Aint that the truth. Man, this Whiskey is doin a great job. I even think this dumb Locusts movie is entertaining.

 

Don;t get to drunk there bud. She might call and you might say something stupid. I know I do and say stupid things when I'm live-wired. Not trying to tell you what to do. Just looking out for ya.

 

better give her "the ring"

 

You've been talking to her haven't you? Yea, she wants a ring. It's only been 4yrs, what gives? ROFL. Time for a Budweiser.

 

Yes, I have been like that a few times, most of them while I was pregnant of very soon after while the hormones were still all screwy. Laugh all you want guys but sometimes women really have STRONG hormones to deal with & then we have 2 options wiat for it to settle or find pharmacutical alternatives. I prefer to wait them out (& stay away from hubby so he doesn't get caught in crossfire he doesn't deserve).

rdy2rac with

 

I don't understand woman talk. It's like japanese. Beer is my interpretor.

 

Buy her a vacuum and all will be well i 'm sure . Better yet don't do it man. Woman have since the beginning of time had weird things going on inside there head and NONE will ever figure it out. example: whats wrong hun?? answer NOTHING!!! do the math here. Don't do something dumb like marrying her before you know what the deal is if ever even just a bit of you understanding her. I do wish you luck and its like having a check engine light on and trying to figure out WHY it is on...


Remember what God said to Adam when eve went swimming the first time...... "Now I'll never get the smell off these fish".... really best of luck here.

 

Yes, it is possible to know something isn't quite right but not be able to pinpoint exactly what it is. Give her a few days, a week, she'll get it sorted out. Don't push it, just make sure she knows you love her and are there for her if she decides she needs to talk. Like r2r w/ said, we women have hormones that do some pretty wicked things to our bodies at various times of the month/day/year. . .take your pick. They can cause a lot of emotional ups and downs and some pretty weird detached kind of feelings on occasion. If the problem persists or worsens over the next several weeks you might suggest seeing a doctor about depression, it is a very real problem and can cause some huge emotional swings. But I'd give her a little time first and see if she doesn't get it figured out.

You have the opinion of 2 women now, does that help?

 

That may be the problem right there. She probably thinks that since you guys have been together for 4 years, she is now ready to get married. She is probably also getting tired of waiting. She probably also thinks that if you don't know what you want now after 4 yrs, then you won't know what you want later in life.

She's probably expecting a ring any time soon, and now she is feeling depressed because you have not asked her yet. And she won't admit this to you because she may not know how you will act about it.

Like you said, we don't know the situations you guys are having, but this is just a suggestion as to what the problem may be.

 

Damn you women. Where's the fun in giving her space and letting her sort it out? It's much more fun to pressure and second guess. Ok, I'll give it a try. I packed up a few of her things and brought them to town today. If she wants to stay at her brothers again, then she should have her stuff. I dont know if she does, just being prepared.

Hopefully its just this wedding thing, but I'm not 100% convinced. She knows I'm not flat saying NO. The current month just isnt the time to talk about it with the stuff we have going on.

 

Oh god be careful about the "ring". Make sure she is the one! Cause this could get expensive from this point forward. What I'm trying to say is get all your problems out there make them known. Once you sort through some of your problems (if there are any) only then can you move forward with a ring.

 

Legally I'm screwed already with Commonlaw.

 

I wish you luck buddy! It sucks being in that position. I'm sure everything will work for the best. My girl friend and I separated for a couple of weeks last summer. I think that time apart made us realize what you have and how good you have it. Now we really enjoy our company together. But space is a good thing sometimes. You don't realize what you have till it's gone. Maybe that time apart will help her see that.

 

I better get a personal invite to the wedding if that is all it is LOL. Either that or i hope i didnt give you the wrong idea! Either way lets all have a beer. Its beer-thirty for me

 

I'll drink to that

UC...hope things work out man. Id tell you my story, but I would get banned for taking up too much band width..LOL..but seriously, 10 years for me and were still trying to figure it out.