"LOL, yea it does but I have a feeling I still have a very, very long way to go and I'm not all that sure I want to take that trip. . .scary!! "


Now, whats so hard to understand about men? The only problem women have with men is that men are so darn simple and basic. Not that hard to figure out! Women think that men are more difficult than they are.....haha......what a joke!!

 

Like Jeff Foxworthy says...

 

You should have asked for her number. Good luck on that phone call. Maybe she's the one girl, in the whole world, that would rather be the pusuer than the pursued.

 

Old story about the guy walking on the beach and finds a bottle, opens it and a genie comes out. Genie says, "Only one wish". The man says, "I'd like a bridge between New York and Paris, so I can go to Paris for lunch". Genie, says, "Are you out of your mind, do you know how hard that will be to do. I'll have to get treaties and all from so many governments, and get the pilings in and all....come on wish for something else??"

Man, thinks and says, "I'd like to know what makes women think, why they act the way they do, why they cry at movies". "I'd like to understand women better".

Genie looks at man and says......"Do you want that bridge, two lane or four lane"!!!!

 

First of all I don't think any man should ever use the word TOTALLY in a sentence. Now, with that said, second, no man will ever be able to figure out women. Sorry I couldn't be more help.

 

"2 weeks of flirting while she interned? Sounds like she was having a vacation. SAfe fun with someone she would probably never see again (its along the same line as the one night stand fantasy)."

Man, that's harsh. Maybe she's somewhat shy outside the work place and is having a hard time contacting me?

I could find out what school she was from and confront her there. Be a man and straight up ask for HER info, but isnt that borderline stalking?

I admit I screwed up, but come on....two weeks of attraction and flirting, talking getting to know each other, I buy her lunch then it's topped off with a hug and now I'M left hanging and wondering WTF is wrong.

I still want to pursue this and confront her, ask her the things I should have last week, but that might freak her out? Is it too late now?
Did she blow me off? Damn, maybe I'll just get me a dog instead, I've always wanted a black lab.

 

STOP wussing out my friend and SCREW political correct BS you hear from the people around you. It is the man’s responsibility to call a women, to ask a women on a date, or what ever else you might be thinking…

It may be great when a women does do that but do NOT expect it, do not expect them to open a door for you, do not expect them to change a flat on your truck while its down pouring outside and you sit in a nice warm cab, ain’t going happen, or very very rarely and that’s not the type of women, usually, you want because then she will be wearing the pants and you the skirt…

Just do it, GetERdone…

 

He's probly right, especially if she "really was flirting" with you for 2-weeks?
And you didnt ask her out earlier? She was probly looking over your shoulder checking out the other guys while you were giving her a hug.
I think the hug was just a nice jesture to say goodbye.
Iam not to reserved, if I want to go out with a guy I know or have met, I'll ask him, I dont need to wait for him to ask me.
BlueOvalGal

https://www.f150online.com/galleries...w.cfm?num=8524

 

While I realize this is true I also know that you do think of more than just hootie cans and beer otherwise there would be no need for these hallowed forums because there would be no obsession with trucks, cars and all things with wheels and motors. So see, y'all are more complicated than even you know!!

 

Naw trucks, cars and anything with wheels or a motor are second nature.. We put very little thought in to them ussally. The whole time we are working on them then we are still thinking... "Man I'd like a beer and I'd like to see something naked."

Edited to add:
Why do you think every shop has a fridge and a girlie calander?

 

FoxFlyBy:: Sounds like you got thrown onto the friends ladder. You were obviously making yourself waaaay too available to her and being too much of a wussy nice guy. Learn from this incident, and dont let it happen again.

BlueOvalGal::Nice pics, but way too much clothing. Please revise and repost.

 

^^See^^
Beer and something naked! It's that basic and simple!

I almost typed up something to tell FoxFlyby to check her gallery out and telling him what a hottie she seems to be. That he should find someone like her! Very cute, nice, and in to cars!
What more can a guy want except beer and... Well she might be a minor so I'll just leave it at beer.

Also was going to warn her too that it might not be the wisest thing to post on a website mostly full of dirty old men and perverts like us...

 

LOL.

Please don't be so nieve. You are not the first guy a girl has flirted with and wasted his time/money, and you certainly will not be the last. Don't even bother wondering WTF is wrong because nothing is wrong, it's the perfectly normal and common what happened. Actaully, I'll even say get used to it cause it will just keep getting worse.

Chalk it up to a learning experience and move on.

And get the black lab.

 

The hell if I'm going to be on the "friends" ladder with her. Now I'm even more determined. I'm going to blow the ladder theory out of the water and I'm jumping from one ladder to the next. I'm going to find a way to get in touch with her somehow. Seven days from now I will have a date with her, proving everybody wrong! Just "friends" ladder my a$$, I'm better than that and she knows it! Every single one of my coworkers pointed out the major flirting and attraction between us. SEVEN DAYS DAMN IT AND WE ARE GOING OUT or I am ending my f150 membership! IM A MAN OF MY WORD!

 

Uhhhh, does anyone see an arrest or conviction coming up???

Nah, no problem persueing her, just dont do anything stupid.
Sounds like there might be more we dont know about, during the
two week period did she mention any boyfriends she had?
If you do get in touch with her play it cool and dont sound
all desperate, just pick up where you'll left off.
Good luck.