its her loss. Remeber your the man, any girl is lucky to be on your arm. Even the biggest players get an occasional no. fact is she didnt even get a chance to meet you, so she didnt regect you, just the thought of as blind date at this current time.

 

exactly...and maybe still have your mom keep in touch with her mom..and if they have like a party or something with friends you might show up and see if you can meet her. Then get the chance to show her what she turned down, she may have second thoughts and take you up on your previous offer. But "HIT" the field also...dont keep your "sights" on her, focus on being yourself and enjoying everything life has to offer..girls will happen, and like someone said (F150 Duke, I think) enjoying life and showing it is the biggest turn on to chicks..they dont want to be bored....

 

Well this dang story keeps taking all sorts of twists. Her momcame into my moms office and talked to her and apoligized because she didn't know she was talking to someone else. The thing is she has only seen this kid like once and he is trying to control her. She I guese was going out with her friends sometime and this kid told her no she wasn't she was coming with him. He is trying to tell her what to do and they don't know each other. The kid she is talking to is a senior at my school. This kid is a jerk and little worm. My mom warned me that he could come up to me and say something. I don't really want to fight at school however I'm not going to let a kid half my size and a kid I can't stand beat me up.

Her mom also told my mom to give her time and call her agian. I want to meet this girl and get to know her. I don't know how much time to give her. Surely it won't last too long with this kid trying to tell her what to do. I know I won't tell her what to do. I mean I won't tell her that she can't go with her friends I mean who does this kid think her is?

 

^^words to live by.^^
Sounds like she is in a 90210 episode and very immature. dont bother with that

 

The cheerleaders at my school are either really hot with boyfriends or really ugly so basically it eliminates the cheerleaders. I want to be with this girl though. Just if that dern a$$whip would leave her alone. I hope he says something to me outside of school. Never have liked that kid even in grade school. Maybe by January she'll be over that loser. I think she kind of cares about me because when she talked to her mom she thought she had made me mad or hurt my feelings. I just wish there was a way I could show her how big of an idiot or dipsh1t this kid is.

 

I wish I was older....Theres this server at work and well I am really comfotable around her. I think she is 23-24 I'm 17.... She is awesome, pretty girl, really cool, easy to get along with. Right now I'd say 6-7 years is too big of a difference. Tonight was our Christmas/New Years party and well she was there with her daughter( I knew she had a daughter and i am positive she isn't married or even in contact with the dad). When she got there she came and sat with me for a little bit. I don't know how to explain it. I just feel comfortable around her. I can't quit thinking of her. I mean I see some smoking girl walk by and I'm like man I want to be with Shannon(girls name). I mean I would like to be with her more than even Jessica Simpson. I just wish there was some way I could get her seriously interested in me. Everytime I work and she works we talk quite a bit( well small talk when we are both caught up). What do youens think about a 6-7 age difference. I know right now at 17 we can't leagally be together. I mean I right now I don't care that she is older, I don't care she has a kid. In a few years when I am an adult I would love to be her kid's life. I mean I would treat her as my own. Maybe I am talking crazy....Oh btw about the very first girl( the one this topic is about) I still ain't talked to her and right now until I am over Shannon( which I hope doesn't happen) I doubt I will call her anymore. I just can't quit thinking about her. I haven't ever felt this way about someone. I go to work hopeing she works. I just doubt anything will ever happen. Probably just will continue to be friends. I wish I could just somehow get her interest and lure her in....

 

That's it dude, I'm revoking your man-card. I'd ask for your ***** too but obviously you never had 'em.

 

ROFLMAO!

 

I don't really care what you think.

 

Way to go.

 

Age is just a number dude. Get over it. If you like her, go for it.

 

Dude when I was 17 I had the serious hots for a 43-year old woman. And not just like a celebrity crush, I really wanted her. 5 years is not that much of a difference, though it would present some problems, sounds like she is at least somewhat interested in the dude...

 

Come on, just look at Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore. Nuff said.

 

my wife is 6 years older than me, older women have always been more attractive to me, BUT at 17, poosie is poosie, and a hot older lady is the way to go. I Dont think at 17 you should be wanting to be a stepdad. you have your whole life ahead of you. but nail the girl for a while, and then quit it...

 

What is the age of consent in IN? Some states are 18, here in AL it's 16. I say go for it. What's the worst she can say? No? Be prepared to hear alot of that in your life. Now I will say she can get into serious trouble by having "relations" with you. Whether you gave her permission or not she can be held for statutory rape. I'm guessing you still live at home? If your parents found out about these "relations" they could file charges on her.

But parents be damned, GO GIT SOME!!