She walked out...with my heart in a sack,
She walked out...with my remote in her purse,
She walked out...with my couch on her boyfriends back
I didn't think it could get much worse,

She came, back cryin that she needed to pee,
She really just tried to ****** my keys from me,
I fought for my ride...I couldn't take it no more,
Now all I need is a seat and a door

 

Ok, don't take this the wrong way, but if you "date" a girl for 8 years, that's pretty much all it will/should ever be. You are very fortunate in this situation, I got stuck with 50k debt from a crazy crazy crazy ex.

05FX4SCREW: Someone once told me that if a someone ever ask to borrow $20 and you never see them again, then it was $20 well spent. I say the same thing with the ring. I said the same thing with the 50k I lost. Lesson Learned.

Dan:

Go out and have some fun. Just remember to be straight and honest with the girls: "I'm not looking for a girlfriend, a wife, a baby's momma, nothing like that. My name is Dave, not baby, honey, love....just Dave. I just got out of a long serious relationship and right now I just want to hang out and have fun. If it leads to something like that....great...if not then it was cool hanging out with you." That gets the formalities out of the way.

Be careful though, women tend to get attached rather easy to someone who tells them they don't want a girlfriend right now. I had a lot I had to let go because they broke the rule and started calling me "baby" and saying they missed me. They never understood but I knew what I wanted and it wasn't a girlfriend, so I'd rather cut it there than really hurt them.

Good luck to you, you are better off without her and her stuff....I'd go buy a F-250 if I were in your shoes. Unfortunately for me, it's cheaper to keep her. I'm just kidding, I love my wife with everything I have, she's my world!

 

^^

Edit: Houston Four slipped in.

 

What did I miss? Or get?

 

Dan, I'm with the others on this board. I think you got out of this senerio as the winner. I would ask for the ring back, expecting that she wouldn't give it, but I'd try jsut once. Ask once, if she gives ya crap, move on. Just think about how much truck you can buy with 29 grand. Way more than you had, and you already have the wheels and stuff, to make it look good. Glad you didn't end up getting married, that would have sucked big time.

 

Yep, we were engaged...Only 3 months after our engagement she pulls all this. Just goes to show you that you never really know someone, even when you think you do! I did get the ring back, all though it took me a week to get it. She kept trying saying no, and then kept trying to make deals for it, asking me to give her this, or give her that, and she'll give it back to me. *******ing C**t! I finally got it back though. I paid $3,000 for the thing, but the place I bought it will only buy it back for half of that. And I've had it on craigslist with no luck so far, so I keep dropping the price.

And as someone else said, yeah it was very stupid to be upside down as much as I was. I had a 2003 F-150 before my 06, but it was 2WD and I couldn't even make it up my street to my driveway in the winter, very irritating. So I traded it in after less than a year to get a 4x4 and basically $10,000 got carried over. So basically I was paying for two trucks. I was paying it off just fine while we were together, because I had assumed I'd keep that truck for a very long time. But hey, to hell with it, it's in her name, she took it, I did not co-sign anything at all....Soooo....She can have fun with that debt.

I should of cut the exhaust off too, I almost did, my buddy had his sawzall ready to go and everything...lol And I seriously thought about just taking my wheels off and leaving the truck on blocks somewhere as well..
I guess I just didn't do those things because I didn't want any more trouble of any kind. At this point I just want her out of my life forever. I actually purchased a pair of stock wheels for it (I didn't have mine), I only paid $150 for them though. It doesn't bother me too much since I can sell my custom wheel and tire setup for decent money.

Since that day she came and blindsided me by coming here to take my whole living room, I stopped paying for the truck fearing the same thing would happen. The bitch wouldn't even put anything in writing for me about the truck. I just kept the payments in my bank account and held on to them just in case she decided to act like a decent person and be reasonable.

She knows I won't take the truck back. I came right out and told her the other day that I'm not helping her credit for the next 5+ years, or risking having it taken from me at any point because she decides she wants it, and then I end up losing even more money. Because when she came to take it, she said "oh, well, if you give me the money for the payments now then you can keep it". Then she says..."actually no, I want it, give me the keys" First of all, I have the slips and had always payed it myself, so no way would I give her the money so she can supposedly pay it. And secondly, I just can't trust her at all. I mean she flip flopped right then and there, not to mention the other crap she pulled, so trust is out the window. Then she tells me she got a letter saying the truck will be repossessed this coming Tuesday, and tells me that it's ok because she has a plan. Then two seconds later she says she doesn't know what she's gonna do, then she's back to saying she has a plan again. I'm just thinking "Wow, this girl is *********!

