Married women can't be that shallow (don't respond to that, you're ruining the idea of marriage to us). Not to mention that is an aweful way to think, being if someone good looking enough can steal her from you.

 

Thanks to all for the advice. I have not been able to get back here until today, since I posted this thread. A quick update on my progress, I have been to a lawer, and gotten some good legal advice. I also have signed over my share of the property (built a brand new house on a lake up north) to my parents. I have talked to her as some have said and I quote "its time for you to move on and find someone else" "Its been over for a long time for me, and I wont get my feelings back for you". So that being said, I have gotten the divorce papers and will file first as many suggested.

Again thanks to all for the advice and offers to talk, it is greatly appreciated.

Respectfully,

Brian

 

Good luck man. Best wishes.

 

Damn. I was hoping we wouldn't hear that, but if its for the best, then thats the only way it can be done. Best of luck in this endeavor, it will be a long and hard road. And watch your asz, if she's smart she'll be trying to entice you to F it up.

 

sorry to hear it got to this point. But you gotta do what you gotta do, for you and your kids.

Best of luck Brian. You will come out on top and be better off for it.

Keep you chin up and rant here as much as you need while you go through this. It wont be easy, but there are people here ready to listen (including people that went through the same thing)

 

I was divorced twice...and now I am single

 

Good luck, Brian... You're looking at a rough ride ahead of you, but you're starting the journey right.

And I'm not sure about your situation, but dude, she might start saying things that are downright spiteful... Take a breath and keep your head high when she does, don't let it get you down... My ex started saying things that just burned me to the core, and in a vulnerable state, I believed everything she said. I started out in our divorce thinking I was some worthless piece of sh*t and more, all because I still held her on a pedestal... if you still hold her high, knock her down now...

Again, good luck man.

 

"Can't turn a Ho into a housewife"....