Well, my fiance broke up with me because I was stupid even after she gave me a couple second chances (insecurity and suspicion when she has proven herself to be a loyal and faithful woman. yea, i was that stupid). I already did the whole spend a day crying and watching tv in bed and now I am going to start spending more time with friends and family and all that good stuff. I've gone through a few break-ups before but I have never loved a woman like I love her and it is the hardest thing I have ever been through.
Just curious how you all deal with a break-up.

 

If your feelings are 100% true, what you need to be doing is searching your soul for answers and asking The Man upstairs what to do.

IF you are serious about her, start working on a reason for why she should forgive you...and I suggest you make it good.

Otherwise, how to deal with it? DON'T be an idiot and go out looking for rebound sex. DON'T do dumb stuff you will regret.

Keep yourself busy with normal things, and spend some time with family and friends. Don't focus your thoughts or words on her (ie don't spend your time bashing her w/ friends and family).

Good luck with whatever you decide to do. And get ready for a long, rough road.

 

Dont call her, im sure she will call you back if shes like any girl I know...

 

 

Definately a quality dose of Jack Daniels.
And a new hottie in your life can do wonders.

 

Whatever UC says, do yourself a favor and do the opposite.

 

I just come to General Discussion and hang out.

Then I realize that this forum is more depressing than my break up.

 

Buy truck parts.

 

I don't know what you did to ***** it up.....but if you can not communicate with her and work out this issue....then this relationship was over before it began.................I hate to be the bad guy here.......but if you were a jerk once (and in this case, more than once).....you will continue to be a jerk in the future.........face it.....guys dont change......as much as women try....they will always fail....and end up hurt................if she can't love you for who you are........then she is better off without you and vice-versa.....

.........as much as alcohol is shown in this thread as a way to cope.....it is not the answer.......the only thing that will heal your wounds is time...........if you truely are upset over this, then please do yourself a favor and use this unfortunate experience and learn from your mistake......do not do this again.....

 

Why is that? I get dumped all the time. I'm a pro

I thought of another one. Buy a project vehicle and spend your free time in the garage.

 

ehh it helps to have a relationship first

 

If there is a Calvary Chapel in your area, then I'd suggest going there and listening during the next service.

 

Thanks guys. here's the story on why she left me.

For a while after we met things were literally perfect. I went on vacation to visit my family on my dads side for the first time in Greece and while I was there one of her guy friends tried to get with her telling her all this stuff and she told him to ******* off. And a short while after that another of her guy friends did the same thing so my insecurities have gone out of control and i thought every guy in the world is just out to try and get with her. She even stopped talking to her guy friends for me but that can only work for so long and it's probably not exactly healthy. I had everything in my arms but now I feel like **** because I see exactly how I was and how I let my insecurities ruin our life together and make her miserable.
Thank god she wants to try and stay friends cause we have been each others best friends from the time we met (we just clicked). she said maybe in the future nobody knows what will happen but also said if someone else comes along I should go for it, but I hope I can prove to her I see how stupid I've been and she'll give me another chance.

Thank you again for all the support and advice.

and as for buying truck parts I just put the AF1 and xcal2 on and wow! My little r/c truck has been seeing a lot of use, along with my dvd player (gonna watch barnyard before getting more of my tat done. will post pics in another thread)

 

I was actually going to find a church close to here and just sit there quietly for a while, but there weren't any open when I was sitting in bed at 6am (body is used to waking up at 3:45am for work)

 

Well, if you're really interested, I'll mail you great Book with a couple suggestions on where to start reading it if you PM me your address.

Beer, booze, and other women will just lead you right back to where you are at today. I've been down that road too many times in the past.