azmidget91- All jokeing aside. I hope thinks work out if you really care about her, Its constantly something with women though man...It has to get worst before it gets any better. Goodluck

 

First step is to stop calling her! No matter how you want it to end up. If she calls you chat for about 3 -5 minutes then tell her you're busy and get off the phone. Let her wonder what you're up to.
What ever the case is allways go with your gut.

 

I already suggested the roomate thing a while back


I honestly dont know what to tell ya cole, its really up to you two. We can only make suggestions. But this is the second "break" in how long already? How many does she want to take? To me its getting rediculous and childish. She needs to make her mind up, or shut up.


beings why im still single, cuz its next to impossible to find a girl who aint crazy. Oh well, I still enjoy myself plus I can go out with other girls and not get in trouble!

 

We have already told him that a couple times when he hangs out with us and our buddies, but its like talkin to a brick wall

Kiddin cole!

 

funny thing is that my gut for almost the past year has been more towards just breaking up with her but lately i really want to be with her....

but yeah im not calling her she called this morning and i didnt answer, and didnt call back then she called this afternoon we talked for about a minute then just now she called to tell me she was going to a graduation

 

Whoa dude, thats a huge warning sign right in front of your face! I was the same way with my ex. For a long while I wanted to end it, then I started wanting to be with her alot more, hence the engagement. Then she ended it. If your gut gives you that feeling, alot of times its best to follow it. Especially if you had that feeling for a year!

 

Your gut is telling you to break up, your ego is the one that wants to still be with her. Take your ego out of the picture and things will clear up real quick.
Your sig says it all bro!
Why would you want to be with a chik thats twisting you up so much?

 

Just go stand on a corner in Winslow Arizona.

 

thanks guys

so i figure im gonna give it a day or two and tell her to decide if she wants to be with me or not

but anyways im headed out for wings and halo thanks again guys

 

Why can't you decide for yourself rather you want to be treated like this? You have a choice in this whole ordeal. I've had some bad deals in the past. You sound young so don't be in a hurry to get serious. Enjoy the time you have with your friends while being young. You will never get that time back. I've had my fair share of heart breaks and being done wrong, I can't say I regret them because it has taught me a lot but I do look back and see all the things I could have been doing with my friends instead of going to some crazy girls every whim. Just my thoughts on it. Good luck.

 

im 21

and im not "serious" with her i mean one thing she was mad about was that i didnt want to spend the night at her place....and my decision is to stay with her but that wont work if thats not what she wants...

 

Dude, her "friends" are totally screwing with her head. They are probably single and feeding her crap about "You're young, you need to party! You don't need to be tied down with anybody!" So on and so forth. Let her go, dude. One day after she realizes that you were more important than a bunch of drunks, she'll call you and hopefully it'll be too late. Same familiar Lifetime story, different day. - Og

 

thats kinda what we tell him. He is young and should be able to do what ever he pleases rather than having to please her all the time.

 

Bang the roommate! Way hotter!

 

Man i was in the same position with my ex of 5 yrs. She would want to get married one second and then the next was super serious about school and her "future career" then she wanted to move away to another state. I was finally tired of it and the on and off again relationship and even though it was hard, I ended it.