Better yet, get her a pair of panties that say "I have herpes." Will work everytime and don't have to worry bout a lost key.

 

It's not the 7 year itch that is bad... It's the 7 year BITCH!

 

Id be mad too

 

Wow...you have a lot to learn about girls...especially the quiet non-skanky ones. Good luck with that.

 

True dat, but it dont stop after 7 years though......

 

dude let the girl go have some fun with her freinds. she will only hate you more in the end if you try to keep her under lock and key and dont let her have fun......

 

Just go with her. There was a girl i liked a while back that i went clubbing with, by the end of the night she was leaning all over me walking back to our car. Then we talked later after that and went on a few dates... But yeah just go with her if she really wants to go

 

Ditto.

My philosophy is.. if she want another dude.. let her have him. i'd rather be single and banging a BUNCH of ho's than be stuck with a hoe myself.

Seriously though.. let her have her fun.. When you go out with all your guy friends and hit on girls.. don't you think she'd be mad too. Let it go.

Since alcohol is so easily obtained undrage.. have a few brews and look at some internet ****.

I'm lucky though.. My girlfriend and I have a VERY open relationship.. it's worked for over 4 years now. This coming weekend should be AMAZING... two of her friends are coming to town.. I better get ready

 

Dude - you told her your feelings, and now she's not going? She's gonna remember this one, and I'm guessing it won't be the last. In her mind, she can't go, because you didn't want her to. Bad move. Your relationship would have been strengthened had you chose to check the paranoia, and trust her. Instead, it was weakened.

Dude says, "Baby, I don't want you to go, because I am worried that something might happen to you"

Girl hears, "Blah, blah, blah, I don't trust you, blah, blah, blah"
She tells her friends all about why she can't go, and they say, "dump his ****! If he doesn't trust you, then he's probably the one who's cheating!"



I met my wife in a night club in a "bad area" (they all are...) 13 years ago. We both agreed long before we were married that we would always be free to go out with our friends without any protest or rebuke. That kind of freedom and trust has proven to be one of the things that has kept our marriage very strong.

 

...and it doesn't take 7 years to get there!

 

My wife wanted to go out for the weekend with the girls...she wanted to know if I would get upset...

I already had the suitcase down and was helping her pack and in the other hand a cell phone ready to make my own plans....

 

To be honest... I really would be worried about her. She is from a small town, and doesnt really know the things that go on in the city. 6 months ago I could have cared less, now I am more paranoid, because I say to her what if this happens, or what if that, she replies with it wont because it never happened before... I lost my bestfriend 4 months ago tomorrow in a tragic snowmobile accident that nobody saw coming. I am just paranoid something COULD happen, and I could've said or done something to stop it. She knew my best friend also, and I explaned to her basically that was where I was coming from. She knew me before and after the accident and has seen how it has changed me. I think that she wasnt pissed, only after I explained my reasoning behind being concerned about her. I just explained **** can happen... In the blink of an eye everything can change. Expecailly when your drunk with one other girl, in a bad area, and its late at night. Not to mention she is 120 LBS soaking wet...

 

So to recap you live your life paranoid and scared that anyone close to you may die. And you guilt tripped your GF(maybe you didnt do it on purpose, but you did) into not going to the club/bar. Sounds like she's going to leave your a$$ really quick if you keep that up. She doesnt need you to treat her like a parent because thats what her mother and father are for.


That must be alot of water....

 

Ok, seriously... what is this mysterious "bad area" your talking about? As a local I want to know, 'cuz I don't know of many areas I'd be hesitent to send a chick to with her friends.

 

Its freakin' Detroit man. The only city worse than my home town of Baltimore.

I figure you leave your porch you're a dead man.