^^ there is something wrong with you.....


we have an agreement between my boys.... if one drops the ball are b it ches out.. then its fair game...

but we know when the other is really interested and will do stuff to talk up and help out a brother.

 

I think everyone has jumped to to conclusions. Without knowing what was said during those dances, then nobody will know for sure. Now what if Friend B spent those 2 dances telling the girl about Friend A is what kind of person Friend A is. Friend B may have been trying to help Friend A out.

If I had a hard time talking to a girl and friend went and talked to her about me, I would be happy. I have never been in that situation, so I really would not know how to react.

 

I don't feel that friend A did anything that wrong, unless he was planning on taking her home. Dancing is not sex. Does he cheat on his girl? If he does, then he would for sure steal her from you and is not worthy of friendship anyhow.

I do have a guy code question. I recently had a falling out with some who is a co-worker and was good friend. Early in our friendship he told me about a previous falling out he had (I've lost touch with people, but never disowned anyone). A buddy of his asked out a former girlfriend of his. He felt the buddy should have asked permission of him before taking the girl out. This always made me feel uneasy about him. He was through with her, has no say in her life, and they are adults! My wife dated a buddy of mine for two weeks before I came a long. None of us care much and we still keep in touch. What is proper code for dating a friends X?

 

I think if the person is a real friend, he'll see what you think first... If you are merely associates, or he knows that she was your "ho" and not your "girlfriend or wife" he won't ask you anything. But, if the person qualifies as an "Ex", then a real friend will ask first...

A friend of mine's girlfriend stepped to me; made it obvious that she wanted me to tap that... I could have went ahead and did it without saying anything to him, but- since I knew he used to talk to her- not knowing his feelings for her, I asked him what he thought... He was like- Man, go 'head and hit that, if you can- I don't care. I was somewhat sexually unemployed at the time, so I took the job.

Four days later, (Finish Her)....

Sub-Zero wins, Flawless Victory.... Fatality!

Then she wanted to have a "relationship" and after 5-6 hits, tried to put me on rations... I demoted her from tag-a-lot, to "booty-call" (And she probably gave me the same title as well). And we went our seperate ways...

Back then, I wasn't down with hooking up (seriously) with a woman that already had a child.

 

i like girls with kids. cause then i know they already put out

 

Totally OK.

Reasons?

1. This was some random chick at a bar, not someone either of them had been persuing for a decent amount of time.

2. Friend A didn't say, "Hey, I am going to try to land this girl", "She's mine", "I'd really like to grow old with someone like her" or anything like that. If you want dibs on a chick, speak up.

3. Friend A couldn't get his ***** together and walked by this girl 3 dang times? I say that Friend B was more than considerate and gave the fool 3 chances...hell, by this time the song was probably close to being done anyhow.

4. Friend A never said he liked the girl...just that she was "hot". That doesn't make the girl off limits. "Hot" gets thrown around WAAAAAY too often between the fellas for that to carry any weight.

5. Reason 5, and probably the biggest reason...SHE SAID YES TO THE DANCE WITH FRIEND B!!! If she wanted to go after Friend A, she sure as hell wouldn't be rubbin' guts with Friend B.




Friend A should chalk this up as a lesson learned in Nutting Up. Put your pride/nerves aside and ask the girl to dance.

 

knowing friend A was on the rebound friend B should have gave him a break. He should only get this brake for a short time, then its fair game.

 

My Motto..."Bro's before Ho's" always have your boys back. Friend B should've seen that Friend A was at least a little bit interested and stepped back. If B was talking about A during the dance, it should've lasted one dance and thats it.


Kick B's A$$

 

Both A & B were in the wrong....

Reason:
If there was only one hottie in the bar that they were trying to pick up a little strange at...
Both should have went to a different bar long before she walked in, period..!

But since they didn't then if Single Friend "A" has already cut one out of the herd. Then taken Friend "B" should have stepped down completely.
1. Dude your friend has already picked her
2. He's already taken and shouldn't be dancing with anyone else any way.

Freind B betrayed both his girl and one of his friends. Even If he says "He was talking up friend (A).." Wrong, he is lying! You talk up a buddy on the bar stool, not the dance floor. Not much of a guy if you ask me. Definatly not anyone I would want to hang out with or associate with myself.

 

ROFLMAO

 

you guys are out there i was in too many bands...BEFORE i was married...but been there done that both ways many times...there are no real winners either way...zap!

 

Friends share

 

Dude your friend totally **** blocked you. I'm sure he knows your situation & given HIS situation...

My suggestion, pick another friend to go to the bar with.


PS... hows the dog hunt? You do know dogs can be a huge chick magnet don't you? Just trying to help.

 

3 scenarios.

A) Friend A should wait until Friend B goes to the bathroom then tell Hot Girl A's friend (Hot Girl B) that Friend B has herpes. Hot Girl B then tells Hot Girl A who then dumps Friend B for Friend A. Friend A then say "Wanna hang out at my place Hot Girl A?" Hot Girl A says "Sure, why not, you just saved me from the burning sensation whenever I pee". Hot Girl A leaves with Friend A... See scenario C.

B) Friend A talks to Friend B after he gets back from the floor. "By the way, that's Jennifer, Mike's (Friend A's roommate) ex. Mike told me he has herpes and never uses a rubber. Friend B starts sweating profusely and says "Geez, thanks for saving me from the burning sensation bud. This one's on me!" Friend B calls 2 more Heinekens. Friend A lets Friend B drink both Heinekens while he sneaks out the back with Hot Girl A... (After scenario A) See scenario C.

C) Friend A humps Hot Girl A. (Without the burning sensation)

 

The only one who really knows the correct answer.