Guess I will have to comment too. I have been married to the same wonderful guy for 33 years. He has been faithful to me and I have been faithful to him. He is a 20 year retired career military man, did a tour of duty in Vietnam and a one year unaccompanied tour of duty in Korea. If it is love, if you truly commit to each other, have honor and respect, it can be done. He still makes my heart flutter! His sense of humor and fun are as fresh as they were when I meant him. He just keeps getting better.

All that and he drives me around in a great truck! Who could ask for anything more?

 

sorry to hear about the old lady.
if there is one lesson in life that is true it's as stated here before. if they've done it before they'll do it again. notice the word they in there twice. it's not your fault at all. if they don't like something about you then they should tell you or just leave, there is no excuse for cheating. (you didn't give me enough attn)

it doesn't matter what you do if they are prone to cheating then that's what they will do. sure wish i'd listened when my buddies in the army told me that.

oh finally when they want to come back and say "this time i'll talk to you if i have a prob" BS. give her the boot for good, don't look back, don't think twice. better to be without a woman, then to be with one and always wondering who she's thinking of or being with.

better days.
terry

 

C'mon Wildchild! Oldlady? I've been married for 19 years and she is still, "My Bride". ennis

 

fourhour you must be one of the lucky ones

off topic: how's that sporty treatin' ya