Collect more evidence and when you get everything finalized in your divorce send a nice plainly marked package with no return address to scumbags wife containing all the evidence.

 

Great idea, Harley.

 

Hurry up and finalize your divorce, then tell her what is going on.

 

What a freaking mess -- and people wonder why kids are so screwed up these days! As a parent, I know for a fact that you can't be closing down bars and hanging out with friends until the wee hours of the morning and do anything that even comes close to respectable parenting. Plus the kids have a revolving door of men going in-and-out of their lives depending on their mother's latest whim. Good grief.......

 

Good luck, Benny.