haha no not that bad. we're both 20... and we had been dating since 15. im cool with her parents, and her brother and i hang out all the time. she decides she wants a 'break' to figure out what she wants and ends up wanting to get back together a month later. first mistake was to get back with her, and i ended up breaking it off a couple weeks after we 'got back together' because she told me she didnt feel right again. i flipped out on her and now 3 months later she wants to talk again... to complicate everything i've been with this other chick a few times since the ex and i have split. lol my grandpa used to call people jiggaboo's. but thats another story.

 

Hey...what's up with that?!!! Quit picking on women. Where would you be without us after all?


On topic: Just call him and if he's nasty, just hang up (unless you really do want to see her again), then kiss his a$$.

 

Well i think im going to call him tomorrow during the day and apologize. I have no idea what im going to say but however it comes out it comes out. I just have this feeling he will give me a talk on how we didnt have to break things off because of him finding out...i just know it will happen....

 

good plan. i would square up with him too.

 

I dont even know what the big deal is. Its not like he caught us doing anything. To his knowledge i had fallen asleep in their basement watching tv. I mean im sure he knows better but he should assume.

 

Just tell him you understand how it must look, but your a good christian boy and would never do anything wrong. You had a fight, you fell asleep in the basement and thats it..you understand it may have been wrong to stay there and anyone driving by just passed JUDGEMENT and figured something was going on. Sorry Sir, it will never happen again, since I am no longer seeing your daughter.


BREW

 

Just say something like, I apologize, I didn't mean to fall asleep. I should have said something sooner, but I was afraid you would think something else.

Edited to add:
Or what brew said it sounds better.
I got banished in my ordeal, so dont listen to me.

 

But you stayed at his house with his daughter when you shouldn't have. You may be 20 and his daughter is a legal 18 but you did something the parents don't tolerate. I have two grown boys and I would kick their butts had they stayed at a girls house behind the parents backs.

20 years from now it may be your daughter and you'll look at things much more differently than you do now. Plus 20 year olds are notorius for letting their little head get their big head in trouble.

Appologize. It'll make you more of a man.

 

Whether he caught you or not isn't the issue. YOU SPENT THE NIGHT IN HIS HOUSE WITH HIS DAUGHTER. Fathers are pretty damn protective when it comes to their daughters.

 

"MR ........ I'm sorry. I was wrong in my judgement. It won't happen again".

 

Yep, he happens to be real protective of her. You know, i wanted to go home that night but she begged me to stay and you know how females are...if they dont get their way they get all p*ssy. So what do you do? But they found out so i intend on calling him in the morning and apologizing...Ill report back....g'night everyone. Thanks for the advice.

 

You were thinking with the wrong head. It's in our genes.

 

Sorry, I'm having a hard time with this, the girl is 18, a legal adult, and she's being grounded???

I mean I can understand living in your parents house and following certain rules and having respect, I can even understand the overprotectiveness of dear old dad but come on, she's grounded?? Run away while you have the chance because apparently her dad is way to controlling.

 

You go girl, go rosie go rosie

 

Well, I had a similar experience when I was 17...well kinda. Basically, I met a girl at school and we talked for 2 weeks on the phone for 6 hours a night- every night. So finally I go to her house to meet everyone for the first time and I was so nervous I end up acting like a spastic 12 year old. I was being a TOTAL smartass... had everyone laughing, but earned a "you're not allowed to see that boy again" from her dad.

I ended up calling and apologizing to him. so we started dating and four months later her Dad was tragically killed in an accident at work, and I ended up dating her for 4 years. She was the love of my life, and although I don't hav her anymore, I don't regret a minute of it.

4 years of dating, buying presents, promise rings, and tiffanys ~ $5,000.

Having the ***** to apologize for being a jackass and getting to fall in love for the first time ever? PRICELESS