Interracial Dating-
Originally Posted by GB150
My experience is pretty similar to this. I'm a white guy that's been married to a black woman for almost 14 years and we have two kids. Most of the "looks" that we get are from black men. They seem to have the biggest problem w/ us being together. I'm not going to lie, it use to bother us. I dont know if it doesn't bother us much anymore or if we just ignore it. We now live in the Dallas, Texas area and interracial relationships here are pretty common so we dont get as many "looks" as we did when I was in the military and stationed in Kansas.
I prefer black women over other races. I dont know what it is about them, they're just what does it for me.
I prefer black women over other races. I dont know what it is about them, they're just what does it for me.
I don't think the looks ever really bothered us, it was more of an annoyance that we just ignored. The looks that kind of get under my skin a little is when people try to stare at our kids. We can tell when somebody is making that extra effort to see what complection they are.
i am 32 grew up i a two horse town in missouri population 846 moved to oklahoma when i was 20 met a black sexy female got married a year later been there ever since no problems i still wear tight wranglers and boots she wears short shorts and sun dresses,two kids and years later still toghter its not a problem unless you get a$$ who is dumb and ignorant i wouldn't change it for anything all woman are the s$$t
they all have what us guys want
they all have what us guys want
Originally Posted by cw974x4
i am 32 grew up i a two horse town in missouri population 846 moved to oklahoma when i was 20 met a black sexy female got married a year later been there ever since no problems i still wear tight wranglers and boots she wears short shorts and sun dresses,two kids and years later still toghter its not a problem unless you get a$$ who is dumb and ignorant i wouldn't change it for anything all woman are the s$$t
they all have what us guys want
they all have what us guys want
Cool, this thread has gone very well, a lot of honest and candid answers.
I posted this on another forum, and it is being treated with kid gloves, but the ones who have replied there, are keeping it at high level...
One guy did come back with a "Birds of a fether flock together" statement. I'm not going to condemn him for that.. I just think it's somewhat close-minded to alientate a potential mate because of their race. Not just him, anyone...
I saw a show on Maury Povich where their was this big & tall sister, good looking, regal- didn't want anything to do with black men, because according to her, black men cheat, and don't work.
Stereotype much?
Her interview was real nasty... Then there was the other side of the cube- white fathers who had disowned their daughters for dating black men...
It was crazy...
I posted this on another forum, and it is being treated with kid gloves, but the ones who have replied there, are keeping it at high level...
One guy did come back with a "Birds of a fether flock together" statement. I'm not going to condemn him for that.. I just think it's somewhat close-minded to alientate a potential mate because of their race. Not just him, anyone...
I saw a show on Maury Povich where their was this big & tall sister, good looking, regal- didn't want anything to do with black men, because according to her, black men cheat, and don't work.

Stereotype much?
Her interview was real nasty... Then there was the other side of the cube- white fathers who had disowned their daughters for dating black men...
It was crazy...
Originally Posted by Bighersh
Cool, this thread has gone very well, a lot of honest and candid answers.
I posted this on another forum, and it is being treated with kid gloves, but the ones who have replied there, are keeping it at high level...
One guy did come back with a "Birds of a fether flock together" statement. I'm not going to condemn him for that.. I just think it's somewhat close-minded to alientate a potential mate because of their race. Not just him, anyone...
I saw a show on Maury Povich where their was this big & tall sister, good looking, regal- didn't want anything to do with black men, because according to her, black men cheat, and don't work.
Stereotype much?
Her interview was real nasty... Then there was the other side of the cube- white fathers who had disowned their daughters for dating black men...
It was crazy...
I posted this on another forum, and it is being treated with kid gloves, but the ones who have replied there, are keeping it at high level...
One guy did come back with a "Birds of a fether flock together" statement. I'm not going to condemn him for that.. I just think it's somewhat close-minded to alientate a potential mate because of their race. Not just him, anyone...
I saw a show on Maury Povich where their was this big & tall sister, good looking, regal- didn't want anything to do with black men, because according to her, black men cheat, and don't work.

Stereotype much?
Her interview was real nasty... Then there was the other side of the cube- white fathers who had disowned their daughters for dating black men...
It was crazy...
Those are the kind of shows that keep racism "active".....IMO
If America is seeing this kind of thing on the television, then it's probably going to affect the way most people think.
I for one, dont think racism is something that should even exist. It's stupid, and in this day and age, it's actually funny to me. If someone gets offended by a racists remark, they need to grow up. I use the nickname KracKer, simply because it's funny. Other white people find it offensive, and that's because they are puss-bags, sissy liberal bisches.
