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From: The Bluegrass State
Originally posted by 1Bad97F150
you know what, i had a really nice post... long as hell... but this damned mother #$@#$#%#$!@# forum lagged out and i lost it ALL!!!!!!!!
you know what, i had a really nice post... long as hell... but this damned mother #$@#$#%#$!@# forum lagged out and i lost it ALL!!!!!!!!
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no, i was just a little pissed lol i had replied using a few quotes and things, and when i hit the "submit" button it went to a "page not found" and i couldnt go back... so i was a little frustrated... lol i dont know why, maybe its just on my computer... but it happens on occasion at my girls house too... on this site, it laggs out... and sometimes for as much as an hour im not even able to VIEW the site... but EVERY other site works fine..... is the server having issues with this or what?
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It is hard to read your post being so jumbled up with no paragraphs. However, I did decipher some of it.
It appears you are unfamiliar with common law marriage. It would be in your best interest to study up on your states laws about common law marriage. Sex has nothing to do with it, but your state laws may be different.
Basically, yes if you have lived with another female for a pre-determined amount of time, refer to your state laws, you could be considered married even if you never had sex. So, first I would say, have as much sex with your “roommate” as possible as it won’t matter down the line if she states in court:
”We lived together as man and wife”
Now, if you have a child with her it don’t matter if you only lived with her for a day you will be held responsible for supporting the child as if you were married. That is how it should be and she too will be responsible, but if she doesn’t have a job you will be paying FULL support for that child.
Therefore, you need to look into your state laws that govern common law marriage. It really doesn’t matter what you think is right or fair, if it is the law your opinion means nothing…
It appears you are unfamiliar with common law marriage. It would be in your best interest to study up on your states laws about common law marriage. Sex has nothing to do with it, but your state laws may be different.
Basically, yes if you have lived with another female for a pre-determined amount of time, refer to your state laws, you could be considered married even if you never had sex. So, first I would say, have as much sex with your “roommate” as possible as it won’t matter down the line if she states in court:
”We lived together as man and wife”
Now, if you have a child with her it don’t matter if you only lived with her for a day you will be held responsible for supporting the child as if you were married. That is how it should be and she too will be responsible, but if she doesn’t have a job you will be paying FULL support for that child.
Therefore, you need to look into your state laws that govern common law marriage. It really doesn’t matter what you think is right or fair, if it is the law your opinion means nothing…
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the child support thing i know... im prepared to deal with that... but how can the law state im legall supposed to take care of someone just because ive lived with them for so long? doesnt my opinion to say "No, we werent living together as man and wife, shes just a money grubbing ______ and wants to get paid to sit on her *** the rest of her life" count for something?
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From: Hammer Lane
Originally posted by RockPick
f150online.com's first official proposal...
f150online.com's first official proposal...
CA has a whole thread dedicated to multiple proposals from f150online members. It's my first and only lapse in judgement on the subject. 
Adam was hanging around the Garden of Eden, feeling very lonely. God said, "what's wrong with you"? Adam said, "I don't have anyone to talk to". God told him that He was going to make Adam a companion. The companion would be a woman. God said, "this pretty woman will gather food for you, cook for you and when you discover clothing--whe will wash it for you. She will agree to every decision you make and will not nag you. She will alwqys be the first to admit she was wrong when you have a disagreement. She will bear you children and never ask you to get up in the middle of the night to care for them.. She will never have a headache and will freely give you love and passion". Adam asked God, "what will cost"? God replied, "an arm and a leg". Adam asked, "what can I get for a rib"? Of course, THE REST IS HISTORY!!!
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As I stated I do not know what your state has to say about common law marriage and what dictates it to be so. If you are that concerned about it, and it sounds like you’re very concerned, then I would recommend you talk to a lawyer that specializes in that field, most likely a divorce lawyer.
It may well be the best few hundred dollars you spend. The lawyer will be able to set you straight on the legalities of the situation. Maybe there is some type of agreement he/she can draw up for you. You will only know if you inquire about it…
I agree with you that there are women out there looking for nothing more then money. However I would also tell you there are more men that are complete morons that have absolutely no understanding of the word responsibility and this is why things are the way there are today.
The legal system never seems to get it quite right, it tends to swing one way or the other more then needed. The thing to remember is if there were not so many men that lack responsibility you wouldn’t have this situation to worry about so you need to cut women a break here. Its not like one day they all got together and said ”How can we screw over men today”
It may well be the best few hundred dollars you spend. The lawyer will be able to set you straight on the legalities of the situation. Maybe there is some type of agreement he/she can draw up for you. You will only know if you inquire about it…
I agree with you that there are women out there looking for nothing more then money. However I would also tell you there are more men that are complete morons that have absolutely no understanding of the word responsibility and this is why things are the way there are today.
The legal system never seems to get it quite right, it tends to swing one way or the other more then needed. The thing to remember is if there were not so many men that lack responsibility you wouldn’t have this situation to worry about so you need to cut women a break here. Its not like one day they all got together and said ”How can we screw over men today”
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Originally posted by RockPick
f150online.com's first official proposal...
f150online.com's first official proposal...
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From: Lost some where in the middle of the Ozark Mountains!
Originally posted by 01 XLT Sport
It is hard to read your post being so jumbled up with no paragraphs. However, I did decipher some of it.
It is hard to read your post being so jumbled up with no paragraphs. However, I did decipher some of it.
I think he misinterperated my post about some religions believing that sex is the consumation of marriage in Gods eyes...And some how got that sex was leaglly binding...Even though we are talking about the differences between the two.