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Old Jun 27, 2007 | 01:30 PM
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Divorce laws....

Does any one know anything about divorce laws? Or have been thru one? I would like to know some information... Please...
 
Old Jun 27, 2007 | 01:56 PM
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Have to check the Nevada stuff, been through 2, but in Wisconsin and I know they vary state to state.

Good luck, they are always painful.
 
Old Jun 27, 2007 | 02:17 PM
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Have to check the Nevada stuff, been through 2, but in Wisconsin and I know they vary state to state.

Good luck, they are always painful.

I believe she's playing the role of "homewrecker" in this particular divorce.
 

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Old Jun 27, 2007 | 02:30 PM
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I believe she playing the role of "homewrecker" in this particular divorce.
Yes, and that isn't a good thing. An inquiry into child support law would be a better option.
 
Old Jun 27, 2007 | 02:34 PM
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Yes, and that isn't a good thing. An inquiry into child support law would be a better option.
Absolutely. We don't have a sarcasm smiley. I probably should have used or .
 
Old Jun 27, 2007 | 02:37 PM
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Absolutely. We don't have a sarcasm smiley. I probably should have used or .
Good choices. Or maybe this one. :sarcasm:
 
Old Jun 27, 2007 | 02:45 PM
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Old Jun 27, 2007 | 03:17 PM
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This requires explanation and / or clarification.
 
Old Jun 27, 2007 | 03:36 PM
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been through one. In my experience it is pretty cut and dry. It all depends on the person's agenda though. You have to pick your fights and base that on what is important to you. You can give more to make the fight on something else easier.

Child support is pretty cut and dry and is based on guidelines. There is very little room there to negotiate.

As mentioned previously. Vary state to state.

Remember to check your definitions. There is a difference between a mediator and a conciliator and what they can do for you in the courtroom. Make sure to chose the one that will benefit you the most.
 
Old Jun 27, 2007 | 10:58 PM
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I believe she's playing the role of "homewrecker" in this particular divorce.
Call it what you want, b***h, homewrecker, sl*t... but I never forced him to leave her and never forced him to stay with me...

I just want to know since me and him signed the truck together... is the truck part of the divorce? Its not necessarily an asset as I have really only made like 6 payments on it... but if that does come up in the divorce is there a way to keep it... He has a crap load of stock and I told him to make a 75% offer to her which is around the 2.25 million dollar mark.... and if the truck comes up just add that much more stock to her winnings...

You guys can say what you want because you are not in the situation, i just want to know the legal stand point...

I have a question though with child support... I don't plan to leave him as he is the father to my son and I love him very much, but if we were to seperate and I asked for child support and it is granted, and then we end up back together again does the child support stop? I want to look out for the best interest for Aiden and myself, but I don't want to get into legal problems because i was suppose to tell the court that we are back together...

Basically if we were together and i was receiving child support from him and it just went from his check to my account and then back to rent... would this be illegal?
 
Old Jun 27, 2007 | 11:00 PM
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going through one now... surprisingly my wallet magically has more money in it and I can pay my bills easier... and I could afford my new 150.

You just need to have some dirt on the wife and it'll be easy
 
Old Jun 27, 2007 | 11:06 PM
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Well the dirt is something I can suggest to my BF but he keeps looking at all his hard work with his job and the time he invested just walking out the door...

Two things i can see is dirt on her... 9 years ago they had a second daughter, they were discussing another child and she said she didn't want another... so to make sure it didn't happen she got her tubes tied behind his back... he said they weren't the same after that...

Second thing, she has cleared his bank account of 15K dollars twice... where'd the money go? Isn't that called hording (sp?) money? She has known about me for 2.5 years and has known about my son since he has been born...1.5 years, We have never met and I honestly don't want to...

I just want to see my BF somewhat stand up to her and say that the marriage after the tubes tied was nothing to come home to, just to get some @$$... Actually those are his words...
 
Old Jun 27, 2007 | 11:13 PM
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Well the dirt is something I can suggest to my BF but he keeps looking at all his hard work with his job and the time he invested just walking out the door...

Two things i can see is dirt on her... 9 years ago they had a second daughter, they were discussing another child and she said she didn't want another... so to make sure it didn't happen she got her tubes tied behind his back... he said they weren't the same after that...

Second thing, she has cleared his bank account of 15K dollars twice... where'd the money go? Isn't that called hording (sp?) money? She has known about me for 2.5 years and has known about my son since he has been born...1.5 years, We have never met and I honestly don't want to...

I just want to see my BF somewhat stand up to her and say that the marriage after the tubes tied was nothing to come home to, just to get some @$$... Actually those are his words...
Dirt has to have a paper trail or supported documentation that courts will admit as evidence. Just gossip does nothing. For me, a $300 PI easily saved me thousands if not more.

Note: I do not have kids so I'm not being a deadbeat.
 
Old Jun 27, 2007 | 11:16 PM
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a withdrawl from a bank is paper trail and a medical document from her pregnancy will show what operations happened.... so those are both paper trail... well the PI would be spying on us... so...that doesn't really save him...
 
Old Jun 27, 2007 | 11:22 PM
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Now here's the problem with withdrawl slips:

He said she said...

"He told me I could have the money!"

"No I didn't!"

The following is not admissible in court... well maybe Judge Judy's court.
 



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