their bidding.
Last edited by Shinesintx; Aug 7, 2008 at 10:08 PM.



