Shoot her.
Shoot him.

Go to mexico, drink corona, find a 17 year old hottie to fetch you more corona and call you big daddy!

 

I know this may sound easy for me to say, but at least his wife is the only thing he lost out of this. He feels betrayed (twice- one his wife, and one a friend), but at least it sounds like there are no children involved. He can move on to someone who will be faithful to him, but when you have kids, most good men I know just keep getting hurt over the kids, year after year. Then there's the kids getting jerked around in this. Then there is the grandparents who also would love to see the kids but maybe can't. Yes sir, a clean break with nothing to keep the communications going is the best your buddy can hope for in this unfortunate situation. Sorry for your friend, but good for you for being there for him......

 

What Quintin said.

 

I'll have to read this later- sounds interesting...

All I can say is- cheatign was rampant in the Army; with so many young, hot, restless bodies in one place it was hard for a man to be honest; seeing so many men in peak physical condition was obviously hard for the women too because were it not for thier willingness, we'd have no one to cheat with... At worst case (Unless there was a war-deployment) we'd be gone for 1-2 weeks, 30 days max.

Being in the Navy, being gone 6-months at a time- even during peace time... You should expect your p***y to be on a time-share plan. It's sad, but it's true..

 

Yup. My ex-wife committed 9 counts of adulty in I was in the Marine Corps. All 9 men were buddies of mine from high school. They thought we were divorced....because that's what the skank told them. After I came home on leave, and I got done with her rep, she had to move to Austin where no one knew her..

Now, I have a sexy, loving, caring, honest, down to earth woman with a head on her shoulders that worships the ground I walk on. He's better off.

 

Shotguns use shells, not bullets!

 

AMEN BROTHA!!!

 

Well been there myself. It takes time. But you know, get him out and get him some action. Do wonders for his confidence particularly right now. Even if it's a one nighter, help him work off his stress ! Nothing like being in the arms of a woman!!

Just be his bro, listen to him and let him know the pain won't last forever. Also get him to a gym. Working out will give him a positive way to work off his stresses and be a motivator to hammer those weights. Plus a gym is a excellent place to go fox hunting!!!

 

Why is that? Shouldn't it be her crap being moved? I would send that tramp down the road to find a new place to stay.

 

I wanted to stay out of this thread...mainly because I am not married....stories such as this (betrayal) and others (such as the man getting raped of his money and kids) make me not want to get married....How is it that people can so easily thrash a sacred part of the human path of life such as marriage and not seem to shed a tear?

 

 

Because they have not been taught as my parents taught me. You do not get married unless you commit for life. My wife was taught the same and divorce was just never an option. We worked out every problem that ever came up, and there have been a few. There always will be, especially when you are married 43 years as we have. Too many people have been taught that if it does not work out, no big deal, just get out of it. When you are taught this, then you don't work as hard at overcoming life's struggles that befall every marraige.

 

Amen.

I am one of the luckier ones. I have an old fashioned woman for a wife. These "new breed" of younger women have not been taught the meaning of life, how to live life, and the responsibilities of being an adult. It's starts with the parents.

 

EXACTLY.....why is it that people are so damn afraid to discuss things? it seems that no matter what you are talking about these days (whether it be politics, religion, relationship issues, oil, the mounting of shocks, the fuzziness of ones truck keys, etc...) no one can seem to hold the conversation at length without getting so offended that they just digress into a pool of useless intangible dribble that you eventually do not know what you are arguing about...all you know is that you are mad at that person and you will not let (insert "pride" as the scapegoat) get in the way of comming to a resolution....I hate the fact that most people are HORRIBLE at communication in this age....the sad part is that technology is become so HUGE and common that the true art of "communication" has been lost into a sea of 1's and 0's and no one can truly connect with another....

 

Liberals.