You know with every port you make you rmind me more & more of someone I know (whom I haven't heard from in a while). I miss him.

 

I hope you're talking about me, and not G00SE

 

Just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. If it's meant to be it'll happen.

-Craig

 

Alas no I was talking to GOOSE.

However, you suggestion is my hubby's favorite line to tell me he's in the mood (as if I can't tell before he says anything).

 

What's funny is that I was on the other end of your situation not so long ago. My best guy friend (I hung out with him at least every weekend--we'd drink, bull****, watch TV and movies, play video games, go gocarting) asked me on a date. I was always bitching about how I only ever met *******s, how I was always being treated like crap, etc.

Well one night we're hanging out over at his place, and he broached it; he said, "you know, why don't you just give me the chance to prove to you that not all guys are total ****s." At first I was really scared. I thought, 'Awww crap, another one of my guy friends that just wants to get in my pants. God damnit.' But moreover, I was deathly afraid of losing my best friend. I had never had the sort of deep friendship that we shared, and I felt that no amount of sex was worth screwing that up.

So I thought about it for a good week or two. I went up to hang out with him, and (after I'd taken a few drinks to calm the ^&*% down), I said I'd like to try. But no matter what the outcome (be it he becomes disinterested, I become disinterested, he or I want to see other people), I didn't want to lose him as a friend. Then he kissed me.

We got engaged last month.

Honestly, it is the most fulfilling and emotionally, mentally, physically satisfying relationship I have ever been in. When you have that already strong basis of friendship to grow from, I think your relationship's potentional is that much greater.

I'd be up front and just ask him. Worked for my fiance.

 

Honesty is always the best way to go. Chances are that if you are spending that much time together he's thinking the same things and doesn't know how to approach you. You can both just sit there and do nothing or someone can make the first move. And who says the friendship is over once you do??? I've been married to my best friend for 24 years!!

 

Let your brother know you are a little interested and he can feel him out to see if he is intersted. I that doesn't work you can always strip in front of him! Post Pics!