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Well my g-friend left me after 8 years of being together. She use to check my mileage on my truck. Timing me how long it takes to get to the store and back. Calling me if 5 minutes late. I told her I'm prisoner in my own home. I could not go to the mall with her. Accusing me looking at a other females. If I went down my parents she use to call them, to make sure I was there. Yes she was psycho. She got her stuff out while I was work. We are going to my camper to get her stuff out today. She could not get her stuff out because of the slide out was in the way.
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When somebody starts accusing you of cheating, and you aren't, it's time to start looking at what they are doing behind your back. Cheaters tend to be insanely jealous. They figure that if they are cheating, or have in the past, then everyone does it. That, taken into account with the irritation factor, means you're probably better off.
Of course, she might just be crazy. lol
Of course, she might just be crazy. lol
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Sorry for you loss, breakups are tough. But now I have a better woman [much better than I deserve] than I had when I put up with that crap. It took me awhile to make a new group of friends, because the crazy one ran my old friends off.
She must have been good for something
,you did keep her happy for some reason
If it was that bad make sure there is no reconciliation.
you'll be happy. She never will.
She must have been good for something
,you did keep her happy for some reason If it was that bad make sure there is no reconciliation.
you'll be happy. She never will.
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Sorry to hear about that man. 8 years is quite a while, so it must be tough but hang in there. Life is stressful enough without someone constantly questioning you. Although you loved her love is built on trust. Usually girls who have been crushed by a guy or father figure act this way, some believe that every man will cheat if given the opportunity. Sorry you got pulled into that and she wasnt able to overcome it. Look at the bright side, you cell bill will be alot cheaper.
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She swears she never cheated on me, and I never cheated on her. I had opportunity's but never have. she kept me satisfied. She tried to get everyone against me, even friends. They told me. But they all know how she was.
. She tried to get everyone against me, even friends. They told me. But they all know how she was.
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If you can't decide in a lot less than 8 years whether you want to split or get married, you have a problem anyway.
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You must have really loved that girl alot or she was really keeping you happy some other way to keep her around for eight years! Acting like I would have done been kicked her *** to the curb!
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Originally Posted by ManualF150
I can't even find a girl... all of the ones that I've talked to either didn't like more or else they are already in a relationship.
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Heck, I dunno... but it's gotta be the girls around here... but I've asked this one if she wanted to go out and have some fun with her friends and stuff... she thought I wanted to be her girl friend?
I like like... WTH.. noooo you stupid idiot. Just a friend... not partner... just a freakin' casual friend... that's all. Stupidity.
I almost wanted to tell her that she's got the intelligence of a can of beans.
I like like... WTH.. noooo you stupid idiot. Just a friend... not partner... just a freakin' casual friend... that's all. Stupidity.
I almost wanted to tell her that she's got the intelligence of a can of beans.
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Originally Posted by 05extcabflare
Well my g-friend left me after 8 years of being together. She use to check my mileage on my truck. Timing me how long it takes to get to the store and back. Calling me if 5 minutes late. I told her I'm prisoner in my own home. I could not go to the mall with her. Accusing me looking at a other females. If I went down my parents she use to call them, to make sure I was there. Yes she was psycho. She got her stuff out while I was work. We are going to my camper to get her stuff out today. She could not get her stuff out because of the slide out was in the way.
Codependency - A Matter of Control
Codependency, for others, doesn't express itself in a desire to control, but instead, in the need to be controlled by others. Because it is nearly impossible for Codependents to say "no" to people, they may find themselves the victims in physically and emotionally abusive relationships. They believe that if they can be good enough, or loving enough, they can change the other person's behavior. They sometimes blame themselves for the abusive behavior: "If only I had not forgotten to do the dishes, he would not have had to hit me."
Codependency, for others, doesn't express itself in a desire to control, but instead, in the need to be controlled by others. Because it is nearly impossible for Codependents to say "no" to people, they may find themselves the victims in physically and emotionally abusive relationships. They believe that if they can be good enough, or loving enough, they can change the other person's behavior. They sometimes blame themselves for the abusive behavior: "If only I had not forgotten to do the dishes, he would not have had to hit me."
