Hey all, I have a question to see what other people think...

Is it okay if your significant other (bf, gf, wife, hubby) goes to the club without you...and on top of it you're leavin the country for a month the next day and won't be able to communicate because of where you're goin...

Is that okay to do? Because in my mind I don't really think so.


I'm just tryna figure out if I'm crazy or not

 

Awwwww high school romances.....................how cute

 

ha, deff no more highschool. almost done with the 2nd year of college

and we been together almost 2 years soo... oh welll

 

Communicate how you feel to him.

 

It's apparent he doesn't feel the same way you do.

 

If you are worried that he will not be faithful, you shouldn't be with him, if it is a fact of principles tha he is leaving the country and you want to see him, see stealth's post, he is not often wrong....

 

no.. im the one leaving.

i figured thats what this meant.. i just didnt want to accept it

 

Sounds like he isn't so interested, especially cause clubs are gaaaaaaaaaay. Where are you going? I know that I wouldn't be in the best of moods if I was leaving for awhile and myg/f ditched me the night before...

 

Greece half of my family is there. I'm a sucker

 

It is up to the couple. If your both ok with it, then go with it. But your obviously not ok with it. You have to make the final judgement. Me personally, a significant other that wants to go to the club without me.. is no longer a significant other.Clubs are for one purpose 90% of the time.. to hook up. Move on.. women have it easy.. there is a man around every corner.....

 

I hear ya. but i dont want any man. i would deff not go to the club lookin for a man, there are just sleezeballs there. and i agree on what clubs are for.

 

I guess it depends. Was it a strip club and did he invite your friend?

 

whats a club?

lol well it seems well put by stealth, i'd feel the same way if i had a misses who went out without me and i was gonna be gone for a while.

 

clubs are just meat markets.... i love woman that say " i just go to the club to dance with my friends" yea sure tell me another one lol.

 

Yep, getting ditched the night before you're leaving is total bs. I think you answered you own question. Here's what you do...break up before you go so you can find some excessively hairy dude over there in Greece to have some fun with.