jrfonte came up with the original schematics for this, I just formalized it in a nice visio. In the original, 3 relays were needed, but since we found out the Troyer e-Fan kit uses ground switching, we can eliminate two of the relays as shown.
This diagram shows the use of dimmable LEDs to monitor when the e-fans are on or off. When the head(or parking)lights are off, the LEDs get full power from accessory. When the head/parking lights are on, the LEDs get power from the instrument panel dimming lead located behind the headunit or from the light switch on the left side of the steering wheel.
The ground of the LEDs essentially connect up to the ground switch of the thermistor which will complete the circuit for the LED, and it will turn on.