Originally Posted by Daveg99

Actually I have been living a somewhat crazy life the past few years. I am 31 and I have been living like I am still in college sometimes. I have been thinking that once I do decide to settle down I would quit all the drinking and partying and become much more responsible. I think I can handle that type of life. I am actually getting tired of being a party animal and looking forward to having a family one day and living a "normal" life. I am not saying I am going to marry this girl and settle down with her any time soon. I mean I barely even know her. From what I can tell she is a very nice girl and she seems like shes a good mom. And this may be a start to a new way of life. We actually had a conversation tonight about this weekend and the kid situation came up. She lives a few hours away from her parents so its hard for her to get someone to watch the boys so she can go out and have a good time. And I totaly understand that and respect that. I asked her what her plans are for the weekend and I think she is going to try and get someone to watch the kids either Friday or Saturday night. I am being very patient with her and her kid situation. We have a few mutual friends (thats how we met) and one of them told her about this pumpkin festival thing this weekend. I think we may go to this and bring the kids along. But the catch is she doesnt want to go with just me and the kids. If a large group of people go she said it would be Ok for the kids to go with us. Our mutual friend has kids also and they can all play together. But she doesnt want to force me on the kids right away. I am thinking shes trying to get to know me better before she introduces me as her boyfriend or whatever. And I agree with her on that. Today she was talking about her ex boyfriend she had and through hearing about her talking bad about him I can tell she wants a family and wants to live together with someone eventually. I am not against that at all but I do want to take things slow. I am definetely not trying to become instant DADDY! I just want to be moms boyfriend for now! There is a big difference. Well thanks for listening and I will keep everyone posted on what comes of this whole situation. Again I appreciate all the advice from the people who gave it. And I will be sure to post some pics of us from this coming weekend.

Originally Posted by BHibbs

Dr. Laura would say, "No, it's too late for her. She had her chance with her husband and she blew it. Now it's all about the kids and "dating" and "boyfriends" don't work and aren't good for children. After she raises the kids and they're out of the house, Then it will be Her time again. Until then it's All about the kids"

BHibbs would say Hit It and get the hell out of there!

Originally Posted by Shinesintx

I don't care how crazy you act or what you do...except the DWI part. I live in the same city as you do. I ride my motorcycle around the M streets, and the Lower Greenville area. Thats where you live isnt it? I bet we've even passed one another on 75. I would never want my Yamaha to meet your F150.

As far as everyone having a beer at Kellars for the meet and greet...I met you there, and I did not have a beer in hand, nor did I ever have one. You were drunk when you got there...and I was the first person you asked for...but you would not remember.

I promise Dave, one day I will quit riding you so hard. When you start taking taxis, or you are six foot under.

Originally Posted by Shinesintx

That was actually very well thought out, and I appreciate your comments. After reading what you wrote, I have developed an utmost respect for you. Its nice, that you actually took the time to develop a response...even though, you got a little snippy in the end. It did not hurt my feelings. I am sorry if I insulted you earlier, but there are a lot here who like to type a few nasty words and run for cover.

I will say that IMO driving is not a privledge, that it is a right...but thats a whole nuther' conversation.



Here is where we differ, and I look at you with raised eyebrows. Driving drunk is illegal! Drunk drivers account for...

Over 50% of all fatal highway crashes involving two or more cars are alcohol related.
Over 65% of all fatal single car crashes are alcohol related.
Over 36% percent of all adult pedestrian accidents are alcohol related.
80% of all fatal alcohol related auto crashes occur between 8 pm and 8 am.
36% of all adult pedestrian accidents involve an intoxicated pedestrian.

Did you read this when I posted it earlier? I don't understand the logic of someone who sees these kind of numbers, and questions whether I should ridicule Dave for doing so. WTF? I HATE THOSE THAT DRINK AND DRIVE!

Am I a bad person for feeling this way? I think anyone who is .05 BAC, and kills another human while driving a vehicle, should be SHOT on the spot. Thats really gotta **** some of ya off. Does that make me even worse now?

Originally Posted by Daveg99

Actually I have been living a somewhat crazy life the past few years. I am 31 and I have been living like I am still in college sometimes. I have been thinking that once I do decide to settle down I would quit all the drinking and partying and become much more responsible. I think I can handle that type of life. I am actually getting tired of being a party animal and looking forward to having a family one day and living a "normal" life. I am not saying I am going to marry this girl and settle down with her any time soon. I mean I barely even know her. From what I can tell she is a very nice girl and she seems like shes a good mom. And this may be a start to a new way of life. We actually had a conversation tonight about this weekend and the kid situation came up. She lives a few hours away from her parents so its hard for her to get someone to watch the boys so she can go out and have a good time. And I totaly understand that and respect that. I asked her what her plans are for the weekend and I think she is going to try and get someone to watch the kids either Friday or Saturday night. I am being very patient with her and her kid situation. We have a few mutual friends (thats how we met) and one of them told her about this pumpkin festival thing this weekend. I think we may go to this and bring the kids along. But the catch is she doesnt want to go with just me and the kids. If a large group of people go she said it would be Ok for the kids to go with us. Our mutual friend has kids also and they can all play together. But she doesnt want to force me on the kids right away. I am thinking shes trying to get to know me better before she introduces me as her boyfriend or whatever. And I agree with her on that. Today she was talking about her ex boyfriend she had and through hearing about her talking bad about him I can tell she wants a family and wants to live together with someone eventually. I am not against that at all but I do want to take things slow. I am definetely not trying to become instant DADDY! I just want to be moms boyfriend for now! There is a big difference. Well thanks for listening and I will keep everyone posted on what comes of this whole situation. Again I appreciate all the advice from the people who gave it. And I will be sure to post some pics of us from this coming weekend.

Originally Posted by Daveg99

Thanks racerchick. I know I have driven drunk and I do not think its right at all. I have made many mistakes in my life as I am not perfect. I think that this girl might calm me down some and help me head in the right direction. I was just on the phone with her for almost an hour and a half and I hate talking on the phone!

And I hear ya about the motorcycle riding Shines. I too am a biker and I wouldnt want a drunk guy driving around me in a 6000lb truck either. Being on a motorcycle makes you very vulnerable. I get mad at people all the time when I am riding down the highway for their crappy driving.

Originally Posted by Shinesintx

Next time I see you, we'll hug it out.

I know I am going to sound like my dad...but the kids watch what you do more than they listen to what you say.

Originally Posted by Shinesintx

I know I am going to sound like my dad...but the kids watch what you do more than they listen to what you say.

Originally Posted by Daveg99

Hug it out....anyone watch entourage?