so im goin to cabo this summer with a friend and her family. we've been good friends for quite a while now. its fairly obvious that i like her and she has some feelings for me, but theres a kicker lol. shes got a boyfriend. i was friends with this guy up until recently. should i feel bad? ive got my opinion already id just like to hear yours.
Scott oh btw. fully stocked mini fridge and liquor dispensers in every room

 

Depends, why are you no longer friends with this guy

 

Maybe the girl had something to do with it...

 

yeah, after he found out how good of friends were had become he didnt like it and starter talkin smack. ill leave that for highschool, im done with all that junk. i just cant understand why she asked me and not her boyfriend? i mean im not complaining, im happy as he!! but idk. it should be alota fun. im very very excited. anyone every been there?

 

I think we'll need pictures to come up with a valid opinion.

 

whats the name of the hotel? I went there last year and stayed at the hotel RIU cabo, or something like that. Its unreal how much fun you can have AT the hotel

 

I was there a couple years ago and stayed at Dreams resort. That place is amazing. Beautiful place to vacation. You'll have a great time.

Go for the chick. The dude is just jealous.

 

Im an ***, so I say Fck your friend & hit that. Just remeber if she is running around on her bf with you she will run around on you with another guy. Dont get serious with this chick, just have a good time and hit the road

 

Never get involved with a friends girlfriend. It will never end well. She will either go back to him after she is done with you, then you have lost them both or she will stay with you and you won't trust her for what she did to your buddy.

 

Cabo? no way...Rocky Point FTW!!!

God I love mexico...

Let her make the first move...if she wants it bad enough, she will.

 

The OP needs to figure out exactly where he stands with this girl before committing to spending a summer with her and her family.

It's 'fairly obvious' you like her and she has 'some' feelings for you? Hmmm. Sounds like you could be on her 'friends' ladder. Google 'ladder theory' and check it out.

Sure, a vacation to Cabo is cool, but there could be lots of strings attached. Not just restrictions due to the family, but she could easily be bringing you to be her friend/ body guard/ activity buddy/ security blanket/ towel boy/ designated self esteem booster and NOT her boyfriend. If you want to be her boyfriend, you need to address it before leaving for Cabo, or this situation could end up bad.

The parents may be bringing you because a) they know their daughter sees you only as a friend and she is safe with you; and/or b) they don't like the other dude at all and want to see him go away, and they are bringing her to Cabo to get her away from him.

And that's not even mentioning how her current boyfriend / your friend deals with you.

BTW, was the other dude invited to go first, and he just could not make it due to work or school?

 

well, me and her are just friends for now, and im not really lookin to go farther with it as of now (while she has a boyfriend), and her parents are not taking me. im going along. im paying for myself. im going becuase she thought it would be fun to have a friend along. if anything happens while were there, hey lol its mexico. were going to riu santa fe. the other guy wasnt invited at all. and her parents like the kid so thats not it either. idk. all i know is im going to mexico and its gonna be one he!! of a time. and there wont be any strings attached to this.

 

i said that once... now we've been together for 2 years

 

well i mean bad strings lol.

 

I agree - and make sure either you are bigger or faster than her ex