well, good thing im about to get some 20's. i think it's the only thing thats gonna make me happy right now, you wont beleive this..... me and my girlfriend split, yep thats right it would be 3 years this march 18th....... the problem was that she wasn't sure if she wanted to stay in the relationship, she said she cared for me and i believe her but she didn't know if she cared for me as much as i cared for her......

i mean she had doubts about me because of the lightning and cobra being a personal money pit, so i showed her by getting her in the last 3 weeks- Bubble Bath Massager, Playstation 2, and a Laptop Computer, i told her now you know that i do care more about you...... and she knows it, i've been treating her like a queen for the past year, where as before it was off and on...... but she says she confused on what she wants, she told me the other day that she doesn't see our relationship going past another year.... and that hurt the crap out of me, i think of it as we've gone this long if you dont see it going really far than i can't be with you right now until you make a decision i mean i can't just be here waiting around and then come to find that you dont want me or you do...... so we broke up, it was mostly her decision, but im sure she would've wanted me to stay with her, but that just wasn't good for me, it would've messed with my head too much, this way i know that it is over and yes maybe in the future we will be back together but i would rather have it this way then be with her now and everyday think, "does she want me today? or maybe tomorrow?" that would mess me up bad. and i am very heart broken over the whole deal.... if i were financialy stable and old enough i probably would've popped the question.....

sorry for the off topic thread, i guess if you look at it in a positive way then i can save that money spent on her and going out every weekend to spend towards MODS

but im still pretty depressed right now

 

women...we will never understand them. goodluck with your situation.

 

Just keep your head up.

 

cobra97',

Nutz it up, Dood!

I'm happy with my new gf which ( get ready!) I met off of yahoo.com. Elaine is a wonderful young lady, intelligent, pretty, hot, and all that.

Hang in there!

R

 

Yeah man, sorry to hear about your girl. Trust us, we've all been there. Things will get better, remember if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Now you need to take care of yourself and enjoy being healthy and single!

Todd

 

Give some time....girls would be the death of us all if we didnt have things to take our minds off them....like golf...or football...or goin to hooters...DOH! I'm happy to be single right now...can focus on things I need to do for myself...like gettin that KB blower

Good luck man!

 

Dude...it's not time to be depressed! Its a time to REJOICE! Gather round my Lightning brothers & help this lost soul through the trasition back into enlightenment...

Snake...Ferrari's are nice right? You may like to have one correct? But if the salesperson told you that whatever one you picked, it would be the only car you could own, and you had to keep it 'till you died, what would you do? You would tell him to stick it!

Listen closely Snake...one vagina...for the rest of your life...its just not worth it...plain & simple. Ya want peanut butter & jelly for lunch every day for the rest of your life? Sure...you can make it quite a few different ways...but change it up all you want..it will still be P-B & J's. It will NEVER be ham & cheese or turkey on rye. You sure as hell will never turn it into pasta or sushi. It will always be P-B & J, not matter how you put it together.

Thats what Im trying to convince Chuck over at MiLOC of...the SEVERITY of marriage. Thank your LUCKY STARS that someone was looking out for you and pulled you out of the deadly volcano that was your ex,... for once your wings were clipped...but now you soar free like the Eagle my man. Get out there & knock the dust off of it!!!!!

We need more of our MiLoc brothers to be single so we can hunt together... We're here for ya dude...if ya need some girl chasers from Michigan to hang with just let us know. Get yourself back in action A.S.A.P.! It will make her jealous that you bonced back like a rubber ball, and ya get to start "soakin yer dipstick in oil" sooner.

Anyway..sorry your down..but suck it up dude..you'll be better off in the long run..plus it JUST happend..so you can still look forward to that infamous "final poke". Ya, know..that one last "bang" ya get to have after a break up. Those are the best!

 

never ever get tied down..thats my philosophy..














until i find a sugar momma to subsidize my speed addiction that is

 

hey man im really sorry about that. Hell ive been chasing the same girl since 8th grade and im in college. hopefullly one day it will happen. Hang in there bro--they didnt come with instructions.

Whats meant to be will always be.

 

tinman is right in a since, just chill and enjoy life youre too young to be tied up, besides if shes smart then she will relize what shes missing and come back, otherwise she doesnt fit the bill.

 

Sorry to hear about that, there isn't anything that hurts like a heartache. Just keep your head up and try to stay positive about the whole thing. Good luck, man, all will get better!

 

Getting tied down was the best for me. My wife works at the bank, so she knows her money.

Hell, I wouldn't have half the stuff I have if it wasn't for her.

 

you sound pretty young. don't sweat it. if it's like that then it's probably not ment to be. I kinda regret being tied down and kinda not. each have their advantage. ive been tied down so long that it made me fat. my woman kept feeding like some lost wandering starving animal. the longer you in a relationship the more touch you lose with everything else. especially your game, and your looks. ermm...i had something positive to say...

Don't call or talk to her. thats rule one. unless she talks to you. If she does keep it short and sweet. dont be mean to her, and get about your business. and even if your not seeing someone make someone up... and go find some a$$ with your g rides.

the best place to find a$$ is to go.... to... bars and buy lady's drinks, get them good and drunk. Use some good techniques. Tell them your being shipped off overseas and you want them to be the special last piece of a$$. or just go up to them and be honest, say "i want a piece of your a$$" If nothing else be nice and be yourself. that works 90 percent of the time unless shes some batch a$$ skank. Church used to be a good place, but now bible thumpers are crazy and won't give you any a$$. friend of a friend is good. school. 99% of it is confidence. I've seen the rat ugliest ***** come out with top quality prime grade a a$$....cause he had game.

i said a$$ alot.

just hang in there buddy. nothing alot of beer can't fix. and then you can really bag a sal after lowering your standards!!

 

Now thats advice!

 

Cobra........hang in there pimp.......like everyone else said, just get back out on the scene. Think of it this way, you no longer have to answer to anyone.........and don't hand me that crap "Well she let me do whatever I want" because I know the next time you talked to her she had to know all the details of your evening.

I go out trolling every weekend.........I can't be tied down right now. There is too much I want to do before my time is no longer mine.

--Joe