Anyway, People are people, color is only their "trim package". A black woman can love me just as much as a white woman, and they can both break my heart.
...and if anyone says "Culture" ... this a completely different topic.
*have I said too much?*
Originally Posted by jamzwayne
Those are the kind of shows that keep racism "active".....IMO
If America is seeing this kind of thing on the television, then it's probably going to affect the way most people think.
I for one, dont think racism is something that should even exist. It's stupid, and in this day and age, it's actually funny to me. If someone gets offended by a racists remark, they need to grow up. I use the nickname KracKer, simply because it's funny. Other white people find it offensive, and that's because they are puss-bags, sissy liberal bisches.
Anyway, People are people, color is only their "trim package". A black woman can love me just as much as a white woman, and they can both break my heart.
...and if anyone says "Culture" ... this a completely different topic.
*have I said too much?*
If America is seeing this kind of thing on the television, then it's probably going to affect the way most people think.
I for one, dont think racism is something that should even exist. It's stupid, and in this day and age, it's actually funny to me. If someone gets offended by a racists remark, they need to grow up. I use the nickname KracKer, simply because it's funny. Other white people find it offensive, and that's because they are puss-bags, sissy liberal bisches.
Anyway, People are people, color is only their "trim package". A black woman can love me just as much as a white woman, and they can both break my heart.
...and if anyone says "Culture" ... this a completely different topic.
*have I said too much?*
HAHA, I use to call all my coworkers Home Biscuit (all white), you wouldn;t belive the people that would get offended. I just laughed at thier self righteous pedestal they put themselfs on. It means absolutely nothing, I just made it up, it does not refer to race, religion, upbringing, background, ethics or anything else. It just made me smile to say it.
Originally Posted by closer9
Kinda late to the party here too, but...
I would absolutely NEVER consider dating outside or within my race... my wife would kill me...
But being that I'm a tall, pale, hairy guy (white) married to a short, dark girl with what some would call slanty eyes (Vietnamese) I have no issues with interracial dating/marriage. Well, even if I wasn't married to anything other than a white girl I still would have no issues.
However, I can't say that anyone has ever had a problem with us. When we first started dating she was afraid to introduce me to her father, and the whole family was just as worried, but he had no problems with me, and several years later he and I get along great...
I generally only see people take issue with blacks dating whites. I personally don't see anything wrong with it. I told my parents and friends when I started dating my wife that if they had a problem they would have to deal with it on their own time.
I don't understand why people will hate a good person because of their skin color, but embrace total losers (like themselves) for the same reason... I know good people in all shades, and I know some really losers in all shades... They come in all shapes and sizes...
I would absolutely NEVER consider dating outside or within my race... my wife would kill me...
But being that I'm a tall, pale, hairy guy (white) married to a short, dark girl with what some would call slanty eyes (Vietnamese) I have no issues with interracial dating/marriage. Well, even if I wasn't married to anything other than a white girl I still would have no issues.
However, I can't say that anyone has ever had a problem with us. When we first started dating she was afraid to introduce me to her father, and the whole family was just as worried, but he had no problems with me, and several years later he and I get along great...
I generally only see people take issue with blacks dating whites. I personally don't see anything wrong with it. I told my parents and friends when I started dating my wife that if they had a problem they would have to deal with it on their own time.
I don't understand why people will hate a good person because of their skin color, but embrace total losers (like themselves) for the same reason... I know good people in all shades, and I know some really losers in all shades... They come in all shapes and sizes...
My girlfriend is Vietnamese as well. Her family really likes how I'm willing to try any food they make and eat using chopsticks only. They offer me silverware as a matter of face, but I always decline. I've tried several dishes and like them all, but I can't get enough Pho!
Remember the saying "beggers can't be choosers"?
The only long term relationship I've been in (the one that I'm in) is with a "white" girl.
I've never been all that popular with the ladies. I don't know if I'm ugly, but I know that I'm not "GQ". There have been women who seem to like to "enlighten" guys like me (including the one I'm with) so I've had the opportunity to "date" women from different races.
There have been a few that were a different race than me. Some I didn't think about it or didn't even realize it. If they showed interest in me, why the he!! would I take issue with their race?!
In high school I "dated" and asian girl. It was high school, and rather "uneventful". I guess at that point in my life she could have been purple. I just wanted things to get "eventful".
When I was 18 this HOT black girl lived in the appartment building that I lived in. She was six years older than me and I guess was looking for a boy toy. Of corse, I was an idiot who thought that we would be in a relationship forever. She just wanted someone with stamina. MMMMM, she was nice. Really nice!
