My girlfriend thinks the same way your wife does. she had some guy calling her all the time and when i said anything about it she said we are just friends, she wouldn't listen to me and she found out i was right a few weeks later when he tried to be more than friends. Everytime i think of that a$$hole i want to Beat the s**t out of him!

 

If you really want to find her you can you just need to know where to look. If you know her name, you can probably find her email with a good old google search or myspace if she is on it.

 

I hate playing games, but is someone starts them with me I can usually out play them.

 

Pretend that you are the guy making the suggestions to another mans wife... Which would you rather have. A boot up your ***? Or your wife finding out what you are doing? Case closed!

The good part, is that your wife did not hide this from you. Very GOOD for you!

Maker the POS pay!

 

Prefect quote for this topic

 

You are absolutely correct in your response. It's such BS that now adays a good old justified a** whippin can get a man in trouble. This would have been much easier for you to settle 15-20 years ago.

Maybe you could go find him and ask him if he would like to have his A** whooped or if he would like it better if you would contact his wife about this problem. Either way he decides should work out well for you.

 

Yep -- that's a quick, sure way of putting and end to it, and you won't even have to kick anyone's a$$ -- the little lady at home will do it for you while you sit on the couch watching TV!

Seriously, though, my suspicion is that your wife enjoys the attention. Let's face it -- after 10 years of marriage you probably aren't showering her with the same level of affection you did when you were trying to close the deal! Here comes this boy out of nowhere telling her how terrific she is, and how pretty she is -- chicks eat chit like that up, no matter how contrived it might be.......

 

Wow. I hate to tell you this buddy, but this guy is trying to nail your wife. I've been married for 5 years and have 2 kids. This guy is married also and he's probably looking to scratch an itch if you know what I mean.

How many guys do you know that go out of their way to "befriend" or "rekindle a friendship" with a woman. Only gay guys have plutonic girlfriends that they have no interest in sleeping with, not straight married ones. If married guys have other female friends, it's because those same females are friends with your wife also. You said yourself that you only met his wife once, 10 years ago. It's way too suspicious that he tries to befriend her again out of the blue after 10 years. That just doesn't happen without alterior motives in mind.

I do not doubt that your wife is trustworthy, faithful and loves you. Not many marriages are like that anymore unfortunately. I am guessing his is starting to wither. I would have lost it at the "condoms" comment myself and at least confronted him about it. Yes, your wife may get upset and tell you that he just wants to be friends. But, if you've been married for 10 years I can promise you she'll get over it if she loves you, which I'm sure she does.

It sounds like you've made it clear to your wife and to this arseclown about how you feel about this. If that's not enough to make him stop, then a more threatening approach may have to be taken. I'd wait and see if it happens again now that all the cards are on the table, if it does then I think you should act. I'm not saying to go out and beat the guy, but maybe a firm talking to in a Public place (like his work or in front of his wife) while your wife isn't around, might be enough embarrasment to him to make him stop for good. Unfortunately for us guys, no matter how old we are, we still tend to think with 2 heads instead of one if you catch my drift. How upset would your wife be if you decided to contact an old female friend out of the blue after 10 years, and start flirting. That is essentially what he's doing based on what I have read from your posts. I wish you luck and it sucks that you have to be put in this situation. However, the guys on here that told you you let it go probably aren't married and probably don't have kids either. Do what you think is best, but I would definately take this into consideration.

 

No self respecting man that gave a crap about his wife or girlfriend would let this go!

I think you have escalated the situation correctly. However it sounds like this guy isn't giving you too many more options.

 

Let's see a picture of you and your wife and we'll let you know if you have something to worry about. (Just kidding around)

This is exactly why my fiancee and I don't use myspace. There are just too many crazy people out there.

 

Ya it looks like he is giving you only one option. I would have confronted him along time ago about it. And I definately agree that letting his wife in on whats going on by far would be the best punishment for an @ssclown like that. Dont get me wrong I usually defualt to a good ol' @ss beating when it comes to stuff like this, but I really think you could do more damage by letting his wife know what he is doing.

 

I totally agree. I hate the idea of the assclown getting his family broken up... but that is exactly his intentions towards 98Lariet4x4. I say do the above, as I confer.

 

Ya it does suck that his family has the potential of being broken up and it does suck! I feel bad for his kids, but on the other hand call me a selfish ***** but if it comes down to his family being split up and suffering or mine I will choose his any day of the week! 98lariet sorry you have to deal with this chit!

 

My question is, why the hell is anyone over the age of 25 on myspace? Havent ya'll got more imporant things to do (work, kids, going back to school, etc) then it sit around on a social networking site designed for highschoolers and college kids?

 

Yes. That's why we all sit around on a truck site designed for Gear Heads and do our socializing in the GD forum. It's the "My Space" for our generation.