Ok here is the story:

My school has a new years eve dance and next to prome it is pretty big thing. Alright there is this girl that I use to be really good friends with back when I was little. Well my mom saw her mom today and got to talking. The exchanged pictures and let me tell you she is pretty. Her mom told mine that she was single. My mom came home and told me she had a date set up for me. She was only kidding but I got to thinking if my mom meant it as a hint that she wold go on a date. I plan on asking her to ball but how? I haven't even talked to her in years. She goes to another school in the county. I mean I need to turn my invitation in by the 10th! I am thinking of calling her tomarrow but I don't know how to go about this. Should I ask her to ball right off the bat or ask her to go on a date this weekend then ask or what? So could someone please help me out on this?

 

"Hey suzie"
"O, hi...."
"Suzie, its me jimmy, remember, I threw up on you in the 2nd grade"
"o, yea, how you been?"
"real good, I was wondering if you would like to catch up on old times and go out for some lunch tomorrow after noon"
"sure jimmy, that sounds good"


end of story... talk with her after you charm her suring lunch/dinner, wtf ever

 

Unless you are paying I don’t recommend asking for sex immediately after the introduction.

Be positive and polite and do as Camarothatcould has instructed.

 

Yes, good advice there. I'm just going to put my "Dr Phil" head on for a moment.

Obviously you are young and the fear of being rejected or made to feel stupid can be excruciating.
But, let me tell you this from an "old guy" point of view.
I'd be willing to bet that every man on here wishes they could go back in time with the experience they have now.
Lifes rule on this matter is If you don't ask, you don't get. Simple as that. Get her number, be brave, practice what you are going to say and say it.
Seeing as she can't see you on the phone, it's permissible to make some notes so you don't get all tongue tied.
Call her up and ask her out to lunch. Be polite but not creepy or desperate sounding. Somewhere cheap and cheerful like Mickey D's at the mall.
If she says no, say ok, say thanks and hang up. This is not the end of the world. She doesn't even know you so she is not rejecting you personally, just the idea of a lunch date.
If she says yes. Good work fella.
Make the appointment, show up on time looking clean and presentable.
Have a burger and catch up on old times.
If you feel its going well, ask her on another lunch date, the movies or the prom.

Good luck and report back

 

oh oh....if you pick her up and take her somewhere, try and have your truck looking clean/shiny if you can. That way it makes a good impression! Dont have junk laying all around in the cab also.

 

It's a good thing this aint fullsizebronco where you would get instant replys to "hit it" and "piihb" and "post pics"...

Adrianspeeder

 

Ehh, just call her up and tell her your mom was talkin to her mom, catching up on old times, her mom asked about you, bla bla bla and you got thinking about her and was wondering how shes been. Dont ask her out to lunch..tell her. Not in a mean "im a jerk way" but more like....Hey how 'bout we go to lunch saturday so we can catch upon old times, Ill meet you ( or pick you up ) at 12:30..It'll be cool to hang out with you again..


Something like that. Or just club her over the head and drag her **** to the dance


BREW

 

Jesus Christ, lift up your skirt and grab your ***** son. This isn't Oprah, it's F150-dudes-with-sacks-Online. Get the date, grab her **** on the dance floor and lay one on her. Take nude pics and post them.

If you don't, Buddy Christ hates you.

 

Wow...pretty good advice Brew. Well, except for the last line.

 

Brew is dead on here. This advice will get you the date. Girls like guys to take an authoritative role, it is in the DNA of all females. Be a man and handle your business

 

GET HER A GIFT! Even if its a cheap dozen of roses from Speedway(which have saved my *** many a times)....(they never know, they look legit)

 

First of all, DO NOT listen to camarothatcould! Dzervit has got it figured out. Giving gifts is seen as weak by women and does not create the needed ATTRACTION that young women are after.
The fear of rejection should not even be something you think about. Be confident, somewhat coc(ky and funny, and show her that you are your own person living in your own reality. Dont suck up. Dont let her intimidate you. Bust her chops some and have fun because thats what young women want. Trust me, I'm 23, graduating college next week, and I've been there done that with women whether it was in bars, class, heck even church. It's not about how you look or what you have, ITS YOUR ATTITUDE that will attract women.

Don't be a ****, but being a bit coc(ky, funny and showing a girl you are just fine how you are and that you don't need their "approval" is a MAJOR turn on to them. Being a wuss and giving gifts, sucking up to her, doing what she wants to do,etc, is NOT ATTRACTIVE to a woman. You will not succeed in being a 'sexual threat' to her if you are a wuss, and will have no chance in dating her...if you dont create this attraction right away and let her know "you're in charge here", she will only be a friend, and no more.

Think of it like this: She should consider herself lucky to go to the dance/prom/other generic event with you.

Now go be a PIMP!

 

Some of that may be true. I mean, how many times have you heard a girl say they are attracted to the bad boys. However, a girl also likes compliments, affection, consideration, appreciation and a nice guy too. But you guys are still young and into game playing. Just be yourself. If she likes you, fine. If she doesn't, her loss.

 

Agreed. DO NOT listen to me

 

Nobody listens to me