yeah but 30 thousand dollars... she would have to prove where she deposited it wouldn't she? I used to work for a bank, and people don't make that kind of withdrawl everyday... plus if it was cash its a CTR and the government hears about it... anything over 10K dollars

 

Rich wives do.

 

She would only have to prove that if it was an individual account held in only his name... and in that aspect the bank would have to answer for letting the withdrawl happen.

Joint accounts are considered joint property. I cut off all funds when we decided to separate for that exact reason. If I had left money in the joint account she could have just withdrew it and I could of done nothing.

 

No judgement here, just remember that things are much more complicated when you get involved with a married person!

Nevada is a community property state, so she owns 1/2 of his share of the truck. I'd expect that she will want it too...


You guys can say what you want because you are not in the situation, i just want to know the legal stand point...

From what I understand, if a court orders child support, he must pay child support until the child turns 18, or the court determines that child support is no longer appropriate (if you start cohabitating or get married). One of you would have to petition the court to get it changed.

I'm also pretty sure that Nevada is a no-fault state, so her getting her tubes tied, taking the money out of the account, etc. will have little bearing on the outcome of the divorce. Plus he's had you as a girl friend for the past 2.5 years... so he's not been 'perfect' in the marriage either. Have they filed legal separation papers yet? If not, they are still 100% legally married and she's 'entitled' to 'his' money...

Good luck and be careful!

 

He files tomorrow... There is no "they"... He says its non stop arguing and fighting every night... he's ready to give up on life...


Oh, and she doesn't know about the truck... yet

 

If he's just a co-signer, he or she(the wife) has no way to take it or sell it. He as a co-signer is just guaranteeing that if you don't make the payments, he will...

 

Chances are he will feel worse before it gets better.

He'll have to disclose it on the asset papers for the divorce. Is there a loan on the truck? If not, see if he will put it in your name only.

 

there is a loan yes... i dont think i have the credit to do that... or can he just sign it over?

 

is the truck in his name, or yours?

 

Hmmm, not sure on that one.

 

Ours...

 

If the Title has both of your names on it then he will have to disclose that he owns it. But, if he just co-signed for it he doesnt have to be on the title, you may want to check into doing that!!!!

 

....and you're worried about a truck that's probably worth $20,000 on a good day?

Come to think of it I remember several similar threads a couple months back when you said he was signing divorce papers. It's really going to happen this time?

Sorry to play devil's advocate here, but you have to realize this comes from a true outsider's view who only knows what you've typed.

Ever get that feeling like you're not being told the entire story or that maybe the fish wasn't that big?

Duke

 

You can't just put the truck in your name if there is a lien and he was crucial to getting the loan. The bank owns the truck and you have to have their approval that you will assume the full debt.

If the account was a joint account, she could take every dime every day and it is fine.

My suggestion would be to distance yourself from the whole situation. Handle your child support as a totally separate deal. Don't get involved in their divorce at all.

 

This thread is exactly why it took me so long to find a good woman to marry. The homewrecker is the lowest form of woman there is. And I hope that your "boyfriend" doesn't sign those papers and goes back to his wife, leaving you high and dry. Except he can't, because he fathered your child. I hope he has the cajones to pay you child support, because that child has done nothing wrong. If you were messing around with a married man, have you never heard of Trojan or Ortho-Tri-Cyclen?