Ok here is the deal.. I called her twice at around 10:30-11:00.. I just wanted to make sure she is ok. No answer the first time, I waited another hr to call her the second time.. No answer... I only text her once the whole nice and that was to see how she was doing... That's when I got the answer I got..

Right now the baby is living with her mother because I am doing some work around the apartment.. All I want is her to be honest with me.. She keeps telling me I am making all this up in my head and that I am jumping to conclusions.. Thats why I figured I would ask your opinions on if I am just making it up in my head or if I have something to worry about...

Something else that make me upset is this weekend we went down to A/C and we had a great time, she was very loving and stupid me I even gave her some money to gamble away... We had a great time. Then she got that phone call and says that she got annoyed at something.. a couple hrs later she left and that was it..

So first thing she does this morning is ask if I'm up... She says she doesn't like to be in prison.. I ask her what she meant by that and she said she doesn't like all the questions.. All I asked her is where she was going.. I think if we have been in a relationship for 2 years with a baby I think I have earned the right to ask where you were going.. She asks me the same thing and I don't blow up on her.. Things just don't seems right to me... I might be jumping to conclusions and maybe my mind is playing tricks on me.. But I'm going to see what's up in the next couple of days...


James

 

I'd go with your gut on this one. I'm going through it right now, four of my good friends also have been f-ed with in the last two months and a good buddy who has a 4 yr old has been going through a nasty divorce now because she decided to start switch hitting...

I wouldn't trust her at all - you deserve the truth and yes, respect. Stupid women wtf is in the water nowadays? Just take your time, be smart, and collect more info is all I can say.

 

Just tell her you caught her and you aren't going to be with her anymore. When she ask for proof just continuously tell her not to worry about it, you know enough to know where you stand and you're leaving. A cheater will almost never admit to it.

I hate to be blunt about it but she's banging some guy behind your back. Pack up and roll out, it sucks, and break ups are a long road of heart break. Get your boys together and go get smashed and throw up in the bar and get kicked out. Wake up the next morning to find out you pee'd in the closet and you feel like complete dog crap. That's all it took for me to get over here...that's the point where I said, nope, she's not going to make me feel like that again!

I guess you can skip the peeing in the closet if you want, but my goal was to get over her by getting sloshed....and it worked!

 

Even if she wasn't cheating, it doesn't sound like a relationship that would last. I would try to get custody of the kid, and start over. There is no point in being with someone that causes problems for you. It will just spread to your kid. Get out when you can.

 

cheating... too bad child involved.

 

Sorry Buddy. It's a slippery slope. FYI, no judge will take a child away from mom unless she is really mentally screwed up or she gives it up.

 

Sorry to hear about that situation. Hope you both get what you deserve. You the child and her an empty home.

 

Not true the courts follow the best interest of the child. True, usually its the mother but not all the time.

 

Sometimes even if they're screwed up

 

www.cheaters.com
Call them. I would ummm !!!KICK THE BITCH!!! But thats just me.
Try to follow her day and Fu#&*n night 24/7 365 take video,pics would be nice also. You a young guy??? get over it and move on....
good luck.

 

With all due respect, judging by the age of the child and the fact the OP hasn't said his girl has neglected the child, I honestly do not believe a court would take the child from the mother.

 

Been there, done that!

 

your a cop aren't you?


i agree she is doing something she isn't supposed to be doing, dont put up w/ her ****, if she gives you the run around, just start treating her how she is treating you (w/ the exception of cheating, i never approve of that) and see what she says. try and do anything you can do to keep your kid, thats the most important thing.

 

That was my point.

 

Try to get out of it like mostly everybody else said. Except get out of it in a way that wont hurt your case in court for keeping the child (i.e. going around sleeping with other woman, going to the bar everynight and coming home drunk, ect...)