The next time she says:

”I can get any man I want…”

You tell her:

”So what biatch, I can buy any hooker I want…”



By the way, does she happen to own a cat???

 

Dear 01XLTSPORT Yes she has a cat and I hate it, im allergic to it, so one day I put my foot down and told her " either that cat goes, or I go" that didn't work out too well, its like my wife hates my guts all the time.

 

One question...If it is really as bad as you are telling us, why don't you get a divorce?

 

.....or just kill her and get it over with. Dont let her get her hooks into another innocent victim. You would be doing a public service to the male population.

 

Cant Understand Normal Thinking...(put the capital letters together)...enough typed?...zap!

 

Dude if my wife ever said to me, "i can get any man I want." I'd throw her *** out on the curb and tell her to start lookin.

That kind of Bull**** means she doesn't love you, and just wants your money (so stop spending it all damnit.)

****in bitch. Even if she was the best lookin woman in the world I woudn't put up with that ****.

Maybe you are spending too much. But she should say, Honey, I think we should save that money for the kids college fund. Or, Honey, maybe we should decide how much to spend on the truck each month, and then limit it to that so I can stop worrying about the kids college fund and retirement.

She shouldn't go nuts-O and threaten to leave you, cause she's so easy she can get any guy on the block.

"I can't get any man I want." I'd tell her there's one man she can't get with that attitude - ME!

 

Sounds like a reasonable request.

Great Question.

It's times like these that I'm so glad I found a woman who puts up with my #@$% and lets me be the boss.

 

A woman who is jealous of a truck? Dude she's a freakin' GOLD DIGGER! Ditch her and find you a woman that likes the same stuff/interests you do and doesn't live for how much money she can haggle. If she says she can get any man she wants, she's saying that to make you jealous so you'll spend all your money on her. She doesn't care about what you want, it's what she wants. She wants your money all to herself. Sounds to me like she's playing you man. I wouldn't kiss her @ss for another second. Tell her to hit the curb and get all the men she wants. I wouldn't give her the time of day. That's my two cents.

 

I was going to type this whole long thread a few days ago...then decided against it.

Here's the reader's digest condensed version.


If what you've written is an accurate description of your relationship, then it sounds like NEITHER one of you loves the other.

So be done with it.

 

There is alwasy 3 side to every story...His, Hers, and the truth...
With that in mind I wont give any long term, life altering advice. BUT the "I can get any man" deal...yea thats BS, any man can get any woman he decides to if he is willing to put forth the effort for her, as well as most any woman can get any man as long as she's willing to put out. (Sorry guys we are easy, LOL)...It's just a fact of life! There is no Doubt my wife could get somebody as good or maybe better than me, as well as the same for me. But we choose to be with each other for many reasons. We went through something similar a few years ago, its called the 7 year itch. Thats the point in the relationship where one or both parties think that it has gotten old and they might be missing out on something better. In order to overcome this both parties must realize that the grass may be greener on the other side, but if you go there, then you will have to mow it more often!

My wife had many of the same complaints and gripes, and I felt much the same way you seem to. We went to counseling and found out neither of us was putting much effort in to the relationship. She is not spoiled but it sure felt like she was at the time. Retrospect I was spending a lot of time on other projects and only giving her less than 5% of my attention outside of the sack. Same token she was caught up in her projects and only tried to spend time with me when it was convient for her. Which I didn't have time right then so felt like to her that what ever I was doing was more important than her. What we ended up having to do was respect each others time and hobbies and start getting involved with some of them together or find new ones we both like to participate in. Yea I had to do a lot of crafts with her, and she started working with me in the garage. Now she has become as competitve as I am and all of our vehicles have to have constant improvements to perform better, look better, etc. She started going four wheeling with me and my buddies and found she liked it. She told thier wifes how much fun it was now they all go with us too. "buddies were not to fond of the idea at first either." Any way now if we are some where and a vehicle wont do want we would like it to do or it has trouble doing it (ie. work or play) then she is the first to say "We need to get _______ upgrade so we wont have to worry about it next time." or she will ask "Is there something you can get to take care of it so it's not a problem anymore?" Yea...I still have to do crafts occasionally...but for a relationship to work ....Both people must be trying to make the other one happy. If you and her do that for each other then its creme cheese. But no one should take advantage of the the other one wanting to make them happy. That is not love, that is selfishness.

PS I do send flowers or a stuffed animal, just because, every now and again too...I try to do it once a month or so just to let her know I am thinking about her....It is better to let her know to often, than not often enough! Most women need that renforcement almost as musch as men need the sex. She lets me know in the ways a man wants to know.

Sorry for the long post, hope it helps, but if both of you together are not willing to cooperate, then there is little or no hope for anyone to be happy.

 

Sissy j/k

 

I figured I would get racked for that post...but hey, who elses wife goes and buys performance parts for her car's/suv's and/or thier husbands car's/truck's then encourages them to put them on? Ohh and ussally not a problem when I buy an extra vehicle and bring home now either or computer(s)/parts or guns "as long as we have the money to spend". Yea I can sacrafice some time and do crafts for the her time in exchange for that! Heck she can paint & polish my nails if thats what it takes. Well that might be a stretch! Uh Oh... Sorry, I have to go...I think she bought some high heel shoes for me to try on!

 

Well, she buys the stuff but I get to do the labor. Something about me getting all dirty ........



Your other post was what I was getting at, and think is the issue.

 

I've only posted the two on this thread???

Maybe thats the secret....She gets to go buy the stuff....and if you can convience them that it is just as much for them as it is for you then they are excited to buy it!...When we started this I took her to my ussall parts store and introduced her to all of the clerks over a few visits they knew her. Now when she brings in a list or ask for something they are not sure about they have my home and cell phone number on hand! So if I start getting frustrated I send her after a tool or part I might need for the project then I try to figure out the problem while she is gone. Then when she gets back I have her help again and she thinks she helped do it!