ok so i have/had (not really sure right now) this girlfriend(michelle) for the past 2 years. when we met i right away liked her she was out going and very friendly(the second time i saw her she invited me to california and disneyland for a week but thats a whole differnt story). so then we started dating and i loved her i loved spending time with her, she was verry fun to be around. then shortly after we started going out she lost all of her friends because she thought they wouldnt aprove of us dating, even though they were fine with it. so things went great for the first year then she got a new job managing her parents restaurant, and i think that got to her head and we started fighting quite often. it was a roller coaster it had its ups and downs. so about a month ago we decide to go on a break which didnt really happen we actually ended up spending more time together...then out of the blue her ex best friend who hated each other sent her a message online saying she was coming home for the summer from Michigan and they should catch up. so i thought great just what she needs FRIENDS she had none, so i thought this would make things better. so they go out and after wards she calls me to tell me she is gonna be living with her for the summer. so the past few weeks my gf had been hanging out with old friends sometimes with me sometimes without, honestly this was great my gf was outgoing again and was actually doing more then just sitting at home watching tv. then tuesday night she says she is going out with her roommate and that we would do sometihing the next night. i say fine ill go out with my friends, well they ended up being busy and so i called my gf to see if i could just come with me and she gets mad at me saying that she needs friends and needs to go out with them alone....ok so that made me pretty upset because when i go out if i dont invite her along with she gets mad at me about it saying i dont like spending time with her....but im a guy to let things go and i want her to have friends so i let it go. then last night (when we were supposed to hang out) she calls me to tell me she was going to her roommates parents house with her for dinner then they would come over to my place (about one minute away) so that irritates me a bit but whatever, so i say to call before they leave so i could take a shower and get ready. so i was just working in the garage and it started to get late so i took a shower anyways and figured it wouldnt be long. so they didnt show up untill 9:30 and its a half hour drive to my gf's appartment and she likes to go to bed early. so that made me mad. so then she says i should come over to her place and invite friends over if i want, well my friends were busy so it was just the 3 of us. then she notices im not happy with her and she says she wants to go on a real break this time so that she can make friends, and have fun. and this pissed me off because to me we were doing great and having alot of fun like we used to. so she says another reason is because im not doing anything to get a job or move out of my parents place, but really i am im going to ASU for mechanical engineering(she doenst go to school) and just applyed to a few jobs, aprentiships and internships. so now she want to go on a break just so she can have fun with friends which is basically what she had always gotten mad at me about....


ok well sorry for the rant just had to get it off my chest

 

I feel ya!

However it works out,
STAY IN SCHOOL!!!

Let her go as painful as it may be.

 

im deffinatly staying in school, ive got 3 years into it and thats too much time to just throw away....

btw here is michelle for reference



and her roommate

 

Would you just break it off with her already!? It just getting rediculous man. Shes gettin bi-polar like, which is no bueno. thats how my ex got, you remember how that was!

 

THAT my friend...Is why God invented booze. AND roommates.... You know what to do..

 

if this happened a couple weeks back i would have but things have gotten alot better, but things are always best before they are gone

 

exactly, things got better. but now she is pullin this crap. She needs to make up her mind!!!!

 

At that age chicks are completely out of there minds half the time. They go through 'phases' like crazy. A few months they want to go to school and get a succesful career, then the next they want to settle down, then the next they want to be rock stars. Perfect opportunity for you to go have a complete blast with your friends, etc. It may be hard but don't try to hang on if she is in some phase that puts you to the back burner.

 

breaks never work, in my experience. save yourself the trouble and move on, you don't want to spend your last year in college worrying. Or like ranger7489 said, just hook up with her roommate , she'll never want to talk to you again, problem solved. just my .02

 

i met michelle on a double date with her current roommate

so trust me that thought has crossed my mind, o and its not my last year....

 

i think you still have my aim, if you want someone to talk to and maybe get some advice let me know

 

yeah i do, thanks but no need to burden you with girl problems, i just hadnt told anyone and wanted to so im good now, that and ill tell alice all about it tonight at her house haha

 

She not too bad looking -- you might want to maintain somewhat friendly relations with her if for no other reason than to enjoy some "extra curriculars" every once in awhile.....

 

i understand, but ive also been there with no one to turn to. Just know im here if needed

 

thanks man

o yeah, we'll always be friends no matter what