Sounds like you got a pretty decent plan going, and I hear you on the not wanting to go too big because you'll have to get new tires, I'm crossing that same problem right now haha.

Are you going to be doing the install yourself or getting a shop to do it? The only reason I ask is I'd start off with just the shackle or the aal and see how it sits you and then go from there, it may save you some cash and hassle of returning something if you don't need it. But if your getting a shop to do it the labor cost would probably be a lot more if you had to bring it in twice if it wasn't big enough opposed to once if you did them both at the same time.

 

dang shops are so damn expensive

 

I hear ya. My 35's in person look too small for the 6.5"+3" that's on mine.

 

I will probably take it to a shop to get it done and Just add all of it because i still want the spacer up front to be taller.
Just to let you guys know that Im just looking around at stuff right now, This probably won't happen until sometime next year but trust me it will happen!!