What would be better for a first date bowling or dinner?

 

I heard about a survey where a bunch of people in the twilight of their years were asked if they had any regrets in their lives. Almost to a person they replied they didn't regret anything they had done, only the things they hadn't done. Young man, there is wisdom in age. Call this girl up asap. Be honest with her and see where it goes. Best of Luck !

(Oh to be young again)

 

go bowling, its more fun and she will enjoy it more.

 

Listening to advice from other guys about asking a girl out doesn't work either. It just makes you more nervous, and you tend to over do it. Remember, if you put on a show instead of being yourself, you have to put on that show the whole time you're with her. That just makes it even worse. Girls are smart creatures. They can sense a fake a mile away. Mmkay?

Man up and ask her. Just be yourself and be friendly. If she doesn't like you, she'll let you know.

Note:Don't have a "lost puppy dog look" on your face when you ask her out. They hate that.

 

You are NOT a creep, your mom talked to her mom that is the perfect way to initiate the convo. To be honest, if you have trouble with being a pimp have several beers and call her on a buzz. So many will disagree here but I am the c-ockiest mother f'er (far from rude) when drinking and I always manage to get the hotties I want. Might not be the solution for you but it's a temporary fix for some, I don't want to breed an alcoholic just trying to help.

You are clearly intraverted, def a planner. I would call her and let her know exactly how her name came up. She WILL remember you it's amazing what I remember about people. I hope it goes well and if you're really going to take our advice I will type up an essay of suggestions ;]

 

Well I called her up tonight. We're going out to eat saturday. After that I may take her to a party to meet my friends.

 

Awesome, congrats. When you eat try to keep eye contact and don't eat with your hands! Don't chew with your mouth open and don't talk with food in your mouth period. Open her door and if it's a chair, pull it out for her. Don't constantly compliment her either remember ur a pimp, ur one of us now.

 

Looks like my advice paid off huh?

 

Just make sure that this isn't a super crazy drunken party where your friends will be running around half naked and screaming. You don't want to scare her off yet...

 

Cool video Josiah!

 

And trucklover...ty!

 

Well I don't know how to explain this but Ican try. Last night I called her twice the second time I left a msg. Well about 20 mins later she texted and and asked who I was(understandable). So I told her my name and everything and told her our moms had met and bla bla bla. Well she texted back(very fast typer too) and said she had to work sat. morning and night (works 2 jobs just like me). Then in the same msg she said I am sorta seein someone right now that my mom doesn't know about. I just think that "sorta-seein" someone is an easy way for her to tell me no. I mean this isn't the first time a girl has told me this and it wasn't true. Man I don't know I thought this was going to be a for sure thing. I mean her mom pretty much erged my mom to get me to take her out. She even told my mom she had never been out on a date. So I am thinking maybe A.) I'm just not good enough B.) She doesn't feel comfortable to go on a date with me sense we are almost like strangers or C.) maybe she is seeing someone (hard to believe since her mom doesn't know. Anyway I guese its back to the drawing board. It just makes me sad/mad because I got my hopes up thinkin you know I can come to school tomarrow and brag to my buddies and so fourth but no this happens. I guese I need to just stick to the girls I know. The only thing is I think I am kinda picky. I don't want an ugly girl but I don't want a real hot b*tchy girl either. I just have never had the confidence to walk up to someone and ask them. I just have never really thought I ever had a chance at some of the girls. I don't know maybe I'll ask around today and see whos single. Might as well do something Saturday night since I asked off....I guese I could cheer up with tomarrow being my birthday. I guese I should forget about it.

 

I think I'll text her at school and get the real deal. If she is for real I almost feel like asking some hot b*tch and taking her out to this girls restraunt where she works. Only thing is 2 rejections in one week would be tough. Man I don't know what to tell my mom now. I guese I'll just tell her she has a boyfriend? I just can't believe it. I mean heck she could have even played me for a free meal and get to know me. If she didn't have fun or didn't like me it would be no big deal and we didn't have to speak agian ya know?

 

dont really know what to say, maybe you can have her talk to her mom to know you are legit. really sucks, i do feel bad for you. But you cant push something that both parties dont want..
-Patrick

 

NEXT................


Ain't worth it dude. She's already playing games with you and her mom. Forget it, move on, theres plenty of other fish in the sea...



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