So my girlfriend wants to go to the club with a bunch of her friends for her 19th B-day. I am not to fond of it, as it is in a bad area, she will probably be drunk, it will be 2 a.m. when she is leaving, and I'm sure she'll be dressed up looking like a piece of *** to every guy in the place. I'm pretty pissed, most of all because I'm concerned about her safety, and the fact that there will be guys harassing my drunk girlfriend. What do you guys think?

 

I think you need to read what you wrote and admit to what you're really saying and not the question you're not really asking.

 

Yeah..... what he said....

 

You'd probably be pissed if your girlfriend wanted to keep you from going out with your buddies on a special day for you. If your girlfriend is 19, then you probably aren't that far off. Unless you are married or engaged, you shouldn't expect her to be too loyal and even if you are married or engaged, that is no guarantee.

Let her have her fun and you have your fun. What's the worst that can happen... she goes off and bangs some dude? Do you really want to be with a girl like that anyway?

 

What club was she going to again? Do you have a current picture?

 

We'll make sure she gets home safe.

 

.... x2

 

A 19 Y/O going to a bar and getting drunk......

Where is this at?

Don't know about there but here we have laws against that......

If she is promiscuous when drunk now, then she will be promiscuous when the 7 year itch hits and you seem like old news. If she even waits that long.....

If you don't trust her, then if it was me, she'd just be my booty call.

 

She's 19 dude, let her go. She's got a certain amount of partying she has to get out of her system. It's either now or later.... I'll keep an eye out for her..

 

I dunno guys... I really dont think she would do that... I am leaning towards her getting robbed or raped... Just because its in a shi**y area. Shes not the skanky party type or girl... Shes pretty quiet, and not the skanky type of girl. I really dont think she would cheat on me....

 

No worries about that happeneing, even in the worst neighborhood.

There is safety in numbers, you said she is going with friends.

 

Then you have nothing to worry about.

 

you could always spring for one of these.....

 

You guys crack me up.... Well its all settled now... I don't think she is going. I told her my feelings, and that I am more worried about her than anything. I said I'm not going to stop you from doing anything that you want to do, the choice is yours. I just asked her what her plan was in case something did happen.. Etc. She doesn't seem to really want to go because she knows I will be worried about her... Things are all good now. Thanks guys, I knew I could count on all of you for a good laugh

 

WAIT!!! THIS DUDE IS FROM D-TOWN!!! I'll escort the nice lady... of course I'll need pix first... what part of town is this 'club' in? There is no bad part of Livonia or the surrounding areas... so I'm guessing they are headed downtown?