texting til 1 am and later is not trying to avoid somebody, if i'm trying to avoid someone i ignore their text. if they keep texting they get a **** off.

does she ever talk about him? if so everytime she says chu say bless you.

 

I need to see pics of said girl before I can make further analysis.

 

I'D KICK THE B1TCH.... move on, plenty more on the horizon

 

good call.

is she a 15? or more like a 20? i go off a blackjack rating system, 15 you'd hit it, 20 you wouldn't. clearly a 2 is hotter than a 12, and then you can call a fat ugly chick a 20 and she thinks you are calling her hot, you call a hot chick a 2 and she thinks your a ****, girls like ****s right? it's a win win system

 

2 months is not long enough to have an exclusive relationship and to be snooping into her phone.

you need to back-off. no way a realtionship is strong enough at 2 months for you to dictate or discuss her time.

a good realtionship builds, it dosent start out at full speed and maintain that speed for long.

All i might say is: look, i have a great time with you, i dont own you nor is there any type of commitment. i want ask who is calling or texting but when you are with me, i need you to turn the phone off or not reply to others. out of respect for you i will do the same. when i am with you, i am 100% with you.

 

X2.

Sounds to me like things started getting wierd when you asked her to have dinner with your family.

Has she ever met them before?

If not, meeting the parents is obviously a big deal for her (lots of chicks stress over this) and maybe something she reserves for long term relationships. You should have discussed with her in advance to assess the situation prior to issuing a casual, spur of the moment invite like it was no big deal.

IMO, it probably wasn't phone trouble preventing her from calling you back, but basically the invite blew up. Hounding her with multiple calls did not help your cause. She did not want to say yes and then be put in an awkward position of trying to explain the relationship to your mom/dad, and she did not want deal with you freaking out if she she said no.

Basically, the invite to dinner with your family was too much, too soon. And since the invite, you have shown no evidence that you understand that you put her in an awkward position, but have instead tried to access her phone, digging the hole even deeper.

I'm getting a sense you are pretty possessive and getting too serious for her.

Back it down a notch and give her some space. If it's meant to be, she'll come around.

And let her know you realize you put her in an awkward position with a spur of the moment invite to a family dinner when you guys are still just getting to know each other.

 

^^ This

 

Sorry man, most CA girls (under 35) are skaggs and they are only out to appease themselves. I really think I am going to have to find a girl from a different state. I am not a typical CA person. I don't care what anyone thinks or says about me and I don't go around trying to compete with douche bags in their Affliction gear. I just sit back and laugh at everyone. CA's society is sickening to me and as soon as my truck is paid off I will be leaving.

I was with a girl for 3 years and as soon as she got her iPhone it went down hill FAST. FB/social media will ruin relationships faster than a reggie in the wood pile.

It has already been said multiple times, but just tell her you want her to be completely honest and open with you if she wants to be in a relationship with you and you will do the same. Like others have said though, be ready for either good info or really upsetting info.

How old are you both if you don't mind saying?


I like 06yz250f's black jack rating system.

 

Join the club at being inept with dating.

I've been there recently, it sucks still that she's gone...

 

Sounds like you are about to get hurt dude. All the signs you are telling us indicate that she is looking to jump ship to the next guy. Cut your losses. Run. And if she comes back to you tell her you've already moved on. Do this before you get even more emotionally attached and get extremely hurt.

Maybe I'm a pessimist and have been hurt too many times but this is one department where I don't mess around.

 

Also, dirtbikedave makes some good points. From the information you are giving the relationship is/was moving too fast. The relationship I had where it ended very very very ugly was exactly like that. We saw each other every day and just wore it out. Not healthy IMO.

 

Sounds like there might be trust issues on both side.

Not worth it for a chick you've only been seeing 2 months. Tell her you saw the txt's, she's been acting odd and see what she says. If any of her response sounds fishy, bolt.

- NCSU

 

grab her by her throat, smack her around a bit, then talk...itll make you better!!

but i have learned over the years, that girls are gonna have "best guy friends" even if they are with someone, so i wouldnt sweat that..but the lying about where she was and saying she was pissed is weird..may have been one of those weird chick things.

 

.... funny, I learned years ago that I could never seem to just be friends with a girl with out tappin' em!

Ahh the good ole' days....

- Married Man.

 

I feel you on that one Klitch.

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