Anyone notice this kids only posted 2 times here, originally then one response? I see a pattern with this guy, drops the life bomb situations, gets a bunch of feedback- much of it very good and never posts back. Rather, starts a new thread about something like buying another car after a few weeks ago crying the blues about having no money and what to do! From what I gather, this girl should run, never mind him from her religion mumbo jumbo. One minute it's, oh the truck cost too much, got loans here and there, credit cards up the ying yang.............and so on. Then 2 days later it's oh, gotta get a 350z which will cost slightly less and burn a bit less gas. If someone is in as bad of financial situation as him, they hitch rides, ride a bike, public trans etc. Can't do that cuz it's ghetto? Stop crying, costs money to be a baller! This girly situation is another example of how mixed up you've become. I use to sympathize with you early on, but you're too wishy washy anyways. Sorry pal, not being harsh, but you are.

 

It sounds to me like your from two different worlds. Unless you are committed to joining hers I would walk away.

 

Because I should feel the need to respond to every single post in this thread?

So, some how, because I was looking at a way to save some money by switching cars I am wishy washy?
Gas is going up, and its getting more expensive to drive the truck, and I was looking at a different means of transport.
So I am trying to be smart with my money and choose the option that is best in the long run and some how I am wishy washy?

Well, I haven't changed from my truck, and I am in a much better poistion now than I was a few months ago back in JANUARY when I post the other thread about trading the truck.
So, in three months I have been wishy washy?

Seriously?

Hitch rides? Not around this area where drug use/abuse is rampant.
Ride a bike 23 miles one way twice a day?
No public transport.

Sorry pal, not being harsh but I am fairly sure you have no Idea what you are talking about here.

As to the (generally) good advice given in this thread, I have read all of the posts.
I am still with her, and we talked casually about some of the issues we had between each other.

Everything has (so far) worked out fine, she doesn't mind if I drink, as long as its not around her.
She doesn't mind if I go to a bar, but she doesn't want to go.
As well as the other things I talked about.

I will simply stop asking for advice if this is the general though on me here me, its no big deal really. I respect all the members here, and I like to get advice and try to see things from all the angles.

To all of those of you who have posted helpful and constrictive advice, Thanks go to you.
To the others, thanks anyway.

Have a great day guys!

 

Thread closed per OP's request.

- Jack