Did I do the right thing?
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From: Delaware
Nobody's asking you to do that. Just treat the girl like a co-worker instead of a future girlfriend. She does not sound like that much of a prize anyway.
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i remember that old post you made about 6 months ago about her, can't believe she still has her job and that you still kinda like her. if shes trailer trash i honestly don't see the attraction even if shes hot as hell. and i can't believe your boss would even consider firing you for punching a wall. if no damage was done, he didn't see you do it, he shouldn't be able to do to much with out witnesses
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I think the phrase applied in this situation. And that was a great show. "Why God? Why destroy 15 yrs of my life?" "To introduce you to a 29yr old Diesel jeans model with 2 college degrees and her own money"
"How may I serve thee"?
"How may I serve thee"?
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From: Nebo, NC
Man, brings back a memorie. I worked for Lowes here in my home town in highschool. A guy who graduated 1 year before me was working there, we became good friends. One night he goes to a party before work and snorts 2 pain killers and drinks a bunch of beer. Trys to come in and hide from me and the boss man. We were night shift stockers and he had some how gotten by both of us for a least 2 hours, then he got on a forklift moving some carpet rolls. He ended up almost tipping the forklift over when he ran on top of a display lol. He was so hammered it wasn't funny, when he ran over it the lift toppled for a min, and he lost it froze up in fear he was going to flip it boss man had to pull him off there. Good thing I didn't know he was messed up, if I would have not told I would have left that night possibly without a job too.
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From: my apartment
she just called me from a private number and said "I just want you to know that gods gonna get you back"
I just hung up and called my boss
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From: Cypress
Remember these wise words my friend......"No one is going to save your @ss but you!". Don't put it on the line for anyone except for family. Even then you have to realize a lost cause.
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From: Burleson, Texas
Hey guys got a situation.
I'm dealing with this female co-worker at work. shes been here for 6 months and initially we had feelings for each other.. we went out a couple of times months ago and at this point I still care about her but I don't want to be in a relationship with her because she has serious issues. So heres the deal. shes basically ghetto trash. she's totally screwng up her life in a big way. she knows it and wants to change but she doesn't want it bad enough and doesn't really know how to change. she has low self worth, low self esteem. and serious self destructive habits. she's very flakey, self centered, and has become a complete pain in the *** to work with.
ok so heres the straw that broke the camels back. tonight she shows up for work intoxicated... AGAIN... which isn't unusual but tonight I could tell right off the bat. I told another co-worker and we confronted her. she avoided the confrontation and the other co-worker just left. I tried to talk to her one on one telling her that showing up intoxicated is not cool, it needs to stop and that I care about her. she wasn't having any of that, got VERY defensive and started personally attacking me... well eventually my frustration got the better of me and I took out my anger on a solid wall.. no holes or damage cept for my hand. I'm now to the point where I'm sick of dealing with this person and CONSTANTLY protecting her job (I've gone to bat for her MANY times and I am the sole reason she still works here) anyway I tried calling my Boss... no awnser but I'm sure he will see that I tried to call and will eventually ask me whats up....
Did I do the right thing?
I'm dealing with this female co-worker at work. shes been here for 6 months and initially we had feelings for each other.. we went out a couple of times months ago and at this point I still care about her but I don't want to be in a relationship with her because she has serious issues. So heres the deal. shes basically ghetto trash. she's totally screwng up her life in a big way. she knows it and wants to change but she doesn't want it bad enough and doesn't really know how to change. she has low self worth, low self esteem. and serious self destructive habits. she's very flakey, self centered, and has become a complete pain in the *** to work with.
ok so heres the straw that broke the camels back. tonight she shows up for work intoxicated... AGAIN... which isn't unusual but tonight I could tell right off the bat. I told another co-worker and we confronted her. she avoided the confrontation and the other co-worker just left. I tried to talk to her one on one telling her that showing up intoxicated is not cool, it needs to stop and that I care about her. she wasn't having any of that, got VERY defensive and started personally attacking me... well eventually my frustration got the better of me and I took out my anger on a solid wall.. no holes or damage cept for my hand. I'm now to the point where I'm sick of dealing with this person and CONSTANTLY protecting her job (I've gone to bat for her MANY times and I am the sole reason she still works here) anyway I tried calling my Boss... no awnser but I'm sure he will see that I tried to call and will eventually ask me whats up....
Did I do the right thing?
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From: Nebo, NC
I agree with Stealth, shes retaliating agaisnt you. Just leave your boss out of the personaly issues, because you might show him your too much of a hassel calling him everytime someone gets on you. Let her go on her own way she will forget about it sometime. IF not theres always a restraining order 
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From: Atlanta
Just enjoy each day you don't have to run into her at work AND what EVER you do ... NEVER make the booty call. Or it will prove to us that you are officially the one that is f'ed up and needs help. It is my humble opinion that you should not discuss this girl and this situation with ANYONE ... except maybe your parents or a very good friend OUTSIDE of work. Things have a way of coming back with more force ... especially when you discuss these kind of situations with co-workers. People love talking about this kind of stuff... just let it die on its own.
Good luck ..
