Just tell her "Hah any man, thats easy to do, bring another woman home then I'll believe you".

Or if that is truly the case then I say call her on it. If that is truly the case then she doesn't have much respect for you, which means there is nothing or not much left in the relationship. From my experience woman that do that hold very little respect for their other (same if roles are reversed). A marrage let alone a relationship is nothing without respect.

Next time she's say she can get any man, call her bluff, be ready incase she does it though. Stand your ground and be a man, if she's worth anything she will come around and respect you. But don't be such a man that you neglect her, don't treat her right, blah blah blah. It's a fine line to walk, but it's one that works.


The way see it, either a) you are rich and spoiled her *** in the beginning and she expects to get more spoiled as the years go by or b) she really did love you in the beginning but somewhere down the road things went south to where they are today. Then there is always that c) details are being left out which could change everything in our advice/conclusions.


Follow Ford Lariat's, ask what is bothering her or why she is unhappy. If she walks away pull her back or follow her but don't give up after the walking away part. Woman do that all time.

Man: What's wrong
Woman: Nothing
Man: Okay

That in the female mind translates into you don't really care. Even if she put's up the nothing routine for what seems like forever, the more you try to get it out of them the more it shows you care.


My favorite is:

A woman will buy a pair of shoes just so that another woman cannot have them.

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by MotoF150
[B]dzervit she whines and complains a lot cause she is beautiful, and she knows she could get any man

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Now what's wrong with that statement ? Beauty comes from within, the problem is that vanity gets in the way of the so-called
beautiful on the outside women who are actually VERY UGLY on
the inside. Their ego gets so large that you need a step ladder to
put the little crown on their ugly little heads. If your insecure wife thinks she can get any man then let her. ( unless your so insecure that you for some stupid a$$ed reason really believe you should continue with that crap ) Dump the vain one and move on... good luck with that baggage, ( why don't you just sell
the truck and become even more of a wussa$$ ) In fact you need to turn in your manhood card 'cuz you've lost your right to call
yourself one.. shame shame ... tsk tsk tsk Nothing worse then a man being played by a woman ............
You shouldn't even have started this thread.. shame shame ...

 

Excellent post, I too live with a psycho whom I love to death, but depending on the day of the week, the chemical imbalances vary from "hardly noticeble" to "Lock yourself in the home office and stay out of the way.

Damn women, can't live with em, can't shoot em.

 

Boy I know that one all too well....

 

I'm the only one with a real truck to haul anything around.

I was moving my friends stuff to a new house about a year ago, they loaded ALL of the heavy stuff into the back of my truck why the whimpy Nissan Pick Up got the clothes and mattresses, haha.

 

I don't move any of my friends stuff in my truck...
I guess that's why I have no friends.

 

If you find a woman who can still say " I love you with" a mule stuck in her mouth KEEP HER...

 

LMAO


I dare you to bring your wife to the computer and let her read what you wrote...

in fact, I double dare ya....

..... ya, that's what I thought, haha

 

hello habibi this is mrs. buckdropper and i approved this message

aaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

 

Moto, sounds like your marriage is in serious trouble. My brother-in-law married a girl from a wealthy family and she behaved much the same way, they're divorced now. All I'd be able to suggest is get her to some counseling and somehow make her understand that she is jeopardizing the marriage, if she even cares. Sorry for your troubles, hope things work out for you.

 

If she is as shallow and callous as you make her out to be, cut your losses and get a lawyer. It will take time to reconcile your position - don't waste it by hanging on to something that just isn't going to work. With a gap as large as the one between her and your thought processes, you are only delaying the inevitable.

The time you are wasting now could be better spent finding the right person for you to be happy with.

If she truly threatens you with "getting any man she wants" and you try to appease her after she says that, I can only think of two things: You must have a severe self-esteem problem or you truly love her.

If you DON'T really feel you made a mistake and would like to stay married to her, spend less time posting here and more time working on a resolution.

If you REALLY feel you made a mistake and would like to be rid of her, reach into the nightstand drawer, retrieve your ba||s and move on.

Right now, you are letting her make a jack@ss out of you...

 

There are lots of 4X4 tires that are only rated for 20,000 miles or less.

 

Post her pic, I'll let you know if she's hot enough to put up with this BS.... odds are, she ain't.

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Habibi
[B]LMAO


I dare you to bring your wife to the computer and let her read what you wrote...

in fact, I double dare ya....

..... ya, that's what I thought, haha NO WAY !!!!!!

 

.........there ARE many women who only look at a partner as a means to an end - they want something & wouldn't dream of EARNING it. To me, ANY shallow person - male or female - isn't someone I'd want to associate with. My ex-fiance would constantly compare me to his friend's "ol' ladies" & belittle me for earning less than they did. Mind you I was 1 of 2 pharmacy tech's out of a total of 43 who could prepare chemo IV's & ALL IV drips! Yet in his mind I was worthless. Now he's married to a woman who refuses to work (or can't as she's an alcoholic, drug addict) & he's pissed! There was a time I worked 3 jobs at once to support HIM in the style he WANTED to be accustomed to! See why he's an ex?
I will say this though - if you really are ignoring your wife then she has a point. Whether it's the truck or another hobby/interest, no object/activity should ever come before a person, especially someone you profess to love. You'd feel the same way if the situation were reversed & you'd be right too!
Try spending more time with her - go places that don't necessarily cost money - a museum or for a walk/drive or just rent a movie & make a date w/her to enjoy it together. Play a game or cook something - together! Help her with the house. Write her a letter! Show her you care & love her. Next time she says she can get any man she wants tell her you know that BUT you'd never want to find another woman as nobody can replace her. She NEEDS to hear how awful that sounds & how much it hurts so she will stop saying that.
I wish you well - I'll pray for your marriage. Counseling is a great idea & Ford Lariat's advise was excellent!!!!!

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If I could do it all over again, I would marry a fat and ugly woman and would never have this problem.

- IF there is a next time, go for a girl who shares you'r passion! We ARE out there you know! Best of luck!