There was a black woman that my brother in law worked with that was looking for some "friendship". She had a kid and had about ten years on me. She was a very cool woman. I was at a some what heavy partying point in my life and didn't appreciate her enough. She treated me quite well
. I wish I had been better to her.
I didn't pick the girl I'm with now based on race. She's just really cool and we mesh well. She has dated guys from differnt countries and different races. Neither of us have an issue with interratial relationships.
We don't plan on "breeding" even though we are both "white". I don't think that "cross breeding" should be an issue. It's been done for many, many generations.
The only long term relationship I've been in (the one that I'm in) is with a "white" girl.
I've never been all that popular with the ladies. I don't know if I'm ugly, but I know that I'm not "GQ". There have been women who seem to like to "enlighten" guys like me (including the one I'm with) so I've had the opportunity to "date" women from different races.
There have been a few that were a different race than me. Some I didn't think about it or didn't even realize it. If they showed interest in me, why the he!! would I take issue with their race?!
In high school I "dated" and asian girl. It was high school, and rather "uneventful". I guess at that point in my life she could have been purple. I just wanted things to get "eventful".
When I was 18 this HOT black girl lived in the appartment building that I lived in. She was six years older than me and I guess was looking for a boy toy. Of corse, I was an idiot who thought that we would be in a relationship forever. She just wanted someone with stamina. MMMMM, she was nice. Really nice!
There was a black woman that my brother in law worked with that was looking for some "friendship". She had a kid and had about ten years on me. She was a very cool woman. I was at a some what heavy partying point in my life and didn't appreciate her enough. She treated me quite well
. I wish I had been better to her.I didn't pick the girl I'm with now based on race. She's just really cool and we mesh well. She has dated guys from differnt countries and different races. Neither of us have an issue with interratial relationships.
We don't plan on "breeding" even though we are both "white". I don't think that "cross breeding" should be an issue. It's been done for many, many generations.
Originally Posted by KC-10 FE
Hey BIGHERSH,
What are your thoughts on, "ahem" augmented anatomy?
KC-10 FE out...

What are your thoughts on, "ahem" augmented anatomy?
KC-10 FE out...

I've never had any "hands-on training" in this area, so I don't know how "real" they feel. Although I prefer au natural (I think), I must admit implants have made some women (Internet models, extreme makeover/Dr. Hollywood) look better.
As much as I dislike a girl with tig ol' biddies, and no booty, I don't like a girl that's fine below the waist, with skim/lowfat/2% biddies... I mean, I'll still "date" her,
(If I were single) but only until I can upgrade to someone with some "accessories".Personally though, I don't believe in unnecessary surgery- you have to play the cards you got dealt. In my opinion, riskign death (Anesthesia is very dangerous) for a nice set of *****, is assinine to me. But, if all goes well, the results "look" nice.
I know one woman who had it done... She said they cost her $5,000.00. All I can say is, after she got those ***** installed, lost weight, toned her legs, started wearing those "slap my a$$" pumps, and her hem-line on her skirts went from knee-level to mid/upper thigh-level (with no stockings
, there wasn't a man in the building who didn't notice.She was cool as a fan too...
Here's my thought:
I'm married & far too in love with my wife & 1/2 my stuff to cheat on my wife. That being so, one could draw the conclusion that I only get to LOOK at them. Other than the occasional grope at a strip joint, I really don't have much experience with them either. Since I don't get to PLAY with them & therefore no meaningful "hands-on-training", if they look good, that's all I care.
KC-10 FE out...
I'm married & far too in love with my wife & 1/2 my stuff to cheat on my wife. That being so, one could draw the conclusion that I only get to LOOK at them. Other than the occasional grope at a strip joint, I really don't have much experience with them either. Since I don't get to PLAY with them & therefore no meaningful "hands-on-training", if they look good, that's all I care.
KC-10 FE out...
Originally Posted by KC-10 FE
Here's my thought:
I'm married & far too in love with my wife & 1/2 my stuff to cheat on my wife. That being so, one could draw the conclusion that I only get to LOOK at them. Other than the occasional grope at a strip joint, I really don't have much experience with them either. Since I don't get to PLAY with them & therefore no meaningful "hands-on-training", if they look good, that's all I care.
I'm married & far too in love with my wife & 1/2 my stuff to cheat on my wife. That being so, one could draw the conclusion that I only get to LOOK at them. Other than the occasional grope at a strip joint, I really don't have much experience with them either. Since I don't get to PLAY with them & therefore no meaningful "hands-on-training", if they look good, that's all I care.
.I never even "elbowed" one by accident.



