Which means if it doesn't work out with my ex-boy friend or if I get tired of him. It's ultimatium time man. She either needs to committ to a relationship with you or you're done.

Maybe it'd help make up your mind if you ask her if shes kissed her ex-bf when they've gone out or if any romantic is going on there. If I was a betting man my cash would be on "Yes".

 

first of all, hold your damn ground dude. Don't invite yourself out with her friends. When I read that I had to stop, that is a big no-no and knocked you down a notch in her book guaranteed. Distance will make the heart grow fonder, give her some space, you are getting clingy.

 

yeah bro, I went thru something like this about a year ago. Thought I was the only one that has ever experienced something like this. She wanted a break, then she wanted to date (but only kiss), then kissing wasn't enough, etc. etc. Finally I woke up and listened to my friends (after a few months of agony ). Dump this chick and don't look back. go out on a few dates, see that there are better chicks out there. or have your friends smack that fleshy patch where your manhood used to be. j/k man, but seriously, not worth it.

 

If I have to, I'll do it cole!

 

Man there are a millions of reasons to move on and do your thing, and im sure you can find a couple good ones out of the bunch.

 

sounds like she has "found her independence" and doesn't need you. Also seems like shes a control freak. I wouldn't waste my time withe her any more..

 

ok this is really weird it sounds like me 2 months ago. The ex started hanging out with friends again and pretty soon she was telling me we needed a break. We still talked I thought there was still hope and now she is dating another guy and she blames me for every bit of unhappiness that she ever had I am the bad guy. I know I don't have money but damn she wouldn't let me do anything that I enjoyed without trying to ruin it for me, and if I didn't absolutly love something she did I was the bad guy too. It really sucks to walk away from someone you love but sometimes it just has to be done. Just seriously get out and meet people even if it is a sausagefest you never know who you are gonna meet that could lead to a new girl. Don't talk to her either I made that mistake too many times since I started freaking out that I was gonna lose her. It wouldn't surprise me if you didn't listen to anyones advice though since I had people telling me the same things and I didn't listen either.