From the time I was 21-24 I spent 90% of my nights drunk. I have blacked out maybe 2 times my entire life

 

something makes me question that. I black out very often when I drink but I still function relatively ok. This is the reason I always have someone I trust around because they are used to filling me in on parts I cannot recollect. The other night I drank 4 1/2 AMF's and a couple car bomb like drinks (I forget what they were called). I would have blacked out after the first 2 or 3, I would have been alright but definitely would have not remembered. For some reason my memory is the FIRST thing to go when I drink. For others it's their decision making ability's/judgment (lol) but mine is certainly memory. I don't have a good memory even sober so drinking just adds to the confusion. 200 blackouts in a year doesn't make you an alcoholic in my opinion (I will probably get flamed for this) unless you were dependent on it and had cravings to get drunk in the day, and so on.

 

I believe your thinking of pass out, not black out

 

Humm....soo.....back to girls now.... haha Any more tips on how to start talking to girls without making it akward?

 

yes just be yourself and be honest with her. Besides why are so many of you guys dissing on women??? we are not all that bad. Some are airheads and some are retards, but come on, we are not all that bad. Give us human normal ones some credit

 

lol be myself? humm lots of girls dont give me a chance and it makes me mad but oh well ill give it a shot! i donno whent he next time im gonna see her is gunna be thoe...

 

When I'm Single [and I almost am again] i just tell them almost dirty jokes and keep telling them until they smile. Everyone loves to laugh,just don't go overboard

 

Hey shifty:
You have to learn how to carry the same beer or drink around for a long time . Then you act like you're just a little buzed and get funny.
Women like you sober, happy, and interesting. You could take your shirt off and beat your chest if thats what you want to do. But Tarzan already took Jane so forget that crap... O yea, Don't curse, there are only a few of those words, after that you simply use them over and over "very dull"

 

Yes I had a bad drinking problem, Probably should have gone to AA but I past that stage of my life But I am proud to say I never drove drunk. Blackout's to me is drinking until you don't remember (about 7 to 9 double 151 and cokes) and drinking for a few more hours going to different bars and so forth, and sometimes waking up and makeing it to work and then realizing that you are at work. Basically there a few hours that you don't remember (not passed out). There are alot of stories I heard of things I did and I have no clue about. The submarine life is a different way of life, we would have duty( stay at work overnight) every 3 to 4 days. If i wasn't at duty that night I was at the bar from 8 p.m. to 4 a.m. and if was a workday I was back at work again at 6:30 or 7:00 a.m.

 

i do do that.. i had the same drink for like 45 mins. i only drank half a pint in like 5 hours. We got there a lil late. But thats what i do i just get enogh to get to the buzz then i just chill out. Yeah me without a shirt.....thats like anti-girl stuff right there haha. I dont swear alot as it is... i just pour a nice drink or if im to lazy ill just swig a lil from the Pint then some of the pop. i get to lazy to mix my drinks. Im waiting for my buddy to get off work and then i think were going to hang out with the same people again. i think ill start off like "So were do you go to college at?" or somethin like that...

 

just go up to her sometime and be like Hey, I saw you at _______'s party and didnt get a chance to introduce myself then go on. It always works for me atleast

 

humm yeah i could give that a shot because my friend nick didnt introduce me to anyone there and one of the girls was like...Whos that? and he goes oh thats dave hes a really nice guy...she goes you prob shoulda introduced him to every one.... But oh well 2 night i think is a bigger party. ill try that line. lol ill deff leave all the cheesy lines at home and just like talk to her and see how it goes from there. My friend nick said outta that group of kids he really doesnt talk to the girl that i liked there. Oh well i think i got this!

 

Well we didnt go to that party last night my buddy didnt get off work till 11:45 and then he had to go back this morning at 6AM so we didnt go out but he said theres a bigger party at the same place it was a few nights ago. So hopefully that girl will be there

 

Have you done any research on this chic. Find out more about her and play into it. Do not be to direct or obvious. Actulay get her attention talking to someone about a subject important to her. Keep it mild and ask a few question as if you know nothing about her , and have not paid to much attention to her. If you play it right answer her questions pausing to digest what she said, but be kinda unknowlaegable trying to learn about that subject. She will tell you without you asking her directly. Then play it cool, when you get the hang of it women get interested quick. Then mention going somewhere with a group. But first cheer your *** up.!!, and don't talk about past experience with chicks.

Let her know you are not looking to just get laid unless she tthe coversation in that direction. When I have been single I never had to ask about sex, they will bring it up when they're ready[no pressure]
Don not mention future plans about seeing here aqain, just make sure she know you have interest in her mind. That will warm things up'
One other thing is to talk possitive about other people that are there at the party.

 

Yeah ive learned not to talk about old G/F's from past things.... And also im always a no pressure kidna guy when it comes to sex or anything like that. But yeah i dont know anything about her ill ask my buddy nick if he knows anything at all so i can kinda strike up a convo with her....well im gonna go jump in the shower put some smell good on and go out Wish me luck guys