How many times would you allow a girl to "play" you, even though you feel for her, before you say enough is enough no matter if this time she is seems very sincere about what she tells you? I've told myself enough was enough a while ago but she keeps texting me saying how much she cares for me, but the way i see it if she truely did care for me she would have never screwed me over the first time, let alone the second. I'm not going back to her for something like that to happen again. So my question to you guys is, Is this what you would do?

 

You need to lift up your skirt, find your ***** and dump the chick. That's the short of it. The really fun part is after you find your sack and man up, she'll only want you more. That's when you have to hold your ground, or just give her the old pump 'n dump until she gets the hint.

 

I dont think that I could have put it any better my self. Dump the chick and move on its not worth the headache.

 

I have maned up, I told her i wanted nothing to do with her around august or october and now recently (this month or so) she texts me and says how she misses me. Its not like i am crawling back to her, I don't text her unless she texts me..

 

I had a girl do something similar to me. I didnt call her for a day or two and she called a left a pissy message on my cell and told me to have a nice life and then about a month later she calls me out of no where and wants to get back together. I never returned her phone call or any of the e-mails she sent me. Just flat out ignore her and she will get the picture and it also wont seem like you are interested in her.

 

Sounds like we're talkin about the same girl! haha Wait they're all sisters so I'm sure they'd get along just great. But see the thing is I'm not at all. Like I've told her i'd be her friend but never anything more than friends, never again. I just don't know how else to say look, I'm willing to be friends but not more than friends, without putting it in her head for her. I have told and told and told her just friends nothing more but i guess she doesn't get it...women imagine that, not getting something

 

I had a girl like that. it happend about 3 years ago... she still calls and texts me, ill play a little game with her head then wont talk to her for months on end. it feels good haha.

build her up just to not talk to her for months on end.

when a girl does this tho who ever she was with or playing around with is now gone and your a "Sure Thing" type of thing its a endless loop, she finds somebody else shes gone, when hes gone she comes crawling back.

theres about 3 girls in mylife with this syndrome

My C/gf thinks its funny when they call on there knees, hehe

 

...and therein lies your problem. By saying you'll be friends it translates to "we have potential" to a chick. Just ignore her **** and stop filling her head with this friendship crap.

EDIT: Your other mistake: texting her back. Stop it!

 

haha the thing is she is with someone else!

dzerit- I never really thought about that... It makes since though

 

Hmm...sounds to me like you still have a thing for her. Creating this post pretty much proves that. I understand though its hard to distance yourself from someone you have invested a lot of time with.


Once you find another GF you really love you wont be concerned about this chick anymore.

 

I had a girl treat me terribly and then after I told her I wouldn't have anything to do with her, she'd keep emailing me asking me to get back together. I'd say no, then a few months later she'd start it all again. She then changed her story to, "just let me have your phone number so I can call you and apologize for what happened". So here was my plan.... I emailed her back and said the following "You can have my phone number and I'll answer your calls. But in order to get it, you first have to call everyone on this list (attached was a list of all my family and friends) and tell them what you did, apologize to them for hurting me. Once you've called everyone on the list, call my parents and do the same with them and if they think you are sincere in your apology, and that you have really changed, they'll give you my phone number. Until then, #### off."

I'd say it was pretty effective.

 

Walk away she just wants you back until some body else comes along. She will use you as much as you let her and you will never end up together at the end.

 

Agreed with all of this. Stop talking to her period.

 

Well how hot is this chick?

If it's a situation where she is way out of your league, and you may never get another chance at nailing someone as hot as her, then tough it out and get what you can.

If she is just like a normal chick that you can get anytime then ignore her.

 

Drop her, and find somebody else.
the finding somebody else part helps you to forget about here.
Then she seems like nothing at all. doesn't even phase you anymore.