Ok well I have a friend and her x bf will NOT leave her alone. He often parks his car by her house and frequently calls or texts her. He will not leave her alone and obviously doesn't get the point. She just told me that she still has bruises because he hit her on a few occasions. I am pissed because she puts up with it and I told her she needs to consider a restraining order because this is a very serious problem. She is in denial and says she can handle it, but abuse is serious and she will not listen to me. What can I do fellas? She NEEDS to get help, but she will not do it even with me pressing her to. I would beat the **** out of this guy the next time he touches her, but that will not solve anything and it would just cause issues for me. What can I do to help her? I HATE when women are in denial about abuse. My x gf's dad abused her when she was young and luckily he did not touch her while we were dating because his *** would have been in jail faster than you can say child abuse. I am just pissed off guys thanks for the input!

 

Yeah If Someone hit my wife I'd kill them.... i dont mind going back to jail....

 

Yea not trying to go to jail but good suggestion

 

Well honestly catch him in the act and beat the hell out of him. i did that to my wife's dad because he abused her since she was 10.

 

you+baseball bat=no problem

get my drift?

 

I don't play baseball, but I do work on trucks with a large pry bar If he lays a finger on her I'm calling the cops no doubt. If he doesn't get the point then he can say hello to re constructive surgery

 

i would get a few friends together and have a "talk" nothing violent just you and 3 or 4 guys telling him to lay off. the guy needs to know hese not messing with just your ex hese messing with a whole bunch of people.

 

She should get a restraining order.

 

it isn't my ex, just a friend of mine. Sorry for the confusion I was just pointing out that my ex had issues with her dad. This is a good friend of mine who I am talking about. I don't care that much about my ex to tell the truth

 

Miss dropping the soap in the showers?

 

Thank you! Exactly what I told her! oh well he touches her and the cops will be on the way and I will have a pry bar in hand as a defense weapon if he doesn't back off

 

That was ICE COLD right there Totally uncalled for

 

Anyone that says they don't mind going back to prison...for murder...could not resist a good taunting

 

You better get on his nice side he may just say what the hell and make it a double Truck looks great lately btw jspierson89

 

well, you could always provoke something with him and then claim the self defense thing, but remember, excessive force will ruin a self defense plea. be careful. either "make" something happen, or become a stalker yourself and wait for something to happen.

may be bad advice, but sometimes you cant really do much unless you do something you know what i mean!