Survey: Picking up women Etiquette
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From: Bakersfield, CA, USA
Not sure if I have this right, but it seems to me the prevaling opinion of the board is that when going to a bar with buddies, the following is supposed to happen:
1) All the men agree in advance which of them most needs and/or deserves to meet the hot chicks that night.
2) Guys perceived to have a relationship with a woman are disqualified from talking/dancing with women. These men are only allowed along to 'help' the guys who deserve to meet the hot chicks.
3) The designated most needy man in the group identifies all the chicks in the place that he finds suitable. None of the other friends can talk to or dance with these women unless they are promoting their needy friend. Severe consequences will result if you encroach on a more needy male's 'harem'.
Is that about it, or are there more rules one needs to know if they go out with friends? Times must have changed since I was single, or I must have forgot all this stuff.
One final question, WHAT PLANET ARE YOU GUYS FROM????
1) All the men agree in advance which of them most needs and/or deserves to meet the hot chicks that night.
2) Guys perceived to have a relationship with a woman are disqualified from talking/dancing with women. These men are only allowed along to 'help' the guys who deserve to meet the hot chicks.
3) The designated most needy man in the group identifies all the chicks in the place that he finds suitable. None of the other friends can talk to or dance with these women unless they are promoting their needy friend. Severe consequences will result if you encroach on a more needy male's 'harem'.
Is that about it, or are there more rules one needs to know if they go out with friends? Times must have changed since I was single, or I must have forgot all this stuff.
One final question, WHAT PLANET ARE YOU GUYS FROM????
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From: Houston, by way of every major city in America.
Who knows, maybe she was interested in both friends. Of course that falls into the "Never happen" category, LOL! I've usually found girls in bars have alot of issues to deal with, other than who they choose to dance with. Not a stellar place to be hunting for marriage 
. There are exceptions, however.,,,,98
. There are exceptions, however.,,,,98
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From: Bakersfield, CA, USA
Lessons to learn here:
1) You never know what is going to happen when you go out to bars. People + alcohol = unpredictable behavior. If you can't handle that, don't go.
2) Your friends want to help you get over your ex, but they also want to have a good time.
3) If you dictate to your friends what they can and can't do when they are around you, they are not going to have a good time.
4) If you are at a crowded bar and there is a chick you are interested in, don't walk past her 3 times when you want to dance with her. She will think you are not interested in her or you have no confidence.
1) You never know what is going to happen when you go out to bars. People + alcohol = unpredictable behavior. If you can't handle that, don't go.
2) Your friends want to help you get over your ex, but they also want to have a good time.
3) If you dictate to your friends what they can and can't do when they are around you, they are not going to have a good time.
4) If you are at a crowded bar and there is a chick you are interested in, don't walk past her 3 times when you want to dance with her. She will think you are not interested in her or you have no confidence.
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From: The LBC (Long Beach, CA)
Originally Posted by dirt bike dave
She will think you are not interested in her or you have no confidence.
Works like a charm
But these are CA bars, where high-maintenance girls are the norm. Southern girls are different - and much better. Which likely explains why my new girl (who is likely The One) lives is in San Antonio.