Let your brother have some fun. At 20 he is an adult, so its not as if he has no idea what he is getting into. Besides I bet she is probably great in bed, maybe your brother can learn a thing or two

 

haha. where do you draw the line a drug use. recreational?

 

Adult or not, at 20 years old there are lots of guys who are not ready to get seriously involved with a single mom. Meeting the parents = sounds like its getting serious.

If she's got a kid, its a package deal, usually including the kid's daddy. That's a lot more complicated than dating someone who just happens to be older.

I'm not saying to rat him out to the parents or anything like that, but I would urge him to use EXTREME caution in the protection department.

BTW, it's easy for us to say have fun, because the bro won't be coming to us for advice or money if she gets knocked up (again).

 

I have dated a couple chicks with kids. You should not even meet the kids until you are very serious with that person. The kids don't need men coming in and out of their lives. Hopefully this girl understands that and he hasnt had to mess with the "package deal" issue yet.

Also I didnt get that he brought her over just to meet the parents, it was a party and he wanted a date. Yeah the parents were there but I dont think his intentions was just to introduce her to the parents.

I completly agree about rubbering up, no need to get involved in that mess.
At the same time her age has nothing to do with the chance she might get knocked up. His brother could knock up a girl his age just as easily.

 

Scott, your 100% correct..

The daughter spends half the week at her real fathers house an half the week with the mom. An my brother has only seen the kid a few times.

An your right again, He only brought her to the bbq because he needed a date, otherwise he probably would have probably never told me he was dating her, untill i found out for myself.

An i have no idea what means (if any) protection he uses, I hope he uses something though. But again, he's an adult so. If he screws up thats on him.

 

To the OP'
You never said he was stuppid. Surely he sacks up, "Right?"
:santa:

 

Personally I would stay out of it, its there buisness & if it gets him into hot water then its his problem. Who knows maybe an "older woman" may encourage him to be "more of a man" ie get a job etc. Let him make his own way in life its one of the sure ways that people mature, take the good with the bad!

 

there both legal adults. i see no problem at all. this woman had a daughter right?? dont worry it probably wont last anyway. he will realize the whole kid deal isnt what he wants. ive dated chicks with kids. ill never do it again.