Explain girls ?
What means this explain girls ???????
I don't understand the scenario ... girls can be explained ?????
please do explain then I too would like too hear of this thing ....... hmmmm ??

 

It is possible to moe from friends to lovers, I know from experience. I was friends with a guy all through school (elementary through high school, he was a year ahead of me). After I graduated we still hung out in the same group (weekly wallyball nights) & on night I decide to persue him. 10 years later weare married with 2 beautiful children.

See if is possible to become more than friends, but only if both parties want that.

I stand behind my origial statement that it was a 2 week fling.

 

Good luck to you man, I really hope you make it but watch the ladder jump, it's a long way down if you dont...

 

Just because I am a betting man, anyone want to bet on this? I'll go 5:1 that it ain't gonna happen. Beers or dollars I will bet either. Who's in??

Think about what you are doing. Please record the conversation when you call her. I would love to hear it. I'm guessing it goes something like this.

FOXFLYBY: "Ummm yeah, I like looked up your name in google, then cross referenced it through yahoo's people search and then contacted your campus housing authority to get your number, do you want to go out with me."

Her: "What??? are you some kind of psycho, we were just friends."

FOXFLYBY: Please, I promise to take my medicine, I won't act weird

Her: Don't call me ever again, if you do I am calling the cops.

All you are going to get out of doing this is a seat in the back of a Crown Vic, some new chrome bracelets and a restraining order. What you need to do is have the biggest guy that you know he-bitch slap you so you stop acting like a wuss. Face it, you dropped the ball on this one. It happens to the best of us. Learn from this and go hook up with a hotter woman.

Joe

 

The best advice I have seen in this thread yet. I was starting to think I was reading "Oprah Online" or something. sheesh...

FoxFlyBy - There are millions of fish in the sea...rebait and recast your hook!!! Good luck out there!

 

FoxFlyBy-It's only been one day. If you're sure of your feelings and sure that she felt the same then it was probably real. I know that I wouldn't flirt with someone if I wasn't interested in them. How did you leave it with her? Did you tell her to give you a call or just left your number in the card? She may not want to come on too strong and call right away. I would give it a few days and then by all means try to contact her. What do you have to lose? Good luck and I hope it works out for you!

 

I didn't tell her to give me a call, just left a little note with my email and number inside the card. I should have been more direct telling her how interested I really was and asked for her digits.
Heres the note I left in her graduation card, I think I sound more like a friend than a guy who is interested, I screwed up. Maybe I should persue her right away and tell her how I feel, if it's not already too late. Oh well.

"It was nice working with you and getting to know you.
I wanted to wish you good luck with going off to college.
Try not to worry or stress yourself too much, you'll be just fine once you get adjusted!
If you need anything at all, or even help with moving your stuff (I have a truck now), or
if you just need someone to talk to, or a jogging partner once in a while, anything at all, just call me!
I know that you'll achieve whatever goals you have in life!
Remember to stay focused, don't let yourself become distracted, finishing your education is a top priority.
Stay in touch! I hope everything works out for you in the future!
Sincerely,
Jake
IbeXXXX@AOL.com
953-XXXX" Cell"

 

First of all, you didn't screw up!!!! Yeah, you could have been a little more direct, but so what. Like I said, give it a couple of days. Then contact her. You have nothing to lose and if you don't you will always regret it. And when you do contact her, be honest and tell her how you feel (w/o being too sappy). Women love that, especially if they are interested. And it sounds to me that she is. Your note to her sounded very sincere. I think it was very thoughtful. If it's meant to be it will work out. You know what they say, right? Belive it and it will happen!! Let me know what happens. I always love a good love story.

 

Ok Dude, I may not be much help with girls... but let me help you out with something else... Edit that post and remove the contents of the card from it immediatly! You will get so flamed for that from most all on here you don't even know how hard they will rake you over th coals for that. I'm going to be nice and just say...





































Nothing!

 

Hey PSS-Mag-I don't agree with you. Of course, I am a girl and you are a guy, but I think what he wrote was really nice. Didn't you ever write a nice note to a girl? I'm sure you have. Anyway, he's just looking for advice and I'm giving a woman's perspective. So what do you think ? Should he contact her?

 

Yes definatly call her up... and yes I still do it for my wife all of the time.. BUT I would not post any of them here, AND I know these guys so I know how it's going to go.

 

You really give your wife notes!!!? That is really nice. Not many men out there like you .

 

Yes I do, Thanks but lets not talk about it to much and move on ... K

Edited to add:
I don't want to get caught up in the flames from these guys too...

 

Oh..ok..sorry. Didn't mean to let the cat out of the bacg about how sweet you are .

 

Thank you... :o
Embarassed for sharing and embarased for the compliment... LOL