Translation: put me on the friends ladder.

Don't get me wrong, what you wrote shows what kind of guy you are. That was a nice gesture and sweet. The only problem with that note: it's to soon. Not a path to tread after 2 weeks of flirting.

You get the girl going out with you, then you do all that stuff. Correction, then you better do all the stuff while still maintaining who you are. Complicated thing to do though.

Remember it's not "nice guys always finish last" it's "doormats finish last".


Or you can do the smart thing and just wait around for a woman who likes you exactly how you are and not waste money on all the others.

 

Have you found her yet?

Has she called?

Whats the DL?

 

He's still alone, she's gone on to gang bang the football team one last time before graduation. His card/number are already at the local dump.

 

Read: FoxFlyBy....Well???? for an update. It's on page 3 right now.

 

It's not the WHOLE team, just the Offensive and Defensive starters. Special teams gets to watch and film the event.

Joe

 

Ok, so I finally got in touch with her to find out what the hell has been going on. She confesses to me, she has a b/f, however she still wants to hang out with me on a reg. basis and get to know me better. She's finishing up her finals this week, so we are gonna chill this weekend. If I was her b/f I'd be hella pissed that shes hanging with another guy. Anyways...maybe he isnt a serious b/f and shes thinking about jumping ship? I dunno, girls don't make sense, I'm just going out with her and we'll see what happens.

 

Glad you finally have a date! If she wants to spend time with you and is planning on hanging out with you this weekend, I'd say the b/f isn't very serious. Either that or she likes having more than one fish on her stringer. I'd go cautiously if that's the case, could be she'll have someone on-line right behind you.

For your sake I hope it goes well and her and her b/f are a thing of the past.

 

Read atleast the first post in this thread before you go meet her. Listen to this BS drama that happened to me last night...

 

You could be the dumbest guy I know. Seriously. WTF are you doing? You p*ssyfoot around with this chick, she doesn't fess up she is involved with someone but now still wants to 'hang out and get you know you better'?! Pull your head outta your **** and find some other chick to stalk. Good lord man...

 

Let's summarize what you know about this girl:

1) She likes to flirt and lead on guys, even when she has a boyfriend.

2) She's willing to spend weekends with guys other than her boyfriend.

3) She is perfectly willing and able to hide important facts/lie to you


Do I need to go on? If these are qualities you value highly in a girlfriend, GO FOR IT!

My guess is flirting is second nature for her and makes her feel good. As long as you are willing to hang around, buy her things, and make her feel good about herself while requiring nothing from her, she will happily keep you around. IMO, you will be lucky to get a few less-than fully passionate kisses in six months if you continue chasing this girl.

Find someone else.

 

History has a tendance to repeat itself so...........hit it and quit it

 

Very well said!

 

If given the opportunity, do what Brahmus says!

Be warned though that some of the best flirts are actually not very interested in doing the nasty.

 

Does she have a hott best friend?

 

I'm with dzervit. Don't be a shmuck.

The way you describe it she either wants you as friend which will get you no were but a good case of blue *****, or she is generally interesting in you which will lead to her leaving you for some other guy. History repeats itself.

Don't hit, she may turn psycho, in which case you'd be even more confused then you are now.

Just run.