Im pretty much on the same page with most of you. If you wouldnt do it in front of her, then its cheating. If you text, email, chat online, or even think about it, it will eventually happen.

 

E (all above). To me all of them are cheating. Flirting is a form of cheating but not as harsh as A or B. Flirting can lead to A.

 

Exactly, all of them would be cheating if your wife disapproved.

 

you forget the dumb things teens do? lol

 

Id agree that flirting is kinda borderline. If Im in a relationship, I personally wont flirt. Back when my ex and I were still together, there were a lot of women at work whom I used to talk to at least once a day, but pretty much stopped talkint to because I didnt want my g/f to worry.
A few of them even went to far as to confront my g/f, saying things to her like, "what, just because you and him are dating now you wont let him talk to us anymore???"
Of course, that wasnt the case, but I wanted to make it clear to my g/f that I was with her, that I was committed to our relationship and that no women on the face of the Earth could steal me away from her.
To me, its a matter of moral and its a choice we make. Sadly, in today's world, things like morals and chivalry are qualities that are all too rare.

 

i'm not gonna lie, i am guilty of flirting with other girls. however, i do believe that "all of the above" are considered cheating, and any interaction with another woman you wouldn't want your girlfriend/fiance/wife to see is cheating.

personally, i have never understood why people physically cheat on their significant other. if you are unhappy with him/her, just break up with or divorce him/her.

 

Just A for me. If she's get boinked, you've got a problem.

 

If there is a strong solid trust, flirting and yes even more can be fun and enhance. But...if their is deceit it can all go so very wrong. It is a dangerous game...one i am fond of, but...both parties need to know and accept the limits. Been there, done that.

 

Sometimes you just need a change of scenery for one night.

 

Can't lie.. Done the same, and told her to like it!

 

Looks alone are only good as trophy's.