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IMO, fool me once shame on you, fool me twice, well you know.
But remember He might live in a small town and options are limited. case in point...
That's Joey and Rory. Break out country stars. They're married.
But remember He might live in a small town and options are limited. case in point...
That's Joey and Rory. Break out country stars. They're married.
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Well how hot is this chick?
If it's a situation where she is way out of your league, and you may never get another chance at nailing someone as hot as her, then tough it out and get what you can.
If she is just like a normal chick that you can get anytime then ignore her.
If it's a situation where she is way out of your league, and you may never get another chance at nailing someone as hot as her, then tough it out and get what you can.
If she is just like a normal chick that you can get anytime then ignore her.
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The exact phrase I go by in this situation! And I do live in a small town, but we do have one of the nations biggest junior colleges, enrolls like 6,000 people. Point in case right, just move on
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Well I'm a freshman at the local college, and she is the head varsity cheerleader for our high school. So yeah she's pretty, but its not like she is out of my league. I've had/could have just as good of chances with other girls but never took it because i had her. I think I'm just going to continue to do what i'm doing and not think anything into it.
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From: Nebo, NC
Shes a high schooler just wait untill she hits college and runs into other dudes she will stop calling you. Does she roll up to your house and follow you around the mall sounds like she just texts u and avoids direct contact. Point being shes not really sure if she feels as much for u as she thinks, so shes pourin in out in a indirect way. Just change your phone number and get a restraining order.
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As soon as you know that she's "playing" you, it's time to cut it off. No warning, no contact, no explaination. Done.
Drop it and move one. There's no bigger ***** then a guy who hangs around for a girl that doesn't hang around WITH him.
Drop it and move one. There's no bigger ***** then a guy who hangs around for a girl that doesn't hang around WITH him.
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A restraining order? haha nah it'd be nice
I haven't been hanging around for her. Here's what happened. She just got out of a relationship with her long term boyfriend. Cool right. We messed around, talked whatever no labels or nothing. Then one week I didn't text her or anything I was busy with the college scene meeting new people, working two part time jobs, doing homework/studying. Well she hadn't been texting me either. Well cometo find out she just up and was in a relationship with another guy, he ex's best friend. So I was like WTF right so I told her I didn't want to talk to her anymore or anything. Well it got to the point where she'd call me crying, text me constently telling me she messed up and what not so finally i gave in and said you can have me as a friend but never anything more than a friend. And it has never been enough for her. This stuff has been going on since like october. I eventually lost all feeling toward her and was talking to another girl and what not and realized she was a texter molestor, the other girl never wanted to leave me alone so I was eventually quit texting that girl and now rarely rarely talk to her and thats only if i see her in person. Nothing drives me more crazy than a girl who wants to text every second of every day its like geez girl I got other stuff to do. I can't seem to find the girl that wants to just chill and take stuff on a daily basis. Its like they always feel the need to talk to me 24/7 and i can't take that bs.
The thing with the original girl though, I won't ever go back to her. I just wanted to see if thats what you guys would do. And pretty much everyone said thats what they'd do. Just making sure i wasn't regreting it.
I haven't been hanging around for her. Here's what happened. She just got out of a relationship with her long term boyfriend. Cool right. We messed around, talked whatever no labels or nothing. Then one week I didn't text her or anything I was busy with the college scene meeting new people, working two part time jobs, doing homework/studying. Well she hadn't been texting me either. Well cometo find out she just up and was in a relationship with another guy, he ex's best friend. So I was like WTF right so I told her I didn't want to talk to her anymore or anything. Well it got to the point where she'd call me crying, text me constently telling me she messed up and what not so finally i gave in and said you can have me as a friend but never anything more than a friend. And it has never been enough for her. This stuff has been going on since like october. I eventually lost all feeling toward her and was talking to another girl and what not and realized she was a texter molestor, the other girl never wanted to leave me alone so I was eventually quit texting that girl and now rarely rarely talk to her and thats only if i see her in person. Nothing drives me more crazy than a girl who wants to text every second of every day its like geez girl I got other stuff to do. I can't seem to find the girl that wants to just chill and take stuff on a daily basis. Its like they always feel the need to talk to me 24/7 and i can't take that bs.
The thing with the original girl though, I won't ever go back to her. I just wanted to see if thats what you guys would do. And pretty much everyone said thats what they'd do. Just making sure i wasn't regreting it.
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I wouldnt put up with it once. I dont get played and you shouldnt either.
Girls want what they can't have. Show her you are looking at other girls, that you don't want her, and there's a chance she'll be soaking wet wanting you.