This past weekend when she came back to get it (after I took my stuff off and out of it). After avoiding her phone calls for a bit on Saturday morning I finally answered the phone. She wanted me to meet her somewhere and drop it off to her, I told her fine I'll call you back in a few. But then I just called her back and told her it's in front of my house, the keys are in it, come get it and never call me, never email me, never come here, never contact me ever again! Then I hung up, watched her come take it, opened the door and took pictures of her taking it (just in case she tried to pull something). She say's.."oh yeah, take your pictures"...I continued to take the picture, and then shut my door. Last I heard from her....good riddance.

At this point I'm happy it's gone and not hanging over my head anymore. All ties to her are cut, and that 29k is her problem. She dug her own financial grave, not me, this is not what I wanted at all. I wanted to end everything as civil as possible, even given the amount of pain she caused me. But she insisted to continue being a cruel, heartless, sorry excuse for a human being. And seemed to drop all feelings and respect like a hot potato. So she can go rot in hell now for all I care...

 

I'm driving a little 98 corolla right now, it's free, no payments or anything, just insurance. But damn does it suck, I feel like I'm gonna get road rash because I'm so friggen low to the ground lol. But it's a way to get from point A to point B, it's in good condition for the most part, and get's great gas mileage. So it will have to do until I can get back in another F-150. I'm just grateful I have something to get me back and fourth to work, so I'm not completely screwed.

26 and single with no ties........Could be worse. Time to live a little!
Wow I wrote a book here, sorry about that...

 

Thanks for all the kind words guys...I appreciate it..

 

dude...I know this sucks and I do understand the pain...trust me. I made it past the wedding and a couple months into the marriage before she lied, cheated, and tried to get me fired from the place I got her a job at!!

I now fully understand the saying "divorce...it's expensive because it is worth it!!"

But luckly most of the $$ worked out easy since we did not have anything combined and she couldnt afford the rent on the house we were in. But she is happy with the guy she cheated on me with and is unemployed and a loser....the loser that the guy before me tried to warn me about. yes...I was warned!! So I warned the next guy and have no guilt when I say I am happy as hell he is stuck with her!!! LOLOLOL

 

Lets see... You lost a truck that you were WAY upside down on (that she is now stuck with, good luck to her selling it), and a lying cheating *****. Whats the problem again?

 

lol hey man you turned out alright in the end. you didnt get hosed like you could've.

that car isnt that low to the ground. go sit in a probe, or a civic. those put your butt low to the ground. especially some of these civics i see with 3 fat mexicans driving down the freeway hitting the bumps in the road. i swear i saw sparks. LOL

 

I was laughing at Raoul's Lyrics.

 

Hey man live it up bro, good thing she pulled this shiz before you got hitched up.

Amen on the 29k debt being not ur prob ne more, just make sure to take the right roads and make sure of that! PM me if you need any advice on legal activities okay man!

Also I saved ur pic ALONG time ago to my PC its what has made my mind up to swap to black wheels this fall!

 

Thought this from sentence one.

Not to be harsh, but to have her in on so many things is crazy. Next time you want a couch/tv/whatever, pay cash yourself, or finance in your name only!!

 

Hola Raoul:

Good lyrics, I hope to expand on the thought in the next few days.

At the moment, I have just finished the last of the marathon of Christmas orders and have changed my music fare.

Due to the current economic situation, I have been hitting the local Good Will stores around here at least once a week picking up music CDs. $1.75 each and most are sealed and new.

Today, I got the sound track from Evita with Madonna and Antonio Banderas which I am listening to right now. Last week, I picked up three Billy Rawlett CDs as well as some old ***** Nelson before he became famous and an Icelandic Jazz thingie with all the lyrics in Icelandic set to American tunes.

To return to Dan and his epic, it almost seems to me that he may have set his GF up with the truck purchase. If so, not such a pure story, maybe.

Bill