That's the fun part...when you put the ball in your court.
Girls want what they can't have. Show her you are looking at other girls, that you don't want her, and there's a chance she'll be soaking wet wanting you.
That's the fun part...when you put the ball in your court.
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i have been there with about every girl i talk to. i have the worst luck with girls so i am taking a break from girls right now.
one girl i was talking with with her one night, making out and just having fun, next afternoon i talk to her and she had a bf. stop talking to her since she didn't even have the curtosy to tell me what was going on. and the guy she started dating was her x's best friend.
my stalker x (dated her for 3 days) i told her to **** off and she would email me, call me, show up at my door, followed me out of my dam apartment, this went on for 5 months until i moved back home. she has called me a couple times on an anonymous phone number and doesn't say anything except for once i kept quiet instead of saying hello and i heard her voice saying something. she was a crazy ****er and terrible in the sack. very oral challenged
another girl i had just started talking to, i brought my friend along with me cuz i felt bad for him and he started hitting on her. stopped talking to him for months, became best friends with the girl (just friends nothing else) and we were good friends for about 6 months when she became to cool for me and haven't talked to her since last summer
and the most recent girl, a few years younger than me, always calling or texting me, begging for me and when i was with her she talks about another guy. so i stopped talking to her. and she called me yesterday, and you know what for, to get her underage *** some beer for the superbowl.
i usually give girls a few chances and it bites me in the ***, but i usually don't fall for a girl and when i do its hard so i make excuses up in my mind. now i have learned its just not worth it and i can't handle being smothered or stalked. tell her to **** off and get a life, shes a cheerleader she should be able to find another guy pretty easily
one girl i was talking with with her one night, making out and just having fun, next afternoon i talk to her and she had a bf. stop talking to her since she didn't even have the curtosy to tell me what was going on. and the guy she started dating was her x's best friend.
my stalker x (dated her for 3 days) i told her to **** off and she would email me, call me, show up at my door, followed me out of my dam apartment, this went on for 5 months until i moved back home. she has called me a couple times on an anonymous phone number and doesn't say anything except for once i kept quiet instead of saying hello and i heard her voice saying something. she was a crazy ****er and terrible in the sack. very oral challenged
another girl i had just started talking to, i brought my friend along with me cuz i felt bad for him and he started hitting on her. stopped talking to him for months, became best friends with the girl (just friends nothing else) and we were good friends for about 6 months when she became to cool for me and haven't talked to her since last summer
and the most recent girl, a few years younger than me, always calling or texting me, begging for me and when i was with her she talks about another guy. so i stopped talking to her. and she called me yesterday, and you know what for, to get her underage *** some beer for the superbowl.
i usually give girls a few chances and it bites me in the ***, but i usually don't fall for a girl and when i do its hard so i make excuses up in my mind. now i have learned its just not worth it and i can't handle being smothered or stalked. tell her to **** off and get a life, shes a cheerleader she should be able to find another guy pretty easily
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From: Nebo, NC
[QUOTE]Well cometo find out she just up and was in a relationship with another guy, he ex's best friend./QUOTE]
Dude just find your nearest exit and don't look back. With the above mentioned statement someone is going to wind up dead or pregnant. Plus man take it from me you dont really want a high school girl, your in college now man the women there (most of em) have already began to start on there careers! Dude damn mingle around leave the HS prom queen alone and find you a decent girl who is going somewhere with herself. That way you can get her to do all your homework while you both graduate and move on to better things. Man theres alot of talent in college, and heck theres always the chance HS girl will become a doctor or something and you can get with her then. Shes got decisions to make right now, and you do to ppl say marry for the heart. Well my opinion in todays society is marry someone who is responsible, financially, morally, and ethicly. The world is all snuggly when you love someone and work at foodlion. But the World is SO much funner when your making decent money.
Dude just find your nearest exit and don't look back. With the above mentioned statement someone is going to wind up dead or pregnant. Plus man take it from me you dont really want a high school girl, your in college now man the women there (most of em) have already began to start on there careers! Dude damn mingle around leave the HS prom queen alone and find you a decent girl who is going somewhere with herself. That way you can get her to do all your homework while you both graduate and move on to better things. Man theres alot of talent in college, and heck theres always the chance HS girl will become a doctor or something and you can get with her then. Shes got decisions to make right now, and you do to ppl say marry for the heart. Well my opinion in todays society is marry someone who is responsible, financially, morally, and ethicly. The world is all snuggly when you love someone and work at foodlion. But the World is SO much funner when your making decent money.
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